Everything Comes From Being by Bryant McGill
Stop blaming and start being! We attract what we are. We attract who we are. If you don't like something in your life, look only at who you are. Who you are is why you choose the friends and situations in your life. Who you are is why you choose poorly, or fail to choose wisely. Stop being a victim! If you do not like a certain behavior in others, look within yourself to find the roots of what discomforts you. The conflicts we have with the outside world are often conflicts we have within ourselves.
When you blame others you are effectively proclaiming that you are only response to stimuli. But you are more than response to stimuli. When you blame others, you are affirming that you have no power, and your existence is only a reaction to the power of others. But, you are powerful, if you choose to be. You can choose to be pro-active, assertive and self-defining. You can choose better relationships, better jobs, better places to live, better uses of your time and better ways of treating yourself. Go look in the mirror and have a talk with your real boss, and if you don't like what you see--say, "You're fired!" Find a new and better leader within yourself, for yourself. Lead your life with love and friendship; self-love as your own friend. Lead with honesty, total integrity, compassion, patience and tolerance--toward yourself! If you live with values for yourself, then you become of great value to all who know you. It starts with you. Quit waiting for others to give to you; it is not going to happen.
It is completely up to you. Quit looking for the answers outside of yourself. The invitation to something better is not arriving from any source outside of yourself--EVER. Give yourself permission. Those who get the invitation are the ones who realize, that the invitation, only comes from deep within. You are the authority and the gatekeeper of your own life. Once you become something, only then, are you worthy of it. The life you want is a manifestation of self-realization. It is easy; just be, and have. Begin accepting the gift now, and have every beautiful and good thing in life--and then SHARE.
Everything comes by being! Be the love you seek. Be the friend you seek. Be the lover you seek. Be the honesty you seek. Be the integrity you seek. Be the patience you seek. Be the tolerance you seek. Be the compassion you seek.
Sunday, December 7, 2014
Thursday, October 30, 2014
Lessons learnt Teaching for 5 and a half month
Children's Day
I learnt from adults:
Be yourself when doing tasks using my common sense instead of following others instructions/ wait for others to discuss with me!
Be smart instead of hardworking!
Be independent in completing tasks!
Be honest!
Volunteer in working!
Don't do something without my soul!
I should tell I'm busy in adjusting behind stage instead of telling no enough microphone!
TODAY,
I should stand properly on stage by standing at suitable place to give prizes.As I have asked who should take prizes out, colleagues didn't really tell me properly!! Or I should rest properly to think clearly before program starts!
I should give respect to the elders or anybody as they all let us learn something which we may not know or forgot gradually!
3 more weeks, I should teach children to have good attitudes rather than good results to have better relationships with the others in future! TEACH the others than I will LEARN at the same time!
I have to learn IT:
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Know how to control disciplines of students by understanding each students' reasons in acting that ways!
Cases:
1G Class monitor 严千惠 fell down and injured her arm as I let them to exercise at wrong place!
1H Class monitor's 杨凯弥 face being scratched because I lost control of my class discipline! As giving attention to a few naughty students.
1G 郑乐摇 bruise on her hand as I punish her using stick! I should punish on hand palm only.
1G 杨欣怡 bruise on her arm as I use hand to punish her body during PJ! I should stay away and punish them instantly instead of letting them continue exercise!
1E 陈冠宏 I should be more STRICT in class control by not letting anybody to walk around!! Sit in front of blackboard by choosing a few naughty students! Catch their attention in learning!
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Reflection in Teaching Profession
It is my third time in teaching children in schools, both in primary & secondary levels, 5 weeks, 14 weeks & 3 months. To consider a longer period as long term choice of job have to be thought deeply & thoroughly. I can't mixed it with my personal life or feelings as being an educator influence a lot of human beings, community and society.
I have not taken this profession seriously that I view teaching job just as a money earning channel, but I have neglected that to be respected and respect the others are the most important to happily involving in teaching. Otherwise, I would lose myself and depressed without knowing why I choose to teach.
Teachers have advised me to be a really professional in this noble job- teaching. Don't neglect their learning and other aspects, but standing sided by sided with them to have better communication with them, especially in information boosted IT world in this generations. People have twisted values rather than the truths. They wish to have people understanding their behaviours rather than forcing & urging them to do this and that. So be rational in my actions with wisdom from my Creator, all Mighty dear God. You are my strengths. Infinite praise to HIM from my soul, my heart and my mouth. Your love is the only true love and strength for me to continue walking,flying in my lifetime.
