1.社会充满着不公平的现象。
但你先不要想去改造它,只能先适应它。
(因为你管不了它。)
2.世界不会在意你的自尊,人们看的只是你的成就。
在你没有成就以前,切勿过分强调自尊。
(因为你越强调自尊,越对你不利。)
3.你只是中学毕业,通常不会成为CEO,直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。
(直到此时,人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业)
4.当你陷入人为困境时,不要抱怨,你只能默默地吸取教训。
(你要悄悄地振作起来,重新奋起。)
5.你要懂得:在没有你之前,你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。
你应该想到,这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。
(你永远要感恩和孝敬他们,才是硬道理。)
6.在学校里,你考第几已不是那么重要,但进入社会却不然。
不管你去哪里,都要分等排名。
(社会、公司要排名次是常见的事,要鼓起勇气竞争才对。)
7.学校里有节假日,到公司打工则不然,
你几乎不能休息,很少能轻松地过节假日。
(否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了,甚至会让你永远落后。)
8.在学校,老师会帮助你学习,到公司却不会。
如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格,那是你还没有进入公司打工。
因为,如果公司对你不严厉,你就要失业了。
(你必须清醒地认识到:公司比学校更要严格要求自己。)
9.人们都喜欢看电视剧,但你不要看,那并不是你的生活。
只要在公司工作,你是无暇看电视剧的。
(奉劝你不要看,否则你走上看电视连续剧之路,
而且看得津津有味,那你将失去成功的资格。)
10.永远不要在背后批评别人,尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能..
(因为这样的心态,会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路。)
May your day be warm and breezy, light and easy. May everything be sunny, as sweet as honey. May all be well and right-- happy and bright. May everything you touch be smooth sailing, inspiring, and fulfilling. You guessed it. I'm wishing you a great day!
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Thursday, June 30, 2011
看完这21个故事的人,30岁前都成了富翁.. 你的想法会有所改变
【1】
甲去买烟
烟29元
但他没火柴
跟店员说:
“顺便送一盒火柴吧..”
店员没给
乙去买烟
烟29元
他也没火柴
跟店员说:
“便宜一毛吧..”
最后他用这一毛买一盒火柴
这是最简单的心理边际效应
第一种:
店主认为自己在一个商品上赚钱了
另外一个没赚钱
赚钱感觉指数为1
第二种:
店主认为两个商品都赚钱了
赚 钱指数为2
当然心理倾向第二种了
同样..
这种心理还表现在买一送一的花招上
顾客认为有一样东西不用付钱就赚了
其实都是心理边际效应在作怪
启示:
变换一种方式
往往能起到意想不到的效果
通常很多事情换一种做法结果就不同了
人生道路上..
改善心智模式和思维方式是很重要的
【2】
有个小男孩
有一天妈妈带着他到杂货店去买东西
老板看到这个可爱的小孩就打开一罐糖果
要小男孩自己拿一把糖果
但是这个男孩却没有任何 动作
几次的邀请之后
老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中
回到家中
母亲好奇地问小男孩
为什么没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓呢?
小男孩回答很妙:
“ 因为我的手比较小呀..
而老板的手比较大
所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多”
启示:
这是一个聪明的孩子
他知道自己的有限
而更重要的..
他也知道别人比自己强
凡事不只靠自己的力量
学会适时地依靠他人
是一种谦卑
更是一种聪明
【3】
美国知名主持人林克莱特
有一天访问一名小朋友
问他说:
“你长大后想要当做什么呀?”
小朋友天真地回答:
“嗯……
我要当飞机的驾驶员”
林克 莱特接着问:
“如果有一天
你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都熄火了
你会怎么办?”
小朋友想了想:
“我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带
然后我挂上我 的降落伞跳出去”
当在场的观众笑得东倒西歪时
林克莱特继续注视着这孩子
想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙?
没想到接着孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出
这才使得 林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之心
远非笔墨所能形容
于是林克莱特问他说:
“为什么你要这么做?”
小孩的答案透露了这个孩子真挚的想法:
“我要去拿燃料
我还要 回来”
启示:
这就是“听的艺术”
一是听话不要听一半
二是不要把自己的意思
投射到别人所说的话上头
要学会聆听
用心听、虚心听
【4】
有两个和尚
他们分别住在相邻的两座山上的庙里
这两座山之间有一条溪
于是这两个和尚每天都会在同一时间下山去溪边挑水
久而久之他么变成为了好朋友
就 这样时间在每天挑水中
不知不觉已经过了五年
突然有一天
左边这座山的和尚没有下山挑水
右边那座山的和尚心想:
“他大概睡过头了”
便不以为意
哪知道第二天
左边这座山的和尚还是没有下山挑水
第三天也一样
过了一个星期还是一样
直到过了一个月右边那座山的和尚终于受不了
他心想:
“我的朋友可能生病 了
我要过去拜访他
看看能帮上什么忙”
于是他便爬上了左边这座山去探望他的老朋友
等他到了左边这座山的庙
看到他的老友之后大吃一惊
因为他的老 友正在庙前打太极拳
一点也不像一个月没喝水的人
他很好奇地问:
“你已经一个月没有下山挑水了
难道你可以不用喝水吗?”
左边这座山的和尚说:
“来来 来..
我带你去看”
于是他带着右边那座山的和尚走到庙的后院
指着一口井说:
“这五年来
我每天做完功课后都会抽空挖这口井
即使有时很忙..
能挖多少就算 多少
如今终于让我挖出井水
我就不用再下山挑水
我可以有更多时间练我喜欢的太极拳”
启示:
我们在公司领的薪水再多
那都是挑水
而把握下班后的时间挖一口属于自己的井
培养自己另一方面的实力
未来当我们年纪大了
体力拼不过年轻人了
依然还是有水喝
而且还能喝得很悠闲
【5】
有两个人相约到山上去寻找精美的石头
甲背了满满的一筐
乙的筐里只有一个他认为是最精美的石头
甲就笑乙:
“你为什么只挑一个啊?”
乙 说:
“漂亮的石头虽然多
但我只选一个最精美的就够了”
甲笑而不语
下山的路上
甲感到负担越来越重
最后不得已不断地从一筐的石头中挑一个最差的扔 下
到下山的时候他的筐里结果只剩下一个石头
启示:
人生中会有许多的东西值得留恋
有的时候你应该学会去放弃
【6】
有一家牙膏厂
产品优良、包装精美
受到顾客的喜爱
营业额连续10年递增
每年的增长率在10%~20%
可到了第11年
业绩停滞下来
以后两年也如此
公司经理召开高级会议、商讨对策
会议中..
公司总裁许诺说:
谁能想出解决问题的办法
让公司的业绩增长
重奖10万元
有位年轻经理站起 来
递给总裁一张纸条
总裁看完后
马上签了一张10万元的支票给了这位经理
那张纸条上写着:
将现在牙膏开口扩大1毫米
消费者每天早晨挤出同样长度的 牙膏
开口扩大了1毫米
每个消费者就多用1毫米宽的牙膏
每天的消费量将多出多少呢..
公司立即更改包装
第14年
公司的营业额增加了32%
启示:
面对生活中的变化
我们常常习惯过去的思维方法
其实只要你把心径扩大1毫米
你就会看到生活中的变化都有它积极的一面
充满了机遇和挑战
【7】
一只火鸡和一头牛闲聊
火鸡说:
我希望能飞到树顶
可我没有勇气
牛说:
为什么不吃一点我的牛粪呢?
他们很有营养
火鸡吃了一点牛粪
发现它 确实给了它足够的力量飞到第一根树枝
第二天
火鸡又吃了更多的牛粪
飞到第二根树枝
两个星期后
火鸡骄傲的飞到了树顶
但不久..
一个农夫看到了它
迅 速的把它从树上射了下来
启示:
牛屎运让你达到顶峰
但不能让你留在那里
【8】
乌鸦站在树上
整天无所事事
兔子看见乌鸦就问:
我能像你一样
整天什么事都不用干吗?
乌鸦说:
当然..
有什么不可以呢?
于是兔子在树下的空地上开始休息
忽然一只狐狸出现了
它跳起来抓住兔子把它吞了下去
启示:
如果你想站着什么事都不做
那你必须站的很高、非常高
【9】
一只小鸟飞到南方去过冬
天很冷..
小鸟几乎冻僵了
于是飞到一大块空地上
一头牛经过那儿
拉了一堆牛粪在小鸟的身上
冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆 里觉得很温暖
渐渐苏醒过来
它温暖而舒服的躺着
不久唱起歌来..
一只路过的野猫听到声音
走过去看个究竟
循着声音
野猫很快发现了躺在粪堆里的小 鸟
把它拽出来吃掉了
启示:
不是每个往你身上拉大粪的人都是你的敌人
也不是每个把你从粪堆里拉出来的人都是你的朋友
还有..
当你躺在粪堆里时
最好把你的嘴闭上
【10】
甲去买烟
烟29元
但他没火柴
跟店员说:
“顺便送一盒火柴吧..”
店员没给
乙去买烟
烟29元
他也没火柴
跟店员说:
“便宜一毛吧..”
最后他用这一毛买一盒火柴
这是最简单的心理边际效应
第一种:
店主认为自己在一个商品上赚钱了
另外一个没赚钱
赚钱感觉指数为1
第二种:
店主认为两个商品都赚钱了
赚 钱指数为2
当然心理倾向第二种了
同样..
这种心理还表现在买一送一的花招上
顾客认为有一样东西不用付钱就赚了
其实都是心理边际效应在作怪
启示:
变换一种方式
往往能起到意想不到的效果
通常很多事情换一种做法结果就不同了
人生道路上..
改善心智模式和思维方式是很重要的
【2】
有个小男孩
有一天妈妈带着他到杂货店去买东西
老板看到这个可爱的小孩就打开一罐糖果
要小男孩自己拿一把糖果
但是这个男孩却没有任何 动作
几次的邀请之后
老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中
回到家中
母亲好奇地问小男孩
为什么没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓呢?
小男孩回答很妙:
“ 因为我的手比较小呀..
而老板的手比较大
所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多”
启示:
这是一个聪明的孩子
他知道自己的有限
而更重要的..
他也知道别人比自己强
凡事不只靠自己的力量
学会适时地依靠他人
是一种谦卑
更是一种聪明
【3】
美国知名主持人林克莱特
有一天访问一名小朋友
问他说:
“你长大后想要当做什么呀?”
小朋友天真地回答:
“嗯……
我要当飞机的驾驶员”
林克 莱特接着问:
“如果有一天
你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都熄火了
你会怎么办?”
小朋友想了想:
“我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带
然后我挂上我 的降落伞跳出去”
当在场的观众笑得东倒西歪时
林克莱特继续注视着这孩子
想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙?
没想到接着孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出
这才使得 林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之心
远非笔墨所能形容
于是林克莱特问他说:
“为什么你要这么做?”
小孩的答案透露了这个孩子真挚的想法:
“我要去拿燃料
我还要 回来”
启示:
这就是“听的艺术”
一是听话不要听一半
二是不要把自己的意思
投射到别人所说的话上头
要学会聆听
用心听、虚心听
【4】
有两个和尚
他们分别住在相邻的两座山上的庙里
这两座山之间有一条溪
于是这两个和尚每天都会在同一时间下山去溪边挑水
久而久之他么变成为了好朋友
就 这样时间在每天挑水中
不知不觉已经过了五年
突然有一天
左边这座山的和尚没有下山挑水
右边那座山的和尚心想:
“他大概睡过头了”
便不以为意
哪知道第二天
左边这座山的和尚还是没有下山挑水
第三天也一样
过了一个星期还是一样
直到过了一个月右边那座山的和尚终于受不了
他心想:
“我的朋友可能生病 了
我要过去拜访他
看看能帮上什么忙”
于是他便爬上了左边这座山去探望他的老朋友
等他到了左边这座山的庙
看到他的老友之后大吃一惊
因为他的老 友正在庙前打太极拳
一点也不像一个月没喝水的人
他很好奇地问:
“你已经一个月没有下山挑水了
难道你可以不用喝水吗?”
左边这座山的和尚说:
“来来 来..
我带你去看”
于是他带着右边那座山的和尚走到庙的后院
指着一口井说:
“这五年来
我每天做完功课后都会抽空挖这口井
即使有时很忙..