I should be strict with my instructions and make everyone acquiring knowledge and values at the same time, on their paces. Creativity with explanations from my own understanding and words are the best. Keep them be confident in their studies and let them learn at the firsthand, then only asking them to practise based on their new knowledge to activate their critical thinking. If I'm so lazy to use my brain, how about them as students? In addition, they may not really comprehend what I have told them. Thus, teaching while making sure they understand is the most essential aspect to achieve teaching and learning objectives. Scold them doesn't mean I do not love them. But scold with wisdom to inspire them, not to embarrass them. Be careful my words and tones.I, as a teacher have to be the centered of the class, as a leader and a guider.
To be able to manage my own class is the most basic before involving with the whole school, or even the society. Thanks God for helping me while I felt disappointed. Firstly, a disciplied teacher scolded a class of students without acknowledgement of mine, after I revealed my problem in the class. I know that he really helped me. I thought he will not take any actions as he told me to tell the class teacher. Thanks God and blessed him. But after a while, they become naughty again. I think the problem is within me, my positive influenceness among students has to be filled in. Let them know they still can talk in the class, but emphasize in their academic studies first. Secondly, from the Christian radio,'Jia Ying Guan Bo', I learn that a medical profession changes her job to be a teacher, with courses about their interesting topics such as 'difference between two sexes' and 'Youths with No Regret' as well as their awareness of their inner values and healthiness! Suddenly, I think to introduce Nutrilite supplements to my students to help their overall health and performance in their academic aspect. At that time, I was taking my health supplements after 'abondoning' them for a few months because of sadness. How surprised I was as I used to take care of my health so much! 'Is we who change the worlds, or the
worlds change us?'
Not to forget my ambition is to be a lecturer. THUS, talking a lot with points is very important. Be a matured and an independent adult. Be focused.
To have flexible time, I want to have my own tuition center with a few tutors. Other time, spreading good news and Gospel that give hope to people. Doing Amway and Hong Leong insurance are good too!
Integrating the ‘four Cs’ into instruction, the “four Cs”—critical thinking, communication, collaboration, and creativity, as 21st-century skills.
1. Adopt your vision.
2. Create a community consensus.
3. Align your system around these goals.
4. Build professional capacity.
5. Focus your curriculum and assessment.
6. Support your teachers.
7. Improve and innovate.
He said many school districts begin with step three, but articulating a vision and creating a community consensus around teaching the “four Cs” are essential to success.
Kay also identified three key “building blocks” for integrating these skills into instruction: (1) courageous leadership, (2) assessment tied to 21st-century skills, and (3) creating a culture of “laser-like focus” on collaboration and continuous improvement.
I have not taken this profession seriously that I view teaching job just as a money earning channel, but I have neglected that to be respected and respect the others are the most important to happily involving in teaching. Otherwise, I would lose myself and depressed without knowing why I choose to teach.
Teachers have advised me to be a really professional in this noble job- teaching. Don't neglect their learning and other aspects, but standing sided by sided with them to have better communication with them, especially in information boosted IT world in this generations. People have twisted values rather than the truths. They wish to have people understanding their behaviours rather than forcing & urging them to do this and that. So be rational in my actions with wisdom from my Creator, all Mighty dear God. You are my strengths. Infinite praise to HIM from my soul, my heart and my mouth. Your love is the only true love and strength for me to continue walking,flying in my lifetime.
I should be strict with my instructions and make everyone acquiring knowledge and values at the same time, on their paces. Creativity with explanations from my own understanding and words are the best. Keep them be confident in their studies and let them learn at the firsthand, then only asking them to practise based on their new knowledge to activate their critical thinking. If I'm so lazy to use my brain, how about them as students? In addition, they may not really comprehend what I have told them. Thus, teaching while making sure they understand is the most essential aspect to achieve teaching and learning objectives. Scold them doesn't mean I do not love them. But scold with wisdom to inspire them, not to embarrass them. Be careful my words and tones.I, as a teacher have to be the centered of the class, as a leader and a guider.
To be able to manage my own class is the most basic before involving with the whole school, or even the society. Thanks God for helping me while I felt disappointed. Firstly, a disciplied teacher scolded a class of students without acknowledgement of mine, after I revealed my problem in the class. I know that he really helped me. I thought he will not take any actions as he told me to tell the class teacher. Thanks God and blessed him. But after a while, they become naughty again. I think the problem is within me, my positive influenceness among students has to be filled in. Let them know they still can talk in the class, but emphasize in their academic studies first. Secondly, from the Christian radio,'Jia Ying Guan Bo', I learn that a medical profession changes her job to be a teacher, with courses about their interesting topics such as 'difference between two sexes' and 'Youths with No Regret' as well as their awareness of their inner values and healthiness! Suddenly, I think to introduce Nutrilite supplements to my students to help their overall health and performance in their academic aspect. At that time, I was taking my health supplements after 'abondoning' them for a few months because of sadness. How surprised I was as I used to take care of my health so much! 'Is we who change the worlds, or the
worlds change us?'