能挖多少就算 多少
如今终于让我挖出井水
我就不用再下山挑水
我可以有更多时间练我喜欢的太极拳”
启示:
我们在公司领的薪水再多
那都是挑水
而把握下班后的时间挖一口属于自己的井
培养自己另一方面的实力
未来当我们年纪大了
体力拼不过年轻人了
依然还是有水喝
而且还能喝得很悠闲
【5】
有两个人相约到山上去寻找精美的石头
甲背了满满的一筐
乙的筐里只有一个他认为是最精美的石头
甲就笑乙:
“你为什么只挑一个啊?”
乙 说:
“漂亮的石头虽然多
但我只选一个最精美的就够了”
甲笑而不语
下山的路上
甲感到负担越来越重
最后不得已不断地从一筐的石头中挑一个最差的扔 下
到下山的时候他的筐里结果只剩下一个石头
启示:
人生中会有许多的东西值得留恋
有的时候你应该学会去放弃
【6】
有一家牙膏厂
产品优良、包装精美
受到顾客的喜爱
营业额连续10年递增
每年的增长率在10%~20%
可到了第11年
业绩停滞下来
以后两年也如此
公司经理召开高级会议、商讨对策
会议中..
公司总裁许诺说:
谁能想出解决问题的办法
让公司的业绩增长
重奖10万元
有位年轻经理站起 来
递给总裁一张纸条
总裁看完后
马上签了一张10万元的支票给了这位经理
那张纸条上写着:
将现在牙膏开口扩大1毫米
消费者每天早晨挤出同样长度的 牙膏
开口扩大了1毫米
每个消费者就多用1毫米宽的牙膏
每天的消费量将多出多少呢..
公司立即更改包装
第14年
公司的营业额增加了32%
启示:
面对生活中的变化
我们常常习惯过去的思维方法
其实只要你把心径扩大1毫米
你就会看到生活中的变化都有它积极的一面
充满了机遇和挑战
【7】
一只火鸡和一头牛闲聊
火鸡说:
我希望能飞到树顶
可我没有勇气
牛说:
为什么不吃一点我的牛粪呢?
他们很有营养
火鸡吃了一点牛粪
发现它 确实给了它足够的力量飞到第一根树枝
第二天
火鸡又吃了更多的牛粪
飞到第二根树枝
两个星期后
火鸡骄傲的飞到了树顶
但不久..
一个农夫看到了它
迅 速的把它从树上射了下来
启示:
牛屎运让你达到顶峰
但不能让你留在那里
【8】
乌鸦站在树上
整天无所事事
兔子看见乌鸦就问:
我能像你一样
整天什么事都不用干吗?
乌鸦说:
当然..
有什么不可以呢?
于是兔子在树下的空地上开始休息
忽然一只狐狸出现了
它跳起来抓住兔子把它吞了下去
启示:
如果你想站着什么事都不做
那你必须站的很高、非常高
【9】
一只小鸟飞到南方去过冬
天很冷..
小鸟几乎冻僵了
于是飞到一大块空地上
一头牛经过那儿
拉了一堆牛粪在小鸟的身上
冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆 里觉得很温暖
渐渐苏醒过来
它温暖而舒服的躺着
不久唱起歌来..
一只路过的野猫听到声音
走过去看个究竟
循着声音
野猫很快发现了躺在粪堆里的小 鸟
把它拽出来吃掉了
启示:
不是每个往你身上拉大粪的人都是你的敌人
也不是每个把你从粪堆里拉出来的人都是你的朋友
还有..
当你躺在粪堆里时
最好把你的嘴闭上
【10】
李嘉诚【名言】
1. 不敢说一定没有命运,但假如一件事在天时、地利、人和等方面皆相背时,
那肯定不会成功。若我们贸然去做,失败时便埋怨命运,这是不对的。
2、与新老朋友相交时,都要诚实可靠,避免说大话。
要说到做到,不放空炮,做不到的寧可不说。
3、你要相信世界上每一个人都精明,要令人信服并喜欢和你交往,那才最重要。
4、即使本来有一百的力量足以成事,但我要储足二百的力量去攻,
而不是随便去赌一赌。
5、一般而言,我对那些默默无闻,但做一些对人类有实际贡献的事情的人,
都心存景仰,我很喜欢看关於那些人物的书。
无论在医疗、政治、教育、福利哪一方面,对全人类有所帮助的人,我都很佩服。
6、人才取之不尽,用之不竭。你对人好,人家对你好是很自然的,
世界上任何人也都可以成为你的核心人物。
7、知人善任,大多数人都会有部分的长处,部分的短处,
各尽所能,各得所需,以量才而用为原则。
8、做人最要紧的,是让人由衷地喜欢你,敬佩你本人,
而不是你的财力,也不是表面上的服从。
9、决定一件事时,事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚,当决定后,就勇往直前去做。
10、在剧烈的竞争当中多付出一点,便可多赢一点。
就像参加奥运会一样,你看一、二、三名,跑第一的往往只是快了那麼一点点。
11、人生自有其沉浮,每个人都应该学会忍受生活中属於自己的一份悲伤。只有这样,你才能体会到什麼叫做成功,什麼叫做真正的幸福。
12、苦难的生活,是我人生的最好锻炼,尤其是做推销员,使我学会了不少东西,明白了不少事理。所有这些,是我今天10亿、100亿也买不到的。
13、在事业上谋求成功,没有什麼绝对的公式。但如果能依赖某些原则的话,能将成功的希望提高很多。
14、人们讚誉我是超人,其实我并非天生就是优秀的经营者。到现在我只敢说经营得还可以,我是经歷了很多挫折和磨难之后,才领会了一些经营的要诀。
15、每一次新的商机的到来,都会造就一批富翁,每一批富翁的造就就是: 当别人不明白的时候,他明白他在做什麼; 当别人不理解的时候,他理解他在做什麼。 当别人明白了,他富有了; 当别人理解了,他成功了。
16、决定一件事时,事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚,当决定后,就勇往直前去做,不必再有丝毫犹豫,竞争既搏命,更是斗智斗勇。倘若连这点勇气都没有,谈何在商场立脚,超越置地?
17、我老是在说一句话,亲人并不一定就是亲信。 一个人你要跟他相处,日子久了,你觉得他的思路跟你一样是正面的,那你就应该可以信任他;你交给他的每一项重要工作,他都会做,这个人就可以做你的亲信。
18、世情才是学问。世界上每一个人都精明,要令大家信服并喜欢不容易!
19、在20岁前,事业上的成果百分之百靠双手勤劳换来;20岁至30岁之前,事业已有些小基础,那10年的成功,10%靠运气好,90%仍是由勤劳得来;之后,机会的比例也渐渐提高;到现在,运气已差不多要占三至四成了。
那肯定不会成功。若我们贸然去做,失败时便埋怨命运,这是不对的。
2、与新老朋友相交时,都要诚实可靠,避免说大话。
要说到做到,不放空炮,做不到的寧可不说。
3、你要相信世界上每一个人都精明,要令人信服并喜欢和你交往,那才最重要。
4、即使本来有一百的力量足以成事,但我要储足二百的力量去攻,
而不是随便去赌一赌。
5、一般而言,我对那些默默无闻,但做一些对人类有实际贡献的事情的人,
都心存景仰,我很喜欢看关於那些人物的书。
无论在医疗、政治、教育、福利哪一方面,对全人类有所帮助的人,我都很佩服。
6、人才取之不尽,用之不竭。你对人好,人家对你好是很自然的,
世界上任何人也都可以成为你的核心人物。
7、知人善任,大多数人都会有部分的长处,部分的短处,
各尽所能,各得所需,以量才而用为原则。
8、做人最要紧的,是让人由衷地喜欢你,敬佩你本人,
而不是你的财力,也不是表面上的服从。
9、决定一件事时,事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚,当决定后,就勇往直前去做。
10、在剧烈的竞争当中多付出一点,便可多赢一点。
就像参加奥运会一样,你看一、二、三名,跑第一的往往只是快了那麼一点点。
11、人生自有其沉浮,每个人都应该学会忍受生活中属於自己的一份悲伤。只有这样,你才能体会到什麼叫做成功,什麼叫做真正的幸福。
12、苦难的生活,是我人生的最好锻炼,尤其是做推销员,使我学会了不少东西,明白了不少事理。所有这些,是我今天10亿、100亿也买不到的。
13、在事业上谋求成功,没有什麼绝对的公式。但如果能依赖某些原则的话,能将成功的希望提高很多。
14、人们讚誉我是超人,其实我并非天生就是优秀的经营者。到现在我只敢说经营得还可以,我是经歷了很多挫折和磨难之后,才领会了一些经营的要诀。
15、每一次新的商机的到来,都会造就一批富翁,每一批富翁的造就就是: 当别人不明白的时候,他明白他在做什麼; 当别人不理解的时候,他理解他在做什麼。 当别人明白了,他富有了; 当别人理解了,他成功了。
16、决定一件事时,事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚,当决定后,就勇往直前去做,不必再有丝毫犹豫,竞争既搏命,更是斗智斗勇。倘若连这点勇气都没有,谈何在商场立脚,超越置地?
17、我老是在说一句话,亲人并不一定就是亲信。 一个人你要跟他相处,日子久了,你觉得他的思路跟你一样是正面的,那你就应该可以信任他;你交给他的每一项重要工作,他都会做,这个人就可以做你的亲信。
18、世情才是学问。世界上每一个人都精明,要令大家信服并喜欢不容易!
19、在20岁前,事业上的成果百分之百靠双手勤劳换来;20岁至30岁之前,事业已有些小基础,那10年的成功,10%靠运气好,90%仍是由勤劳得来;之后,机会的比例也渐渐提高;到现在,运气已差不多要占三至四成了。
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
the world is as good as you see it is.
If you focus on the bad, you will see a 'bad' world. If you focus on the good, you will see goodness. Choose your focus carefully.
in order to move forward you must open yourself to new experiences.
There is no failing, only results. Be courageous and push yourself to new heights. Besides, what is going to happen if you make a bad decision? - You will learn from it. The more results you make, the faster you will reach your destination.
together we are strong.
When you join your hearts and prayers and intentions with the hearts and prayers and intentions of others, almost anything becomes possible.
most important decisions are not to be made with the mind; they are to be made with the heart.
So when you have an important decision to make, check in with how you feel, not how you think.
you can find meaning in the storm.
At times everyone goes through trials and tribulations. Seek out someone else in a similar situation and give them an encouragement or just a hug. Find meaning in the midst of your struggles by helping another in similar straits.
when you notice the beauty and the goodness in the world, then the evils and catastrophes, the greed and the wars will not be as overwhelming.
Hold fast to your faith. Believe in goodness. Believe in God.
the life you are having is the life you are creating.
Even when this seems paradoxical on the surface, - how could you ever possibly want anything but happiness, - on a deeper level, there is something in you that is making it so. To transform your life you first must understand what is keeping it the way it is.
If you focus on the bad, you will see a 'bad' world. If you focus on the good, you will see goodness. Choose your focus carefully.
in order to move forward you must open yourself to new experiences.
There is no failing, only results. Be courageous and push yourself to new heights. Besides, what is going to happen if you make a bad decision? - You will learn from it. The more results you make, the faster you will reach your destination.
together we are strong.
When you join your hearts and prayers and intentions with the hearts and prayers and intentions of others, almost anything becomes possible.
most important decisions are not to be made with the mind; they are to be made with the heart.
So when you have an important decision to make, check in with how you feel, not how you think.
you can find meaning in the storm.
At times everyone goes through trials and tribulations. Seek out someone else in a similar situation and give them an encouragement or just a hug. Find meaning in the midst of your struggles by helping another in similar straits.
when you notice the beauty and the goodness in the world, then the evils and catastrophes, the greed and the wars will not be as overwhelming.
Hold fast to your faith. Believe in goodness. Believe in God.
the life you are having is the life you are creating.
Even when this seems paradoxical on the surface, - how could you ever possibly want anything but happiness, - on a deeper level, there is something in you that is making it so. To transform your life you first must understand what is keeping it the way it is.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Five things that will ruin your relationship
If you don’t want your relationship to die, then don’t steer clear of these things
There are plenty of things that couples will argue over, and they range from the petty things that aren’t worth arguing about, to arguments that will ruin your relationship. While there are some things that will simply rock the boat, we present here are some things that will, without a doublt, wreck your relationship.