Not to forget my ambition is to be a lecturer. THUS, talking a lot with points is very important. Be a matured and an independent adult. Be focused.
To have flexible time, I want to have my own tuition center with a few tutors. Other time, spreading good news and Gospel that give hope to people. Doing Amway and Hong Leong insurance are good too!
Integrating the ‘four Cs’ into instruction, the “four Cs”—critical thinking, communication, collaboration, and creativity, as 21st-century skills.
1. Adopt your vision.
2. Create a community consensus.
3. Align your system around these goals.
4. Build professional capacity.
5. Focus your curriculum and assessment.
6. Support your teachers.
7. Improve and innovate.
He said many school districts begin with step three, but articulating a vision and creating a community consensus around teaching the “four Cs” are essential to success.
Kay also identified three key “building blocks” for integrating these skills into instruction: (1) courageous leadership, (2) assessment tied to 21st-century skills, and (3) creating a culture of “laser-like focus” on collaboration and continuous improvement.
求知若飢，虛心若愚
忘記別人怎樣得罪你，是你做人喜樂的開始；
記得別人怎樣對你好，是你盡責任的開始；
活在神面前有絕對信仰，活在歷史中間有絕對盼望。----唐崇榮
【幸福三絕招】
沉得住氣：是睿智的彰顯、理智的沉澱、成熟的標誌，
彎得下腰：就是做人要謙卑，海納百川，能屈能伸，
抬得起頭：無論身處逆境還是順境，都保持樂觀進取的心。
如果你太軟弱，上帝會用環境來讓你剛強；
如果你太安逸，上帝會用環境來激你奮起；
如果你太驕傲，上帝會用環境來教你謙卑。
莫讓批評的話，讓我們失去熱情。
求知若飢，虛心若愚
God will heal your feelings. He will heal your mind. He will heal your life.
For God alone, O my soul, wait in silence,
for my hope is from Him. ~Psalm 62:5
Lord, I blew it … again. Sometimes it’s so hard to hold back my anger. I unleash it in hurtful words, harsh tones, and loud rants. But You, Father, show me kindness that I can model to others. You teach me how to respond wisely and calmly. Please forgive me for not having more self-control. I long to represent You well. Amen.
Jesus wants us to live with a confident heart so we can accomplish what He’s calling us to do. And He wants to change us from the inside out so we can learn to completely depend on Him! - Renee Swope
"When doubt tells you you're are not good enough, focus on the TRUTHS that God says you are fewfully and wonderfully made; all of His works are wonderful and YOU are ONE of them.(Psalm 139:14)
"God has challenged me to grow in my knowledge of Him but I have to CHOOSE whether or not to display this growth through my actions." ~ Lysa TerKeurst
Praying has an amazing way of filling in some really big gaps. Praying helps me not feel so alone on this mothering journey. Praying connects me to God’s most tender mercies and most gentle convictions.
When I pray…
- I see things more clearly.
- I realize perspectives otherwise beyond me.
- I gain wisdom that can override my frail humanity.
- I feel convicted that sometimes I am wrong.
- I feel confident that sometimes I am right.
- I rewrite the broken places of my legacy.
記得別人怎樣對你好，是你盡責任的開始；
活在神面前有絕對信仰，活在歷史中間有絕對盼望。----唐崇榮
【幸福三絕招】
沉得住氣：是睿智的彰顯、理智的沉澱、成熟的標誌，
彎得下腰：就是做人要謙卑，海納百川，能屈能伸，
抬得起頭：無論身處逆境還是順境，都保持樂觀進取的心。
如果你太軟弱，上帝會用環境來讓你剛強；
如果你太安逸，上帝會用環境來激你奮起；
如果你太驕傲，上帝會用環境來教你謙卑。
莫讓批評的話，讓我們失去熱情。
求知若飢，虛心若愚
God will heal your feelings. He will heal your mind. He will heal your life.