Cyber snooping
Dating has changed forever thanks to the social websites that have launched over the past few years and many couples are guilty of snooping on their partner. Photos become incriminating, jealousy rears its head due to possible hints of betrayal adding fuel to the fire which can potentially ruin a relationship. Email accounts are also ‘hacked’ into in search of guilty material. Don’t let curiosity get the better of you as karma is likely to ruin your relationship.
Adding a third person
Even if it is something you both agree to, in most cases it will likely see you relationship slowly breakdown. Sex involves bonding and emotions and involving another person will almost certainly fuel jealous feelings, insecure questions and doubt. It’s a recipe for disaster and is unlikely to make your relationship stronger; in fact quite the opposite.
Job
Many people dedicate themselves to their jobs and work long hours. It all about commitment to the job and career you are developing. However, relationships can get swept to the side when work becomes a person’s main priority and while there is nothing wrong with that, if you are in a relationship, you also need to make sure you don’t neglect it. You need to make sure you put enough quality time into your relationship so the other person doesn’t feel neglected.
Having a past
A person’s relationship history is something that many couples argue over. It usually involves exs, but everyone has a relationship past. Unless they have given you reason to think that they maybe disloyal or that the ex may have other intents, then them being in contact doesn’t mean he wants to be back with her. It just shows that the break up was dealt with in a civilised manner.
Revealing your fantasy – sizzle or fizzle?
While sexual fantasies are normal, it can be like opening Pandora’s Box when they are revealed. It can make the other person judge them or it can spice up a sex life that is stuck in a rut so it is best to reveal your inner thoughts cautiously. Revealing fantasies about other people is only going to spark jealousy and arguments and the refusal to accept a fantasy is likely to make your relationship flame fizzle or sizzle out causing divide.
There are plenty of things that couples will argue over, and they range from the petty things that aren’t worth arguing about, to arguments that will ruin your relationship. While there are some things that will simply rock the boat, we present here are some things that will, without a doublt, wreck your relationship.
Cyber snooping
Dating has changed forever thanks to the social websites that have launched over the past few years and many couples are guilty of snooping on their partner. Photos become incriminating, jealousy rears its head due to possible hints of betrayal adding fuel to the fire which can potentially ruin a relationship. Email accounts are also ‘hacked’ into in search of guilty material. Don’t let curiosity get the better of you as karma is likely to ruin your relationship.
Adding a third person
Even if it is something you both agree to, in most cases it will likely see you relationship slowly breakdown. Sex involves bonding and emotions and involving another person will almost certainly fuel jealous feelings, insecure questions and doubt. It’s a recipe for disaster and is unlikely to make your relationship stronger; in fact quite the opposite.
Job
Many people dedicate themselves to their jobs and work long hours. It all about commitment to the job and career you are developing. However, relationships can get swept to the side when work becomes a person’s main priority and while there is nothing wrong with that, if you are in a relationship, you also need to make sure you don’t neglect it. You need to make sure you put enough quality time into your relationship so the other person doesn’t feel neglected.
Having a past
A person’s relationship history is something that many couples argue over. It usually involves exs, but everyone has a relationship past. Unless they have given you reason to think that they maybe disloyal or that the ex may have other intents, then them being in contact doesn’t mean he wants to be back with her. It just shows that the break up was dealt with in a civilised manner.
Revealing your fantasy – sizzle or fizzle?
While sexual fantasies are normal, it can be like opening Pandora’s Box when they are revealed. It can make the other person judge them or it can spice up a sex life that is stuck in a rut so it is best to reveal your inner thoughts cautiously. Revealing fantasies about other people is only going to spark jealousy and arguments and the refusal to accept a fantasy is likely to make your relationship flame fizzle or sizzle out causing divide.
Quotes that Celebrate Inner Beauty
A Beautiful Heart
"Our hearts are drunk with a beauty our eyes could never see."
-George W. Russell
The Light of Beauty
"Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart."
-Kahlil Gibran
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Beautiful Mind
"Beauty comes as much from the mind as from the eye."
-Grey Livingston
Everything Has Beauty
"Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it."
Heart Full of Beauty
"Beauty...when you look into a woman's eyes and see what is in her heart."
-Nate Dircks
A Beautiful Soul
"You can take no credit for beauty at sixteen. But if you are beautiful at sixty, it will be your souls own doing."
-Marie Stopes
A Beautiful Personality
"It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
True Inner Beauty
“It's beauty a kind of radiance. People who possess a true inner beauty, their eyes are a little brighter, their skin a little more dewy. They vibrate at a different frequency.”
-Cameron Diaz
Beauty Isn't Physical
"Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical."
-Sophia Loren
Revealing Your Beauty
"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."
-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Everlasting Beauty
"Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty - they merely move it from their faces into their hearts."
- Martin Buxbaum
You Determine Your Beauty
"It took me a long time to not judge myself, through someone else's eyes."
-Sally Fields
Beauty's In Your Character
"Character contributes to beauty. It fortifies a woman as her youth fades. A mode of conduct, a standard of courage, discipline, fortitude, and integrity can do a great deal to make a woman beautiful."
-Anonymous
Untouchable Beauty
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched ... but are felt in the heart."
-Helen Keller
Recipe For Beauty
"The recipe for beauty is to have less illusion and more Soul, to retreat from the belief of pain or pleasure in the body into the unchanging calm and glorious freedom of spiritual harmony."
- Mary Baker Eddy
The Heart of Life
"When you reach the heart of life you shall find beauty in all things, even in the eyes that are blind to beauty."
-Kahlil Gibran
Love Makes You Beautiful
“The most important thing I teach my kids is that you can’t put your value in looks. Presence is based upon magnitude. You can pretend to have an air about you but it is quickly deflated, but you cannot deflate presence. Presence walks into a room and surrounds and fills anything that’s in that room without trying to demand it, it takes it. It can come from a smile. Like I said, love makes you beautiful. What is beautiful radiates. “
-Terrence Howard
The Best Cosmetic
"Taking joy in living is a woman's best cosmetic."
-Rosalind Russell
"A person is only beautiful, when their own beauty is reflecting on to others."
Tara Grady
Beauty Starts the Race
“Your beauty may get you to the start of the race, but it takes more to get you to the finish line”
- D. Smith
A Six Letter Word
"Beauty: A six letter word that makes people crazy. The only beauty there is, is what is on the inside. Don't make yourself feel bad if you don't like what you see. Look deeper and that is all you need. The outside is secondary no matter what anyone says."
-Anonymous
Personality Outshines Beauty
"It is beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
Value Your Inner Beauty
“Believe yourself, value your inner beauty and be open to opportunities.”
-Chelsea Cooley
"Our hearts are drunk with a beauty our eyes could never see."
-George W. Russell
The Light of Beauty
"Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart."
-Kahlil Gibran
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Beautiful Mind
"Beauty comes as much from the mind as from the eye."
-Grey Livingston
Everything Has Beauty
"Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it."
Heart Full of Beauty
"Beauty...when you look into a woman's eyes and see what is in her heart."
-Nate Dircks
A Beautiful Soul
"You can take no credit for beauty at sixteen. But if you are beautiful at sixty, it will be your souls own doing."
-Marie Stopes
A Beautiful Personality
"It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
True Inner Beauty
“It's beauty a kind of radiance. People who possess a true inner beauty, their eyes are a little brighter, their skin a little more dewy. They vibrate at a different frequency.”
-Cameron Diaz
Beauty Isn't Physical
"Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical."
-Sophia Loren
Revealing Your Beauty
"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."
-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Everlasting Beauty
"Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty - they merely move it from their faces into their hearts."
- Martin Buxbaum
You Determine Your Beauty
"It took me a long time to not judge myself, through someone else's eyes."
-Sally Fields
Beauty's In Your Character
"Character contributes to beauty. It fortifies a woman as her youth fades. A mode of conduct, a standard of courage, discipline, fortitude, and integrity can do a great deal to make a woman beautiful."
-Anonymous
Untouchable Beauty
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched ... but are felt in the heart."
-Helen Keller
Recipe For Beauty
"The recipe for beauty is to have less illusion and more Soul, to retreat from the belief of pain or pleasure in the body into the unchanging calm and glorious freedom of spiritual harmony."
- Mary Baker Eddy
The Heart of Life
"When you reach the heart of life you shall find beauty in all things, even in the eyes that are blind to beauty."
-Kahlil Gibran
Love Makes You Beautiful
“The most important thing I teach my kids is that you can’t put your value in looks. Presence is based upon magnitude. You can pretend to have an air about you but it is quickly deflated, but you cannot deflate presence. Presence walks into a room and surrounds and fills anything that’s in that room without trying to demand it, it takes it. It can come from a smile. Like I said, love makes you beautiful. What is beautiful radiates. “
-Terrence Howard
The Best Cosmetic
"Taking joy in living is a woman's best cosmetic."
-Rosalind Russell
"A person is only beautiful, when their own beauty is reflecting on to others."
Tara Grady
Beauty Starts the Race
“Your beauty may get you to the start of the race, but it takes more to get you to the finish line”
- D. Smith
A Six Letter Word
"Beauty: A six letter word that makes people crazy. The only beauty there is, is what is on the inside. Don't make yourself feel bad if you don't like what you see. Look deeper and that is all you need. The outside is secondary no matter what anyone says."
-Anonymous
Personality Outshines Beauty
"It is beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
Value Your Inner Beauty
“Believe yourself, value your inner beauty and be open to opportunities.”
-Chelsea Cooley
The sins of friendship Avoid breaking these rules of friendship
Friendships come and go throughout our lives and while there are some that will take a back seat, there are others that can be like a rock to you. Friendships are delicate, easily ruined and can be taken for granted by many. Like any relationship, they need to be nurtured and there are some unwritten ‘rules’ that most abide by to ensure they don’t damage their relationship with their friends. We take a look at some of the cardinal rules of friendship and the sins that shouldn’t be committed.
Some people can’t help but to gossip. It isn’t a particularly attractive trait if it is negative talk, but it can be all too easy to get caught up in it. Gossiping about a friend, especially about something personal you have been told in confidence, is usually toxic to the friendship can dissolve the trust. You are likely to tarnish your name and friends will slowly lose confidence in you.
Letting a friend down, particularly when they need you the most can cause damage to a friendship, especially if it is a reoccurring thing. It conjures feeling of disappointment and friends will begin see you as unreliable and that the friendship is a one way street which only benefits you. There are plenty of ways to let a friend down from not showing up, revealing a secret or saying you’ll do something then don’t.
This is a difficult one, often riddled with problems leading to the end of a friendship with social consequences. If it is something you are considering for whatever reason then you need to take your friends feelings into serious account and find out how they would feel about it. Talk with them. They may be happy, have moved and give you their blessing, but make sure you think what your morals are and how you’d feel in the reverse situation.
Everyone gets jealous from time to time, and it can be due to all sorts of things, but the green eyed monster can be a destructive characteristic to have and will ruin friendship if it isn’t kept in check. It is unhealthy and can lead to animosity and even hate. You need to be happy with who you are and what you have in order to stop being jealous of others.
As humans we tend to judge people, whether it is first impressions, what someone wears or on their behaviour. Try to avoid judging your friends and respect their choices whether it is something they, wear or even their other half. You can offer your advice when asked for it, but judgment is a form of criticism and can drive your friends away. Be careful in agreeing to others judgments also.
Always remember the value that good friends bring to your life and when things are tough they can be invaluable. They provide comfort; support, encouragement and good times and many of us are guilty of not putting enough time in to nurture them.
Some people can’t help but to gossip. It isn’t a particularly attractive trait if it is negative talk, but it can be all too easy to get caught up in it. Gossiping about a friend, especially about something personal you have been told in confidence, is usually toxic to the friendship can dissolve the trust. You are likely to tarnish your name and friends will slowly lose confidence in you.
Letting a friend down, particularly when they need you the most can cause damage to a friendship, especially if it is a reoccurring thing. It conjures feeling of disappointment and friends will begin see you as unreliable and that the friendship is a one way street which only benefits you. There are plenty of ways to let a friend down from not showing up, revealing a secret or saying you’ll do something then don’t.
This is a difficult one, often riddled with problems leading to the end of a friendship with social consequences. If it is something you are considering for whatever reason then you need to take your friends feelings into serious account and find out how they would feel about it. Talk with them. They may be happy, have moved and give you their blessing, but make sure you think what your morals are and how you’d feel in the reverse situation.