For God alone, O my soul, wait in silence,
for my hope is from Him. ~Psalm 62:5
Lord, I blew it … again. Sometimes it’s so hard to hold back my anger. I unleash it in hurtful words, harsh tones, and loud rants. But You, Father, show me kindness that I can model to others. You teach me how to respond wisely and calmly. Please forgive me for not having more self-control. I long to represent You well. Amen.
Jesus wants us to live with a confident heart so we can accomplish what He’s calling us to do. And He wants to change us from the inside out so we can learn to completely depend on Him! - Renee Swope
"When doubt tells you you're are not good enough, focus on the TRUTHS that God says you are fewfully and wonderfully made; all of His works are wonderful and YOU are ONE of them.(Psalm 139:14)
"God has challenged me to grow in my knowledge of Him but I have to CHOOSE whether or not to display this growth through my actions." ~ Lysa TerKeurst
Praying has an amazing way of filling in some really big gaps. Praying helps me not feel so alone on this mothering journey. Praying connects me to God’s most tender mercies and most gentle convictions.
When I pray…
- I see things more clearly.
- I realize perspectives otherwise beyond me.
- I gain wisdom that can override my frail humanity.
- I feel convicted that sometimes I am wrong.
- I feel confident that sometimes I am right.
- I rewrite the broken places of my legacy.
Everything Comes From Being by Bryant McGill
Stop blaming and start being! We attract what we are. We attract who we are. If you don't like something in your life, look only at who you are. Who you are is why you choose the friends and situations in your life. Who you are is why you choose poorly, or fail to choose wisely. Stop being a victim! If you do not like a certain behavior in others, look within yourself to find the roots of what discomforts you. The conflicts we have with the outside world are often conflicts we have within ourselves.
When you blame others you are effectively proclaiming that you are only response to stimuli. But you are more than response to stimuli. When you blame others, you are affirming that you have no power, and your existence is only a reaction to the power of others. But, you are powerful, if you choose to be. You can choose to be pro-active, assertive and self-defining. You can choose better relationships, better jobs, better places to live, better uses of your time and better ways of treating yourself. Go look in the mirror and have a talk with your real boss, and if you don't like what you see--say, "You're fired!" Find a new and better leader within yourself, for yourself. Lead your life with love and friendship; self-love as your own friend. Lead with honesty, total integrity, compassion, patience and tolerance--toward yourself! If you live with values for yourself, then you become of great value to all who know you. It starts with you. Quit waiting for others to give to you; it is not going to happen.
It is completely up to you. Quit looking for the answers outside of yourself. The invitation to something better is not arriving from any source outside of yourself--EVER. Give yourself permission. Those who get the invitation are the ones who realize, that the invitation, only comes from deep within. You are the authority and the gatekeeper of your own life. Once you become something, only then, are you worthy of it. The life you want is a manifestation of self-realization. It is easy; just be, and have. Begin accepting the gift now, and have every beautiful and good thing in life--and then SHARE.
Everything comes by being! Be the love you seek. Be the friend you seek. Be the lover you seek. Be the honesty you seek. Be the integrity you seek. Be the patience you seek. Be the tolerance you seek. Be the compassion you seek.
Stop blaming and start being! We attract what we are. We attract who we are. If you don't like something in your life, look only at who you are. Who you are is why you choose the friends and situations in your life. Who you are is why you choose poorly, or fail to choose wisely. Stop being a victim! If you do not like a certain behavior in others, look within yourself to find the roots of what discomforts you. The conflicts we have with the outside world are often conflicts we have within ourselves.
When you blame others you are effectively proclaiming that you are only response to stimuli. But you are more than response to stimuli. When you blame others, you are affirming that you have no power, and your existence is only a reaction to the power of others. But, you are powerful, if you choose to be. You can choose to be pro-active, assertive and self-defining. You can choose better relationships, better jobs, better places to live, better uses of your time and better ways of treating yourself. Go look in the mirror and have a talk with your real boss, and if you don't like what you see--say, "You're fired!" Find a new and better leader within yourself, for yourself. Lead your life with love and friendship; self-love as your own friend. Lead with honesty, total integrity, compassion, patience and tolerance--toward yourself! If you live with values for yourself, then you become of great value to all who know you. It starts with you. Quit waiting for others to give to you; it is not going to happen.
It is completely up to you. Quit looking for the answers outside of yourself. The invitation to something better is not arriving from any source outside of yourself--EVER. Give yourself permission. Those who get the invitation are the ones who realize, that the invitation, only comes from deep within. You are the authority and the gatekeeper of your own life. Once you become something, only then, are you worthy of it. The life you want is a manifestation of self-realization. It is easy; just be, and have. Begin accepting the gift now, and have every beautiful and good thing in life--and then SHARE.