Everyone gets jealous from time to time, and it can be due to all sorts of things, but the green eyed monster can be a destructive characteristic to have and will ruin friendship if it isn’t kept in check. It is unhealthy and can lead to animosity and even hate. You need to be happy with who you are and what you have in order to stop being jealous of others.
As humans we tend to judge people, whether it is first impressions, what someone wears or on their behaviour. Try to avoid judging your friends and respect their choices whether it is something they, wear or even their other half. You can offer your advice when asked for it, but judgment is a form of criticism and can drive your friends away. Be careful in agreeing to others judgments also.
Always remember the value that good friends bring to your life and when things are tough they can be invaluable. They provide comfort; support, encouragement and good times and many of us are guilty of not putting enough time in to nurture them.
Essential friends 7 BFFs that you should have in your life
Good friends are an important feature in our lives. Not only are they there for us when we need them, but they are also good for your health. While there are times when friends can let you down or you drift apart over the years, there are some friends that women should have through their lives. We take a look at the essential friends woman should have and the richness and benefits they bring to your life.
A friend who you have known since childhood and have a history with is a great asset to you. They know everything about you and have been by your side all these years. Most people drift apart from their childhood friends for an array of reasons, but when it comes to reminiscing about ‘the good old days’, there is nobody better to do this with.
A friend that you can go to when you need advice and will be 100 per cent honest with you is also invaluable. They’ll tell you the truth, but not out of malice, but because they genuinely care about you. If you go to them with something you don’t want others to know, but need advice, you are assured that they won’t tell a soul.
Whether you want to unwind from stress or just go out and have a good time, you know you can count on this girl for entertainment. She is the sociable one who always knows where to go that best suits a situation or a person’s mood and they are guaranteed to have an amusing time. She is spontaneous, has a sense of fun and allows you to let your hair down without being judged.
It’s important to have someone at work that you are close to, to have as an ally and is someone there when you need to moan about your workload or can reassure you when the going gets tough. Resent research has also found that having close friends in the office can improve your health and add years to your life.
This is the friend that you see once or twice a week as you’ve joined a class or gym together. You help to keep each other motivated, because let’s be honest, you’d both rather be elsewhere, but you’ll have more success when you have someone to push you. You wouldn’t skip the work out because you wouldn’t want to let her down and vice versa.
Some people will say that there is no such thing as a platonic friendship between the opposite sex, which is ridiculous. Who says you can’t be friends with a guy as not every relationship is full of lust and romance. He’ll watch out for you like a brother and will give you advice from a male perspective.
Then there is the guy which you know you can always have a good flirt with, and vice versa without being offended. There ‘is nothing’ between the two of you and never will be, but you both know its fun to flirt, pander to each other and shower compliments and innuendos back and forth.
A friend who you have known since childhood and have a history with is a great asset to you. They know everything about you and have been by your side all these years. Most people drift apart from their childhood friends for an array of reasons, but when it comes to reminiscing about ‘the good old days’, there is nobody better to do this with.
A friend that you can go to when you need advice and will be 100 per cent honest with you is also invaluable. They’ll tell you the truth, but not out of malice, but because they genuinely care about you. If you go to them with something you don’t want others to know, but need advice, you are assured that they won’t tell a soul.
Whether you want to unwind from stress or just go out and have a good time, you know you can count on this girl for entertainment. She is the sociable one who always knows where to go that best suits a situation or a person’s mood and they are guaranteed to have an amusing time. She is spontaneous, has a sense of fun and allows you to let your hair down without being judged.
It’s important to have someone at work that you are close to, to have as an ally and is someone there when you need to moan about your workload or can reassure you when the going gets tough. Resent research has also found that having close friends in the office can improve your health and add years to your life.
This is the friend that you see once or twice a week as you’ve joined a class or gym together. You help to keep each other motivated, because let’s be honest, you’d both rather be elsewhere, but you’ll have more success when you have someone to push you. You wouldn’t skip the work out because you wouldn’t want to let her down and vice versa.
Some people will say that there is no such thing as a platonic friendship between the opposite sex, which is ridiculous. Who says you can’t be friends with a guy as not every relationship is full of lust and romance. He’ll watch out for you like a brother and will give you advice from a male perspective.
Then there is the guy which you know you can always have a good flirt with, and vice versa without being offended. There ‘is nothing’ between the two of you and never will be, but you both know its fun to flirt, pander to each other and shower compliments and innuendos back and forth.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
MLM
http://www.mlmsuccesstrainingsite.com/?t=blog article
http://simple2catch.com/yy.php?11=1haf8msvchristian.h7A5M.H5P.0c302
http://www.hugedomains.com/
http://www.monavieinternational.com/Web/MY/en/monavie_original.dhtml
Social networkings
tagged.com
netlog
wordpress
hi5
Investments
http://cforum5.cari.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=1406783&extra=page%3D1&page=1
Beliefnets
http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/2009/06/Self-Confidence-Quotes.aspx?p=15
Poems
http://www.passionup.com/love-poems/poetry4063.htm?e=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&f=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&h=ef2df2b09c1ef068
http://www.mlmsuccesstrainingsite.com/?t=blog article
http://simple2catch.com/yy.php?11=1haf8msvchristian.h7A5M.H5P.0c302
http://www.hugedomains.com/
http://www.monavieinternational.com/Web/MY/en/monavie_original.dhtml
Social networkings
tagged.com
netlog
wordpress
hi5
Investments
http://cforum5.cari.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=1406783&extra=page%3D1&page=1
Beliefnets
http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/2009/06/Self-Confidence-Quotes.aspx?p=15
Poems
http://www.passionup.com/love-poems/poetry4063.htm?e=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&f=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&h=ef2df2b09c1ef068
this human form is temporary.
Enjoy playing the game, even be serious about it if you wish, but do not get so attached to this form that you forget who you truly are - the fruit of God's love.
there is a time for birth.
What is within you crying out to be birthed into the world right now? What talent do you have that is ready to be used? What project have you been endlessly thinking about that is ready to be birthed into physical reality? And what dreams do you have for this precious planet? God can help midwife your dreams.
you influence those around you.
Think well about the seeds you are planting as you influence the people around you every day. You can plant seeds of impatience, fear, and frustration, or of love, contentment, and faith. It's up to you!
the quality of life is a result of many small actions.
It's not New Year resolutions, nor big promises that make or break life, it's the innumerable small actions you take every hour that compound into a life well lived. Look at how you are living moment to moment to know whether at the end of your life you will be looking back with pride or sorrow.
when you strike out, you always strike in.
Any weapon you use to strike, - clenched hand, angry voice, closed heart withholding love, - is double-sided with one edge always cutting deep into yourself. Sometimes a weapon is necessary, but use it wisely, - and remember that the cost of using one are your own wounds.
Enjoy playing the game, even be serious about it if you wish, but do not get so attached to this form that you forget who you truly are - the fruit of God's love.
there is a time for birth.
What is within you crying out to be birthed into the world right now? What talent do you have that is ready to be used? What project have you been endlessly thinking about that is ready to be birthed into physical reality? And what dreams do you have for this precious planet? God can help midwife your dreams.
you influence those around you.
Think well about the seeds you are planting as you influence the people around you every day. You can plant seeds of impatience, fear, and frustration, or of love, contentment, and faith. It's up to you!
the quality of life is a result of many small actions.
It's not New Year resolutions, nor big promises that make or break life, it's the innumerable small actions you take every hour that compound into a life well lived. Look at how you are living moment to moment to know whether at the end of your life you will be looking back with pride or sorrow.
when you strike out, you always strike in.
Any weapon you use to strike, - clenched hand, angry voice, closed heart withholding love, - is double-sided with one edge always cutting deep into yourself. Sometimes a weapon is necessary, but use it wisely, - and remember that the cost of using one are your own wounds.
Monday, June 20, 2011
These Holidays
how i past my holidays? > than 5 weeks~
last week in hostel.
tis week in aunty's house
next 2 weeks back home. hehe ...............
last week in hostel.
tis week in aunty's house
next 2 weeks back home. hehe ...............
Thursday, June 16, 2011
20 Words to Change Your Life
BEGIN
Take charge of your life by beginning something you've always wanted to do. If your goal seems overwhelming, start small.
IMAGINE
Your imagination has no boundaries..."dreaming about something is the first step toward achieving it."
LAUGH
"Laughter is a direct route to the soul. It broadens your perspective, keeps you healthy, and makes an unbearable situation easier to deal with."
BELIEVE
Set your mind to predict success. Tell yourself you WILL succeed at whatever you're doing at the moment.
SEEK
Allow yourself to grow by exposing your vulnerability and insecurity.
Don't live strictly inside your comfort zone- don't always play it safe.
PLAY
We can always find something that "needs to be done" and we forget how to have fun. Make a conscious effort to take time off- you'll feel refreshed & able to think more clearly afterwards.
TRUST
"...being paralyzed by indecision is worse than making the wrong decision."
You can't grow if you don't trust your inner voice.
LISTEN
Try listening carefully to the other person's point of view first,
without being preoccupied or distracted.
You'll really hear what is being said and the other person is more likely to pay attention to your views.
CREATE
Creativity maintains the balance in our lives. The more we use our creativity, the more it develops.
CONNECT
Relationships are what pull us through the hard times, and make the good times meaningful. Take time to nurture the connections that uplift you.
TOUCH
Humans need touch to survive and thrive. Don't forget to hug your loved ones.
Pat your friends on the back, literally and figuratively.
FORGIVE
Forgiveness is life- giving because it puts you in charge. You become empowered.
PRAY
"Prayer is asking God to transform the situation and become the heart of your life."
Take time each day to nurture this connection.
HOPE
"Hope is the knowledge that even in the worst of times we can triumph over hardship
and sorrow and grow in spirit." Hope is what sustains humanity.
CHOOSE
"We can't always choose our circumstances, but we can choose our attitudes towards them."
APPRECIATE
Admire the good in yourself and in those around you.
GIVE
Happiness involves giving freely to others and not necessarily wanting something in return.
READ
Reading removes boundaries.
WRITE
Words are freedom. Words are power.
RELEASE
Avoid doing something just because everyone thinks you should.
Give yourself permission to relax.
Take charge of your life by beginning something you've always wanted to do. If your goal seems overwhelming, start small.
IMAGINE
Your imagination has no boundaries..."dreaming about something is the first step toward achieving it."
LAUGH
"Laughter is a direct route to the soul. It broadens your perspective, keeps you healthy, and makes an unbearable situation easier to deal with."
BELIEVE
Set your mind to predict success. Tell yourself you WILL succeed at whatever you're doing at the moment.
SEEK
Allow yourself to grow by exposing your vulnerability and insecurity.
Don't live strictly inside your comfort zone- don't always play it safe.
PLAY
We can always find something that "needs to be done" and we forget how to have fun. Make a conscious effort to take time off- you'll feel refreshed & able to think more clearly afterwards.
TRUST
"...being paralyzed by indecision is worse than making the wrong decision."
You can't grow if you don't trust your inner voice.
LISTEN
Try listening carefully to the other person's point of view first,
without being preoccupied or distracted.
You'll really hear what is being said and the other person is more likely to pay attention to your views.
CREATE
Creativity maintains the balance in our lives. The more we use our creativity, the more it develops.
CONNECT
Relationships are what pull us through the hard times, and make the good times meaningful. Take time to nurture the connections that uplift you.
TOUCH
Humans need touch to survive and thrive. Don't forget to hug your loved ones.
Pat your friends on the back, literally and figuratively.
FORGIVE
Forgiveness is life- giving because it puts you in charge. You become empowered.
PRAY
"Prayer is asking God to transform the situation and become the heart of your life."
Take time each day to nurture this connection.
HOPE
"Hope is the knowledge that even in the worst of times we can triumph over hardship
and sorrow and grow in spirit." Hope is what sustains humanity.
CHOOSE
"We can't always choose our circumstances, but we can choose our attitudes towards them."
APPRECIATE
Admire the good in yourself and in those around you.
GIVE
Happiness involves giving freely to others and not necessarily wanting something in return.
READ
Reading removes boundaries.
WRITE
Words are freedom. Words are power.
RELEASE
Avoid doing something just because everyone thinks you should.
Give yourself permission to relax.
The Lion King -"Circle of Life"
From the day we arrive on the planet
And blinking, step into the sun
There's more to see than can ever be seen
More to do than can ever be done
There's far too much to take in here
More to find than can ever be found
But the sun rolling high
Through the sapphire sky
Keeps great and small on the endless round
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
And blinking, step into the sun
There's more to see than can ever be seen
More to do than can ever be done
There's far too much to take in here
More to find than can ever be found
But the sun rolling high
Through the sapphire sky
Keeps great and small on the endless round
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
关于讲信誉的名言警句
言不信者,行不果 ————墨子
民无信不立 ————孔子
没有诚实哪来尊严 ————西塞罗
真话说一半常是弥天大谎 ————富兰克林
诚者,天之道也;思诚者,人之道也 ————孟子
失信就是失败 ————左拉
真诚是一种心灵的开放 ————拉罗什富科
欺人只能一时,而诚信才是长久之策 ————约翰·雷
诚信是一枚凝重的砝码,放上它生命不再摇摆不定,天平立即稳稳地倾向一端。
诚信是一轮朗耀的明月,惟有与高处的皎洁对视,才能沉淀出对待生命的真正态度。
诚信是一道山巅的流水,能够洗尽浮华,洗尽躁动,洗尽虚假,留下启悟心灵的妙谛。
当信用消失的时候,肉体就没有生命 ————大仲马
如果要别人诚信,首先要自己诚信 ————莎士比亚
隐瞒真实,就是骗自己。
君子一言,驷马难追。
坦诚是最明智的策略。
一言九鼎。
一诺千金。
言而有信。
金口玉言。
君子说话,一言为定。
我要求别人诚实,我自己就得诚实。
两心不可以得一人,一心可得百人。 ————《淮南子·缪称训》
真诚才是人生最高的美德 ————乔叟
实话可能令人伤心,但胜过谎言 ————瓦·阿扎耶夫
在一切道德品质中,善良的本性是世界上最需要的 ————罗素
金钱比起一分纯洁的良心来,有算得了什么呢? ————哈代
老老实实最能打动人心 ————莎士比亚
真诚与朴实是天才的宝贵品质 ————斯坦尼斯拉夫斯基
法治长城始于一砖一石,诚信文明凝聚一点一滴。
今天付出诚意,明天收获信誉。
出局才懂诚信重,进‘宫'方恨知法晚。
播种诚信,你收获的就不仅仅是朋友的信任,还有可以信任的朋友。
诚信是在衡量自我得失时失去的。
诚信缺失乃人性之莫大悲哀,共铸诚信不妨从小事做起;法治健全是国家的坚实基础,推进法治务必要领导带头。
诚信是社会的支撑点,法治是社会的生命灯。
诚信是你的存款,信用是你的抵押,名誉是你的帐号,承诺是你的支票,假如失去了诚信 ,你将是一无所有。
立身须以诚为本, 治国必以法为基。
诚信以心为上, 法治以公为魂。
诚取天地正气问人间暖凉,法引规矩方圆律世间万象。
诚信在心,法治在行。
不讲诚信者必被社会所弃, 以身试法者必受国法严惩。
诚信凝聚力量,法治诞生希望。
诚信法治两手抓,共铸辉煌齐万家。
诚信是立身之本,法治乃安国之源。
诚信,人生最珍贵的无形资产; 法治,人类社会进步的阶梯。
扬诚信风帆同度文明人生,树法制大旗共展和谐社会。
赏罚分明, 市场经济讲诚信假一罚十; 宽严适度,法制社会护稳定惩教结合 。
诚信是社会的通行证,法治是国家的座右铭。
诚信是现代文明的晴雨表。
诚信与高尚同行;法治与正义相伴。
诚信有法治保障才有号召力,法治有诚信支持才有生命力。
树诚信风尚,铸法治长城。
谎言浇不开诚信之花,虚伪结不出幸福之果。
行必诚,言必信;法必依,治必严。
无信则人危,无法则国乱。
你诚信我诚信人人有威信 ,讲法治护法治个个能自治。
诚信要靠法律维系,法律要靠诚信遵守。
社会是由诚信与法律组成的双轮车。
送东送西送出良心与理智,诚实诚信成就道德与文明。
信是为人之道, 法是强国之本。
心连心共筑诚信长城 ,手牵手齐建法制社会。
守法律己时时尽心报国,诚信待人处处竭力为民。
以诚待人,人人敬;以信办事,事事成。
诚信处世世界大,奸诈为人人格低。
没有诚信的坚强基石,法制便犹如是建在沙土上的高层建筑。
诚实是智慧之书的第一章。
个个互信,人人守法。
诚信走遍天下,法治和谐人间。
经常用诚信的尺子丈量自己,坚持以诚信的言行对待别人。
诚存人自乐,法正民自安。
法治与安定同在,诚信与文明共存。
手牵手,与法治同行;心连心,将诚信同铸。
倡导法治, 法治执根于社会;谋求诚信,诚信融汇于民心。
信用制度是市场经济的助推器和安全阀。
立警为公执法为民长霞精神耀神州,与时俱进诚信俱佳玉儒形象映中华。
做人要诚信,做事要守法。
用诚信美化心灵,用法治规范社会。
法纪为天平,岂容人情充筹码;诚信作准绳,不许利欲乱曲直。
经营有法有道,交往以信以诚 。
生命因诚信而美丽,生活因守法而精彩。
诚信不能只挂在嘴上,法律不能只写在纸上。
铸诚信,万事兴;严法治,国必强。
人人参与,共铸诚信;个个努力,推进法治。
以诚取信心灵美,依法循规事业兴。
做诚信之人, 铸法治之国。
虚假呈一时之得,诚信享一世之裕。
做人以诚信为本, 治市以法律为基。
诚信提升城市品位,法治推动文明进步。
欺诈只能得逞一时,诚信才能受益一生。
信达于诚,方能勤政。法精于治,方能谐民。
诚信缔造和谐社会,法治铸就平安生活。
人生百年以诚为贵,国家兴旺依法则灵。
诚信三冬暖,失信三伏寒 。
诚信展现人格魅力,法治推进社会文明。
诚信与责任同在,法治与发展共存 。
手拉手共铸诚信,心连心推进法制。
吹响诚信号角,高举法治大旗。
诚信是面镜子,时刻照射着我们身边的每一个人。
做人讲诚则灵,治国依法则兴。
诚信交得天下友,法治换得万家安。
法治造就和谐社会,诚信成就积极人生。
人无信不立, 国无法不安。
生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
崇尚诚信,华夏春风暖;推行法治,神州正气扬。
诚信不可无,贪念不可有;做人莫忘法,做事莫违法。
守信万里还嫌近,无信一寸步难行。
诚信塑人,法治兴邦。
切勿丢掉诚信,当你回过头再去捡它的时候,它已失去了原有的色彩!
谁如果失去了金钱,他只是失去了他能再次得到的东西,要是谁失去了诚信,他就会失去了他再也不会得到的东西。
1、 诚信是人最美丽的外套,是心灵最圣洁的鲜花。
2、 诚信是你价格不菲的鞋子,踏遍千山万水,质量也应永恒不变。
3、 诚信像一面镜子,一旦打破,你的人格就会出现裂痕。
4、 诚信是道路,随着开拓者的脚步延伸;诚信是智慧,随着博学者的求索积累;诚信是成功,随着奋进者的拼搏临近;诚信是财富的种子,只要你诚心种下,就能找到打开金库的钥匙。
5、 诚信是做人之根本,立业之基。
6、 创起诚信校园,树起诚信学风,成为诚信学子。
7、 诚信为本,学做真人。
8、 诚信为荣,失信可耻。
9、 最大限度的诚实是最好的处事之道。
10、 诚实守信是面明镜,不诚实的人在他面前,都会露出真相。
11、 没有诚实,何来尊严?
12、 诚实是上策。
13、 一切有成效的工作都是以某种诚信为先决条件。
14、 不诚则有累,诚则无累。
15、 诚信是沟通心灵的桥梁,善于欺骗的人,永远到不了桥的另一端。
16、 诚信,是一股清泉,它将洗去欺诈的肮脏,让世界的每一个角落都流淌着洁净。
17、 诚信,让心灵无瑕,让友谊长存,让世界美好!
18、 知识是财富,诚信也是一种财富,拥有知识能使你变得充实,拥有诚信能使世界变得更美好!
19、 诚,乃信之本;无诚,何以言信?诚而有信,方为人生.
20、 诚信,如一把钥匙,打开你我心中那扇门上的锁,让我们敞开心扉,沐浴那友谊的阳光。
21、 诚信,是人类文明的阶梯;诚信,是填补人类间隔的碎石。
22、 诚信是一种自我约束的品质,不是通过一篇文章或一句话就能检验得出的。
23、 诚信是人的本钱,没有诚信的人是一个失败者。
24、 诚信比一切智谋更好。
25、 诚信就像人身上不可缺的钙,没钙的还能算作人吗?
26、 诚信就像人生航船的楫桨,控制着人生的去向。
27、 诚信犹如一颗青涩的果,你咬一口,虽然很苦,却回味无穷,倘若你将它丢弃,便会终身遗憾!