Everything comes by being! Be the love you seek. Be the friend you seek. Be the lover you seek. Be the honesty you seek. Be the integrity you seek. Be the patience you seek. Be the tolerance you seek. Be the compassion you seek.
Saturday, August 24, 2013
Friday, August 9, 2013
A Totally Broken & Renew Me
惟有眼泪是真的，瞬间压抑的思绪顿悟，再努力的压抑，也压抑不了痛。
I confess that :-
I am hurt because of my selfish love. Hope people will understand my situations but it's impossible at all. No one will want to be your unconditionally helper, except dearest God.
Even so, I am totally blessed as I have going through all the down and up and this will help me to give my helping hand to those around me. I know I have not really understand my passion in life yet. Thus, in order to improve people's life to be better, I shall not think of the negativity which may bring even worse cases. An indefinite thanksgiving to my dear Lord Jesus Christ. I am sorry for what I have acted till now.
I know I did not appreciate things that I have undergone, but I really give thanks from the bottom of my heart & open my heart again to my God & love people as I love myself. I shall see them as your precious blood saved children. Yeah, I'm sorry for just self pity,as YOU are more humble & went through more difficult moments throughout her life time. :)
What goes around, comes around.
Thanks to the Lord.
1) My lovely,growing & joyful family.
2) My study financial matter was sponsored by parents.
3) I was able to complete my three years degree study all because of the grace of Lord Jesus Christ.
4) People around me who have taught me & learnt their good sides.
Oh Lord,please give me wisdom so that I can honour your Name above all.
With my limited wisdom and knowledge, I know I can't do anything that can lead to positiveness, except when I seek You & always want You to be with me, as human beings are really weak & often lack of rationality where they are usually emotionally.
Oh Lord, please bless and let people who have lost their directions in lives can see the light from you alone. I pray for my students,SMK Sri Tanjong & teachers as well. Their names are Lee Chun Xian, Gan Heng Boon, Khu Boon Jie, Wong Kai Sheng,Yi Fan,& many more. They have let me know that confidence is not from outer materials such as knowledges only, but our characteristics & attitudes towards life & ways to solve matters or problems. Their high levels of comprehending relationships between people make me like them a lot as their true selves are easily revealed and not shy to confront their true feelings and opinions. Thanks to them & my dear Lord. From now onward, I will not disappoint them anymore because of one person who may have influence my mood in teaching the future leaders. Love you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dear Lord, please bless my professional road in educating students. :)
I confess that :-
I am hurt because of my selfish love. Hope people will understand my situations but it's impossible at all. No one will want to be your unconditionally helper, except dearest God.
Even so, I am totally blessed as I have going through all the down and up and this will help me to give my helping hand to those around me. I know I have not really understand my passion in life yet. Thus, in order to improve people's life to be better, I shall not think of the negativity which may bring even worse cases. An indefinite thanksgiving to my dear Lord Jesus Christ. I am sorry for what I have acted till now.
I know I did not appreciate things that I have undergone, but I really give thanks from the bottom of my heart & open my heart again to my God & love people as I love myself. I shall see them as your precious blood saved children. Yeah, I'm sorry for just self pity,as YOU are more humble & went through more difficult moments throughout her life time. :)
What goes around, comes around.
Thanks to the Lord.
1) My lovely,growing & joyful family.
2) My study financial matter was sponsored by parents.
3) I was able to complete my three years degree study all because of the grace of Lord Jesus Christ.
4) People around me who have taught me & learnt their good sides.
Oh Lord,please give me wisdom so that I can honour your Name above all.
With my limited wisdom and knowledge, I know I can't do anything that can lead to positiveness, except when I seek You & always want You to be with me, as human beings are really weak & often lack of rationality where they are usually emotionally.
Oh Lord, please bless and let people who have lost their directions in lives can see the light from you alone. I pray for my students,SMK Sri Tanjong & teachers as well. Their names are Lee Chun Xian, Gan Heng Boon, Khu Boon Jie, Wong Kai Sheng,Yi Fan,& many more. They have let me know that confidence is not from outer materials such as knowledges only, but our characteristics & attitudes towards life & ways to solve matters or problems. Their high levels of comprehending relationships between people make me like them a lot as their true selves are easily revealed and not shy to confront their true feelings and opinions. Thanks to them & my dear Lord. From now onward, I will not disappoint them anymore because of one person who may have influence my mood in teaching the future leaders. Love you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dear Lord, please bless my professional road in educating students. :)
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