28、 生活是需要诚信的,有了诚信才会有幸福可言。
29、 生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
30、 诚实是人生的命脉,是一切价值的根基。
31、 诚实是一种力量的象征,它显示着一个人的高度自重和内心的安全感与尊严感。
32、 如果要别人诚信,首先要自己诚信。
33、 失去了诚信,就等同于敌人毁灭了自己。
34、 诚实的人必须对自己守信,他的最后靠山就是真诚。
35、 诚信是人生之本。
36、 诚信者,受人爱戴尊敬也。
37、 诚信是友谊的必备条件。
38、 诚信,是一个人立足社会的先导。
39、 诚信是人生路途中的第一准则。
40、 诚信是一种美德,会让你更加完美。
41、 诚实守信是做人的根本,是世界上最美丽的花朵。
42、 诚实守信,快乐人生。
43、 诚信就是取之不尽、用之不竭的知识、金钱。
44、 诚信,世界需要你。
45、 诚信创造财富。
46、 不讲诚信的人,是可悲的、可怜的、可恨的,也是可怕的。
47、 只有种下诚信的苗,才能结出诚信的果。
48、 有其言,无其行,君子之耻也。
49、 给心灵一片净土,给诚信一片天地,人生的道路让我们与诚信同行。
50、 人如以诚信为本,就能塑造完美人生。
诚信格言摘录
1、内不欺己,外不欺人。 ———孔子
2、人而无信,不知其可也。 ———孔子
3、言必信,行必果。 ——子路
4、你必须以诚待人,别人才会以诚回报。 ———李嘉诚
5、诚实是人生永远最美好的品格。 ———高尔基
6、老老实实最能打动人心。 ———莎士比亚
7、没有一处遗产像诚实那样丰富的了。 ———莎士比亚
8、对自己的忠实,才不会对别人欺诈。 ———莎士比亚
9、诚实和勤勉应该成为你永久的伴侣。 ———本·富兰克林
10、 难听的实话胜过动听的谎言。 ———苏尤里·郁达列夫
11、 坦白使人心地轻松的妙药。 ———西塞罗
12、 即使开始时,怀有故意的人,只要自己抱有真实和诚实去接触,就一定能换来好意。
———日本 池田大作
13、 诚实是艺术的最大要素。只要我们总对自己诚实,艺术总在那里,它决不会让我们失望的。 ———柯尼利亚·奥提斯金约
14、 有所许诺,纤毫必偿。有所期约,时刻不易。 ———袁采
15、 诚实比一切智谋更好,而且它是智谋的基本条件。 ———康德
16、 要宣扬你的一切,不必用你的言语,要用你的本来面目。 ———卢梭
17、 忠诚的高尚和可敬,无与伦比。 ———裴多菲
18、 我们应该老老实实地办事。 ———毛泽东
19、 做老实人,说老实话,干老实事,就是实事求是。 ——— 邓小
民无信不立 ————孔子
没有诚实哪来尊严 ————西塞罗
真话说一半常是弥天大谎 ————富兰克林
诚者,天之道也;思诚者,人之道也 ————孟子
失信就是失败 ————左拉
真诚是一种心灵的开放 ————拉罗什富科
欺人只能一时,而诚信才是长久之策 ————约翰·雷
诚信是一枚凝重的砝码,放上它生命不再摇摆不定,天平立即稳稳地倾向一端。
诚信是一轮朗耀的明月,惟有与高处的皎洁对视,才能沉淀出对待生命的真正态度。
诚信是一道山巅的流水,能够洗尽浮华,洗尽躁动,洗尽虚假,留下启悟心灵的妙谛。
当信用消失的时候,肉体就没有生命 ————大仲马
如果要别人诚信,首先要自己诚信 ————莎士比亚
隐瞒真实,就是骗自己。
君子一言,驷马难追。
坦诚是最明智的策略。
一言九鼎。
一诺千金。
言而有信。
金口玉言。
君子说话,一言为定。
我要求别人诚实,我自己就得诚实。
两心不可以得一人,一心可得百人。 ————《淮南子·缪称训》
真诚才是人生最高的美德 ————乔叟
实话可能令人伤心,但胜过谎言 ————瓦·阿扎耶夫
在一切道德品质中,善良的本性是世界上最需要的 ————罗素
金钱比起一分纯洁的良心来,有算得了什么呢? ————哈代
老老实实最能打动人心 ————莎士比亚
真诚与朴实是天才的宝贵品质 ————斯坦尼斯拉夫斯基
法治长城始于一砖一石,诚信文明凝聚一点一滴。
今天付出诚意,明天收获信誉。
出局才懂诚信重,进‘宫'方恨知法晚。
播种诚信,你收获的就不仅仅是朋友的信任,还有可以信任的朋友。
诚信是在衡量自我得失时失去的。
诚信缺失乃人性之莫大悲哀,共铸诚信不妨从小事做起;法治健全是国家的坚实基础,推进法治务必要领导带头。
诚信是社会的支撑点,法治是社会的生命灯。
诚信是你的存款,信用是你的抵押,名誉是你的帐号,承诺是你的支票,假如失去了诚信 ,你将是一无所有。
立身须以诚为本, 治国必以法为基。
诚信以心为上, 法治以公为魂。
诚取天地正气问人间暖凉,法引规矩方圆律世间万象。
诚信在心,法治在行。
不讲诚信者必被社会所弃, 以身试法者必受国法严惩。
诚信凝聚力量,法治诞生希望。
诚信法治两手抓,共铸辉煌齐万家。
诚信是立身之本,法治乃安国之源。
诚信,人生最珍贵的无形资产; 法治,人类社会进步的阶梯。
扬诚信风帆同度文明人生,树法制大旗共展和谐社会。
赏罚分明, 市场经济讲诚信假一罚十; 宽严适度,法制社会护稳定惩教结合 。
诚信是社会的通行证,法治是国家的座右铭。
诚信是现代文明的晴雨表。
诚信与高尚同行;法治与正义相伴。
诚信有法治保障才有号召力,法治有诚信支持才有生命力。
树诚信风尚,铸法治长城。
谎言浇不开诚信之花,虚伪结不出幸福之果。
行必诚,言必信;法必依,治必严。
无信则人危,无法则国乱。
你诚信我诚信人人有威信 ,讲法治护法治个个能自治。
诚信要靠法律维系,法律要靠诚信遵守。
社会是由诚信与法律组成的双轮车。
送东送西送出良心与理智,诚实诚信成就道德与文明。
信是为人之道, 法是强国之本。
心连心共筑诚信长城 ,手牵手齐建法制社会。
守法律己时时尽心报国,诚信待人处处竭力为民。
以诚待人,人人敬;以信办事,事事成。
诚信处世世界大,奸诈为人人格低。
没有诚信的坚强基石,法制便犹如是建在沙土上的高层建筑。
诚实是智慧之书的第一章。
个个互信,人人守法。
诚信走遍天下,法治和谐人间。
经常用诚信的尺子丈量自己,坚持以诚信的言行对待别人。
诚存人自乐,法正民自安。
法治与安定同在,诚信与文明共存。
手牵手,与法治同行;心连心,将诚信同铸。
倡导法治, 法治执根于社会;谋求诚信,诚信融汇于民心。
信用制度是市场经济的助推器和安全阀。
立警为公执法为民长霞精神耀神州,与时俱进诚信俱佳玉儒形象映中华。
做人要诚信,做事要守法。
用诚信美化心灵,用法治规范社会。
法纪为天平,岂容人情充筹码;诚信作准绳,不许利欲乱曲直。
经营有法有道,交往以信以诚 。
生命因诚信而美丽,生活因守法而精彩。
诚信不能只挂在嘴上,法律不能只写在纸上。
铸诚信,万事兴;严法治,国必强。
人人参与,共铸诚信;个个努力,推进法治。
以诚取信心灵美,依法循规事业兴。
做诚信之人, 铸法治之国。
虚假呈一时之得,诚信享一世之裕。
做人以诚信为本, 治市以法律为基。
诚信提升城市品位,法治推动文明进步。
欺诈只能得逞一时,诚信才能受益一生。
信达于诚,方能勤政。法精于治,方能谐民。
诚信缔造和谐社会,法治铸就平安生活。
人生百年以诚为贵,国家兴旺依法则灵。
诚信三冬暖,失信三伏寒 。
诚信展现人格魅力,法治推进社会文明。
诚信与责任同在,法治与发展共存 。
手拉手共铸诚信,心连心推进法制。
吹响诚信号角,高举法治大旗。
诚信是面镜子,时刻照射着我们身边的每一个人。
做人讲诚则灵,治国依法则兴。
诚信交得天下友,法治换得万家安。
法治造就和谐社会,诚信成就积极人生。
人无信不立, 国无法不安。
生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
崇尚诚信,华夏春风暖;推行法治,神州正气扬。
诚信不可无,贪念不可有;做人莫忘法,做事莫违法。
守信万里还嫌近,无信一寸步难行。
诚信塑人,法治兴邦。
切勿丢掉诚信,当你回过头再去捡它的时候,它已失去了原有的色彩!
谁如果失去了金钱,他只是失去了他能再次得到的东西,要是谁失去了诚信,他就会失去了他再也不会得到的东西。
1、 诚信是人最美丽的外套,是心灵最圣洁的鲜花。
2、 诚信是你价格不菲的鞋子,踏遍千山万水,质量也应永恒不变。
3、 诚信像一面镜子,一旦打破,你的人格就会出现裂痕。
4、 诚信是道路,随着开拓者的脚步延伸;诚信是智慧,随着博学者的求索积累;诚信是成功,随着奋进者的拼搏临近;诚信是财富的种子,只要你诚心种下,就能找到打开金库的钥匙。
5、 诚信是做人之根本,立业之基。
6、 创起诚信校园,树起诚信学风,成为诚信学子。
7、 诚信为本,学做真人。
8、 诚信为荣,失信可耻。
9、 最大限度的诚实是最好的处事之道。
10、 诚实守信是面明镜,不诚实的人在他面前,都会露出真相。
11、 没有诚实,何来尊严?
12、 诚实是上策。
13、 一切有成效的工作都是以某种诚信为先决条件。
14、 不诚则有累,诚则无累。
15、 诚信是沟通心灵的桥梁,善于欺骗的人,永远到不了桥的另一端。
16、 诚信,是一股清泉,它将洗去欺诈的肮脏,让世界的每一个角落都流淌着洁净。
17、 诚信,让心灵无瑕,让友谊长存,让世界美好!
18、 知识是财富,诚信也是一种财富,拥有知识能使你变得充实,拥有诚信能使世界变得更美好!
19、 诚,乃信之本;无诚,何以言信?诚而有信,方为人生.
20、 诚信,如一把钥匙,打开你我心中那扇门上的锁,让我们敞开心扉,沐浴那友谊的阳光。
21、 诚信,是人类文明的阶梯;诚信,是填补人类间隔的碎石。
22、 诚信是一种自我约束的品质,不是通过一篇文章或一句话就能检验得出的。
23、 诚信是人的本钱,没有诚信的人是一个失败者。
24、 诚信比一切智谋更好。
25、 诚信就像人身上不可缺的钙,没钙的还能算作人吗?
26、 诚信就像人生航船的楫桨,控制着人生的去向。
27、 诚信犹如一颗青涩的果,你咬一口,虽然很苦,却回味无穷,倘若你将它丢弃,便会终身遗憾!
28、 生活是需要诚信的,有了诚信才会有幸福可言。
29、 生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
30、 诚实是人生的命脉,是一切价值的根基。
31、 诚实是一种力量的象征,它显示着一个人的高度自重和内心的安全感与尊严感。
32、 如果要别人诚信,首先要自己诚信。
33、 失去了诚信,就等同于敌人毁灭了自己。
34、 诚实的人必须对自己守信,他的最后靠山就是真诚。
35、 诚信是人生之本。
36、 诚信者,受人爱戴尊敬也。
37、 诚信是友谊的必备条件。
38、 诚信,是一个人立足社会的先导。
39、 诚信是人生路途中的第一准则。
40、 诚信是一种美德,会让你更加完美。
41、 诚实守信是做人的根本,是世界上最美丽的花朵。
42、 诚实守信,快乐人生。
43、 诚信就是取之不尽、用之不竭的知识、金钱。
44、 诚信,世界需要你。
45、 诚信创造财富。
46、 不讲诚信的人,是可悲的、可怜的、可恨的,也是可怕的。
47、 只有种下诚信的苗,才能结出诚信的果。
48、 有其言,无其行,君子之耻也。
49、 给心灵一片净土,给诚信一片天地,人生的道路让我们与诚信同行。
50、 人如以诚信为本,就能塑造完美人生。
诚信格言摘录
1、内不欺己,外不欺人。 ———孔子
2、人而无信,不知其可也。 ———孔子
3、言必信,行必果。 ——子路
4、你必须以诚待人,别人才会以诚回报。 ———李嘉诚
5、诚实是人生永远最美好的品格。 ———高尔基
6、老老实实最能打动人心。 ———莎士比亚
7、没有一处遗产像诚实那样丰富的了。 ———莎士比亚
8、对自己的忠实,才不会对别人欺诈。 ———莎士比亚
9、诚实和勤勉应该成为你永久的伴侣。 ———本·富兰克林
10、 难听的实话胜过动听的谎言。 ———苏尤里·郁达列夫
11、 坦白使人心地轻松的妙药。 ———西塞罗
12、 即使开始时,怀有故意的人,只要自己抱有真实和诚实去接触,就一定能换来好意。
———日本 池田大作
13、 诚实是艺术的最大要素。只要我们总对自己诚实,艺术总在那里,它决不会让我们失望的。 ———柯尼利亚·奥提斯金约
14、 有所许诺,纤毫必偿。有所期约,时刻不易。 ———袁采
15、 诚实比一切智谋更好,而且它是智谋的基本条件。 ———康德
16、 要宣扬你的一切,不必用你的言语,要用你的本来面目。 ———卢梭
17、 忠诚的高尚和可敬,无与伦比。 ———裴多菲
18、 我们应该老老实实地办事。 ———毛泽东
19、 做老实人,说老实话,干老实事,就是实事求是。 ——— 邓小
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嚴長壽 / 每個打擊,都有它的意義
嚴長壽 / 每個打擊,都有它的意義
不祈求一帆風順,萬事如意,我只祈求當每個問題發生時,有繼續面對問題的勇氣與毅力,支撐下去。
人生路上,挫折常常會沒有預警地從四面八方襲來。
可能是無法抗拒的天災地變;可能是難以預料的生老病死;可能是努力工作,卻懷才不遇;可能是全心付出,卻換來情人變心的回報;可能是用功苦讀,卻進不了理想的學校;可能是辛苦創業,卻落得血本無歸的下場。
面對各種不同的挫折,每個人的「容忍能力」都不同。
有的人受不了被拒絕
一個高學歷的朋友,從拒絕接受他感情的女生住處跳樓自殺,留下無限的遺憾與惋惜。
「他條件那麼好,還怕找不到更漂亮的女朋友嗎?」
「沒想到他長的那麼帥,還會殉情!」
「何苦如此專情?天涯何處無芳草!」
大部份的親友們都以為他是個死心眼的癡情奇男子,其實了解內情的人都曉得,從小到大,他不知道拋棄了多少個女朋友,讓多少人為他傷心難過,卻受不了被人拋棄一次。
有的人受不了被誤解
到國外留學多年的朋友,提起出國一段不甚愉快的職場往事,仍然氣憤難耐。
當年因上班的地點,位於寸土寸金的商業精華區,幾乎每天都為了找停車位而遲到。
直屬上司希望他能準時上班,便建議他把車子停在公司的停車位。
由於職位低、年資淺,朋友心想「公司的停車位哪輪得到我來停呢?」
為求慎重起見,他再三詢問上司「不會有問題嗎?真的可以停嗎?」
上司拍著胸脯保證,「絕對沒有問題,可以停啦!」
不料第一天把車子停在公司的停車位,就出事了。
上班後不久,上司突然叫他「你的電話。」
拿起話筒,劈頭就被一個陌生女子罵了一頓「我是公司的副理,立刻把你的車子開走。誰叫你把車停在我的位子上,害我上班遲到!」
被對方罵得莫名其妙,上司卻一點表示也沒有,朋友立即提出辭呈,不管公司怎麼留都沒有用。
有的人受不了被挑出錯誤
我認識一個辦事能力很強的朋友,他什麼都好,就是受不了被挑出錯誤。
只要,有人當眾指出他「哪裡做錯了」便辭職不幹。
很多時候,面試他的主管起初都想不通,以他的學歷,早就該升官了,為什麼一直在原地打轉?
等他提出辭呈才恍然大悟,原來他受不了被挑出錯誤。
有的人受不了一點不完美
好友的女兒生日,特地邀請幾個漂亮的阿姨去為小朋友慶生。
切蛋糕時,有個小客人拿到蛋糕缺一角,他馬上把蛋糕推開,「我不要吃破一個洞的蛋糕!」
「只缺一小角啊,蛋糕還是很好吃喔!」
任憑阿姨們說破嘴,他就是不接受這塊缺了一角的蛋糕,最後只好換一塊「完美無缺」的蛋糕給他。
看他為了一點缺角而拒吃蛋糕的表情,我很替他的未來擔心,是否每次都能如願換到一塊完美無缺的蛋糕呢?
1、想想自己,受得了挫折嗎?
2、受得了被拒絕嗎?
3、受得了被誤解嗎?
4、受得了被挑出錯誤嗎?
5、受得了失敗的打擊嗎?
6、受得了期待落空嗎?
7、受得了不完美的存在嗎?
「挫折容忍度」,說簡單些,即是「一個人承受打擊的能力」。
承受打擊的能力越強,自然學到的經驗越多,累積的成功及本錢也越多。
承受打擊的能力越弱,自然會想辦法躲避挫折,同時喪失自我磨練的機會。
挫折,是年輕人最好的禮物
記得曾看過一篇文章,作者提到:他剛從軍中退伍時,只有高中學歷,無一技之長,只好到一家印刷廠,擔任「送貨員」。
一天,這年輕人將一整車四、五十捆的書,送到某大學的七樓辦公室;當他先把兩三捆的書扛到電梯口等候時,一位五十多歲的警衛走過來,說:「這電梯是給教授、老師搭乘的,其他人一律都不准搭,你必須走樓梯!」
年輕人向警衛解釋:「我不是學生,我是要送一整車的書到七樓辦公室,這是你們學校訂的書啊!」
可是警衛一臉無情的說:「不行就是不行,你不是教授,不是老師,不准搭電梯!」
兩人在電梯口吵半天,但警衛依然不予放行,年輕人心想,這一車的書,要搬完,至少要來回走七層樓梯二十多趟,會累死人的!
後來,年輕人無法忍受這「無理的刁難」,就心一橫,把四、五十捆書搬放在大廳角落,不顧一切的走人。
年輕人向印刷廠老闆解釋事情原委,獲得諒解,但也向老闆辭職,並且立刻到書局買整套高中教材和參考書,含淚發誓,我一定要奮發圖強,考上大學,我絕不再讓別人「瞧不起」。
這年輕人在聯考前半年,天天閉門苦讀十四個小時,因為他知道,他的時間不多了,他已無退路可走,每當他偷懶、懈怠時,腦中就想起「警衛不准他搭電梯」被羞辱、歧視的一幕,也就打起精神、加倍努力用功。
後來,這年輕人終於考上某大學醫學院。
如今,二十多年過去了,他也變成一家開業診所的中年醫生,然而,他靜心一想,當時,要不是「警衛無理刁難和歧視」,他怎能從屈辱中擦乾眼淚、勇敢站起來?
而那位被他痛恨的警衛,不也是他一生中的恩人嗎?
經國先生曾說:「失意時需要忍,得意時需要淡。」
的確,人,都有失意,不順遂的時候,然而,我更相信!「挫折,是年輕人最好的禮物!」
人只有在遭遇挫折,被他人百般刁難、岐視、嘲諷時,才能「打醒自己」,讓自己被「當頭棒喝」而驚醒過來!這豈不是一生中最珍貴的禮物?
因此,如果現在的挫折,能帶給你未來幸福,請忍受它。
如果現在的快樂,會帶給你未來不幸,請拋棄它。
「生命中的每個挫折、每個傷痛、每個打擊,都有它的意義。」
祝福大家都能夠突破自己所不能突破的難關。
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不祈求一帆風順,萬事如意,我只祈求當每個問題發生時,有繼續面對問題的勇氣與毅力,支撐下去。
人生路上,挫折常常會沒有預警地從四面八方襲來。
可能是無法抗拒的天災地變;可能是難以預料的生老病死;可能是努力工作,卻懷才不遇;可能是全心付出,卻換來情人變心的回報;可能是用功苦讀,卻進不了理想的學校;可能是辛苦創業,卻落得血本無歸的下場。
面對各種不同的挫折,每個人的「容忍能力」都不同。
有的人受不了被拒絕
一個高學歷的朋友,從拒絕接受他感情的女生住處跳樓自殺,留下無限的遺憾與惋惜。
「他條件那麼好,還怕找不到更漂亮的女朋友嗎?」
「沒想到他長的那麼帥,還會殉情!」
「何苦如此專情?天涯何處無芳草!」
大部份的親友們都以為他是個死心眼的癡情奇男子,其實了解內情的人都曉得,從小到大,他不知道拋棄了多少個女朋友,讓多少人為他傷心難過,卻受不了被人拋棄一次。
有的人受不了被誤解
到國外留學多年的朋友,提起出國一段不甚愉快的職場往事,仍然氣憤難耐。
當年因上班的地點,位於寸土寸金的商業精華區,幾乎每天都為了找停車位而遲到。
直屬上司希望他能準時上班,便建議他把車子停在公司的停車位。
由於職位低、年資淺,朋友心想「公司的停車位哪輪得到我來停呢?」
為求慎重起見,他再三詢問上司「不會有問題嗎?真的可以停嗎?」
上司拍著胸脯保證,「絕對沒有問題,可以停啦!」
不料第一天把車子停在公司的停車位,就出事了。
上班後不久,上司突然叫他「你的電話。」
拿起話筒,劈頭就被一個陌生女子罵了一頓「我是公司的副理,立刻把你的車子開走。誰叫你把車停在我的位子上,害我上班遲到!」
被對方罵得莫名其妙,上司卻一點表示也沒有,朋友立即提出辭呈,不管公司怎麼留都沒有用。
有的人受不了被挑出錯誤
我認識一個辦事能力很強的朋友,他什麼都好,就是受不了被挑出錯誤。
只要,有人當眾指出他「哪裡做錯了」便辭職不幹。
很多時候,面試他的主管起初都想不通,以他的學歷,早就該升官了,為什麼一直在原地打轉?
等他提出辭呈才恍然大悟,原來他受不了被挑出錯誤。
有的人受不了一點不完美
好友的女兒生日,特地邀請幾個漂亮的阿姨去為小朋友慶生。
切蛋糕時,有個小客人拿到蛋糕缺一角,他馬上把蛋糕推開,「我不要吃破一個洞的蛋糕!」
「只缺一小角啊,蛋糕還是很好吃喔!」
任憑阿姨們說破嘴,他就是不接受這塊缺了一角的蛋糕,最後只好換一塊「完美無缺」的蛋糕給他。
看他為了一點缺角而拒吃蛋糕的表情,我很替他的未來擔心,是否每次都能如願換到一塊完美無缺的蛋糕呢?
1、想想自己,受得了挫折嗎?
2、受得了被拒絕嗎?
3、受得了被誤解嗎?
4、受得了被挑出錯誤嗎?
5、受得了失敗的打擊嗎?
6、受得了期待落空嗎?
7、受得了不完美的存在嗎?
「挫折容忍度」,說簡單些,即是「一個人承受打擊的能力」。
承受打擊的能力越強,自然學到的經驗越多,累積的成功及本錢也越多。
承受打擊的能力越弱,自然會想辦法躲避挫折,同時喪失自我磨練的機會。
挫折,是年輕人最好的禮物
記得曾看過一篇文章,作者提到:他剛從軍中退伍時,只有高中學歷,無一技之長,只好到一家印刷廠,擔任「送貨員」。
一天,這年輕人將一整車四、五十捆的書,送到某大學的七樓辦公室;當他先把兩三捆的書扛到電梯口等候時,一位五十多歲的警衛走過來,說:「這電梯是給教授、老師搭乘的,其他人一律都不准搭,你必須走樓梯!」
年輕人向警衛解釋:「我不是學生,我是要送一整車的書到七樓辦公室,這是你們學校訂的書啊!」
可是警衛一臉無情的說:「不行就是不行,你不是教授,不是老師,不准搭電梯!」
兩人在電梯口吵半天,但警衛依然不予放行,年輕人心想,這一車的書,要搬完,至少要來回走七層樓梯二十多趟,會累死人的!
後來,年輕人無法忍受這「無理的刁難」,就心一橫,把四、五十捆書搬放在大廳角落,不顧一切的走人。
年輕人向印刷廠老闆解釋事情原委,獲得諒解,但也向老闆辭職,並且立刻到書局買整套高中教材和參考書,含淚發誓,我一定要奮發圖強,考上大學,我絕不再讓別人「瞧不起」。
這年輕人在聯考前半年,天天閉門苦讀十四個小時,因為他知道,他的時間不多了,他已無退路可走,每當他偷懶、懈怠時,腦中就想起「警衛不准他搭電梯」被羞辱、歧視的一幕,也就打起精神、加倍努力用功。
後來,這年輕人終於考上某大學醫學院。
如今,二十多年過去了,他也變成一家開業診所的中年醫生,然而,他靜心一想,當時,要不是「警衛無理刁難和歧視」,他怎能從屈辱中擦乾眼淚、勇敢站起來?
而那位被他痛恨的警衛,不也是他一生中的恩人嗎?
經國先生曾說:「失意時需要忍,得意時需要淡。」
的確,人,都有失意,不順遂的時候,然而,我更相信!「挫折,是年輕人最好的禮物!」
人只有在遭遇挫折,被他人百般刁難、岐視、嘲諷時,才能「打醒自己」,讓自己被「當頭棒喝」而驚醒過來!這豈不是一生中最珍貴的禮物?
因此,如果現在的挫折,能帶給你未來幸福,請忍受它。
如果現在的快樂,會帶給你未來不幸,請拋棄它。
「生命中的每個挫折、每個傷痛、每個打擊,都有它的意義。」
祝福大家都能夠突破自己所不能突破的難關。
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做一个老师挺苦挺累的,做一个好教师就更苦更累了,但这是我们选择的职业,所以我们要做的只有默默工作。
每一个孩子都是可爱的,虽然他们有的可能学习成绩有些差强人意,但他是运动会上的冠军,是劳动中的能手,是他主动送生病的同学回家,谁能说他不是个好孩子,又有谁是完美的呢?
曾经读到一个故事,故事说古代有位老禅师,一日晚看见见墙角边有一张椅子,是哪位出家人违犯寺规越墙出去遛达了。老禅师也不声张,走到墙边,移开椅子,就地而蹲。少顷,果真有一小和尚翻墙,黑暗中踩着老禅师的背脊跳进了院子。当他发觉刚才踏的不是椅子,而是自己的师傅时,惊慌失措,张口结舌。但师傅并没有厉声责备他,只是以平静的语调说:“夜深天凉,快去多穿一件衣服。”
我又常常想,老师也应该对学生宽容再宽容一些,芸芸众生,各有所长,各有所短,可能他们经常无法克制自己的言行,无法很好地完成学习任务,不一定有辉煌的未来,可是谁说一个平凡的人就比谁低人一等呢?像故事中的那个老和尚,就清楚地知道,宽容是一种无声的教育。
昨天听了王老师的一节美术课。同学们认真的捏着泥人,同时也有交流的说话声,以至于部分同学没有听到王老师组织下一步教学的内容。这时,王老师提出了两个问题我很欣赏:1、同学们捏泥人是不是玩得很高兴啊?2、是不是高兴过了头刹不住车了呢?我相信,每一位学生都明白了老师的意思,也应该知道接下来应该怎么做。课上每位同学都积极地动了手,课下我对泥人的特点、捏泥人的技法等对学生进行了提问,他们掌握的很好,这节课?成功!
学生对我们教师的要求并不高,只要我们真心一点,平等一点,赏识一点,他们就会心满意足,“言听计从”。在以后的日子里我会努力地蹲下身子与学生对话,也努力着去用自身的行动,去影响他们。
每天把笑脸送给每个人,我们的领导,我们的同事,我们的好学生,还要有我们的家人。
《宽容是一种无声的教育》来自斐斐课件园!http://www.FFKJ.Net
每一个孩子都是可爱的,虽然他们有的可能学习成绩有些差强人意,但他是运动会上的冠军,是劳动中的能手,是他主动送生病的同学回家,谁能说他不是个好孩子,又有谁是完美的呢?
曾经读到一个故事,故事说古代有位老禅师,一日晚看见见墙角边有一张椅子,是哪位出家人违犯寺规越墙出去遛达了。老禅师也不声张,走到墙边,移开椅子,就地而蹲。少顷,果真有一小和尚翻墙,黑暗中踩着老禅师的背脊跳进了院子。当他发觉刚才踏的不是椅子,而是自己的师傅时,惊慌失措,张口结舌。但师傅并没有厉声责备他,只是以平静的语调说:“夜深天凉,快去多穿一件衣服。”
我又常常想,老师也应该对学生宽容再宽容一些,芸芸众生,各有所长,各有所短,可能他们经常无法克制自己的言行,无法很好地完成学习任务,不一定有辉煌的未来,可是谁说一个平凡的人就比谁低人一等呢?像故事中的那个老和尚,就清楚地知道,宽容是一种无声的教育。
昨天听了王老师的一节美术课。同学们认真的捏着泥人,同时也有交流的说话声,以至于部分同学没有听到王老师组织下一步教学的内容。这时,王老师提出了两个问题我很欣赏:1、同学们捏泥人是不是玩得很高兴啊?2、是不是高兴过了头刹不住车了呢?我相信,每一位学生都明白了老师的意思,也应该知道接下来应该怎么做。课上每位同学都积极地动了手,课下我对泥人的特点、捏泥人的技法等对学生进行了提问,他们掌握的很好,这节课?成功!
学生对我们教师的要求并不高,只要我们真心一点,平等一点,赏识一点,他们就会心满意足,“言听计从”。在以后的日子里我会努力地蹲下身子与学生对话,也努力着去用自身的行动,去影响他们。
每天把笑脸送给每个人,我们的领导,我们的同事,我们的好学生,还要有我们的家人。
《宽容是一种无声的教育》来自斐斐课件园!http://www.FFKJ.Net
屈指可算,距离考试在校时间也就是十天左右了,昨天,我在班里开了一个小讲座,内容如下:
●学会正确评价自己,正确对待家长和教师的期望和评价,避免盲目自信或自卑。坚信“我行!舍我其谁?”的心理暗示作用能让自己的水平正常发挥出来。
●重视考前10天的休息和睡眠。考前10天要适当放松:听音乐、看电视、听心理辅导或应考技巧讲座。晚上睡前不喝刺激性饮料;注意不要太早休息,但也不要太晚,
合理安排学习时间和内容
●适当浏览书本,最好在10天的时间内,闭目思索一下各科的知识网络,把重点内容像看电影一样想象一下,把时间重点放在已经做过的模拟题和错题本上。
注意调节身体状况,防病治病
●合理安排运动,避免参加大运动量的项目和进行长时间的运动。
●合理安排饮食品种,多补充一些易消化的富含蛋白质的食品,适当地吃一些蔬菜和水果,生食水果要注意卫生。注意预防感冒、中暑、腹泻、外伤等突发疾病。有病的哪怕是小病亦不要讳疾忌医,要尽快治好,以免影响考试的精神状态。
《考前十天的心理辅导:合理作息,调整心态》这一教学反思,来自斐斐课件园!http://www.FFKJ.Net
●学会正确评价自己,正确对待家长和教师的期望和评价,避免盲目自信或自卑。坚信“我行!舍我其谁?”的心理暗示作用能让自己的水平正常发挥出来。
●重视考前10天的休息和睡眠。考前10天要适当放松:听音乐、看电视、听心理辅导或应考技巧讲座。晚上睡前不喝刺激性饮料;注意不要太早休息,但也不要太晚,
合理安排学习时间和内容
●适当浏览书本,最好在10天的时间内,闭目思索一下各科的知识网络,把重点内容像看电影一样想象一下,把时间重点放在已经做过的模拟题和错题本上。
注意调节身体状况,防病治病
●合理安排运动,避免参加大运动量的项目和进行长时间的运动。
●合理安排饮食品种,多补充一些易消化的富含蛋白质的食品,适当地吃一些蔬菜和水果,生食水果要注意卫生。注意预防感冒、中暑、腹泻、外伤等突发疾病。有病的哪怕是小病亦不要讳疾忌医,要尽快治好,以免影响考试的精神状态。
《考前十天的心理辅导:合理作息,调整心态》这一教学反思,来自斐斐课件园!http://www.FFKJ.Net
Lessons Learnt from 李嘉诚
When u are in a hard conditons, asking yourselves whether u have enough conditions:-
Able to save
Able to humble
Willing to learn everyday
Able to build a reputation 信誉第一 prestige first
Confidence to yourselves: i'm able to success in future as my previous belief is correct
Willing to work hard, sacrifice myself & not others.
Sensitive to people & be responsible for the tasks. Receive & give back.
Know to contribute back to the communities
To be success never too late as long as i focus on my goals & hold my believes.
Learning while achieving my dreams of earning money.
Top 10 Goals:
1. Working in Kuwait / Abu Dhabi / Arab Saudi / Korea as a English teacher, having many allowances while monthly salary about RM 10000.
(Get a master holder from a renowned University-British, IELTS/ CELTA /DELTA certs in KL)Part time learning if x getting scholarship. Full time- scholarship.
2. Amway Business while i graduated from study at UNISEL. By the way, i can still follow up with new distributors & sells to new customers. Who r interested in business will be OPP by me. If not, just be customers. 20 distributors who are willing seriously want to be at the top of status- 20 diamonds & 10 SP to achieve 70FAA.
3. As a private tutor on my free time, in home or tuition center. To earn > RM2000.
4. Learnt from at least a lesson after a day, like what i have done previously.
5. Observe different kinds of people, help in direct selling.
6. Need to know although maintain a good networking is good, however, be pure to others is important as well. Keep self-love and self-respect.
7. Know recent news- read news.
8. Obtain knowledge by reading books.
9. Maybank insurance agent.
10. Spread Gospels!!!
Able to save
Able to humble
Willing to learn everyday
Able to build a reputation 信誉第一 prestige first
Confidence to yourselves: i'm able to success in future as my previous belief is correct
Willing to work hard, sacrifice myself & not others.
Sensitive to people & be responsible for the tasks. Receive & give back.
Know to contribute back to the communities
To be success never too late as long as i focus on my goals & hold my believes.
Learning while achieving my dreams of earning money.
Top 10 Goals:
1. Working in Kuwait / Abu Dhabi / Arab Saudi / Korea as a English teacher, having many allowances while monthly salary about RM 10000.
(Get a master holder from a renowned University-British, IELTS/ CELTA /DELTA certs in KL)Part time learning if x getting scholarship. Full time- scholarship.
2. Amway Business while i graduated from study at UNISEL. By the way, i can still follow up with new distributors & sells to new customers. Who r interested in business will be OPP by me. If not, just be customers. 20 distributors who are willing seriously want to be at the top of status- 20 diamonds & 10 SP to achieve 70FAA.
3. As a private tutor on my free time, in home or tuition center. To earn > RM2000.
4. Learnt from at least a lesson after a day, like what i have done previously.
5. Observe different kinds of people, help in direct selling.
6. Need to know although maintain a good networking is good, however, be pure to others is important as well. Keep self-love and self-respect.
7. Know recent news- read news.
8. Obtain knowledge by reading books.
9. Maybank insurance agent.
10. Spread Gospels!!!
Monday, June 6, 2011
箴言作者勉勵我們「在(你)一切所行的事上,都要認定祂。」神對我們說,來倚靠我,仰賴我吧,來向我傾心吐意,向我詢問,向我求;告訴我你們今天的計劃,告訴我你們面對的困難,與我分享你們的盼望和夢想,你們的懼怕和失敗 —— 換言之,將一切放在禱告之中。
如果没有人相信你,那就自己相信自己;如果没人欣赏你,那就自己欣赏自己;如果没人祝福你,那就自己祝福自己。用心去触摸属于自己的阳光,用爱去创造属于自己的时空。当自己读懂了自己,世界才能读懂你。
唯一能讓事情有所改變的就是你自己!
「我是尊貴的,我是被愛的。上帝對我的生命有一個很棒的計劃,我走到哪兒都有恩惠、慈愛隨著我。上帝的福分澆灌我,甚至要滿溢出來了,凡我手做的盡都成功興盛。我對未來充滿期待!」
there are many distractions in this world.
Some are pleasant; some are not. But whether they are pleasant or not, when you get swayed by distractions, you will lose your focus. What is important to you? Focus on that and then when you need a break, you can choose to allow to be distracted.
it is also important to know what you do not want.
Sometimes when you go through a period of great difficulty and struggle, it is so that you can finally realize what you do NOT want in your life. Then finally, at long last, you can embrace what you DO want.
you can be like a tree which is both rooted and reaching.
In what ways can you root yourself in a reality or an environment which serves your need for stability? And in which ways can you reach toward the heavens for inspiration and connection to Divine?
your seriousness feeds your ego, and keeps you away from God.
Seriousness makes you dull and dry. It feeds your sense of self-importance, that becomes a mountain between you and God. Drop your seriousness, and open the path to God.
this very message is a little hug.
Hugs tell us many things; that we are loved, that we are important, that we are valued. This message is a little hug from God telling you all those things. Enjoy it, be blessed by it and try to figure out a way to hug God back.
devotion to God begins with devotion to your family and community.
It is much easier to proclaim abstract and remote love, then to step into the midst of living and keep an open heart through the thick of it. Be there where you are needed the most.
when events happen which seem catastrophic, it is not only possible, but very important for you to allow yourself to come to a place of calmness.
Panicking serves no
if you're feeling stressed, take care of your body.
Breathe, stretch, move, get a massage. Your body will thank you and your spirit will feel renewed. God wants us to take care of body, mind, and spirit.
suffering, and not the the people who areone - not yourself, not planet. Allow yourself to trust that there is a larger purpose and that it may not be necessary for you to know that purpose at this time. Allow yourself to have faith that ultimately, all will be well.
如果没有人相信你,那就自己相信自己;如果没人欣赏你,那就自己欣赏自己;如果没人祝福你,那就自己祝福自己。用心去触摸属于自己的阳光,用爱去创造属于自己的时空。当自己读懂了自己,世界才能读懂你。
唯一能讓事情有所改變的就是你自己!
「我是尊貴的,我是被愛的。上帝對我的生命有一個很棒的計劃,我走到哪兒都有恩惠、慈愛隨著我。上帝的福分澆灌我,甚至要滿溢出來了,凡我手做的盡都成功興盛。我對未來充滿期待!」
there are many distractions in this world.
Some are pleasant; some are not. But whether they are pleasant or not, when you get swayed by distractions, you will lose your focus. What is important to you? Focus on that and then when you need a break, you can choose to allow to be distracted.
it is also important to know what you do not want.
Sometimes when you go through a period of great difficulty and struggle, it is so that you can finally realize what you do NOT want in your life. Then finally, at long last, you can embrace what you DO want.
you can be like a tree which is both rooted and reaching.
In what ways can you root yourself in a reality or an environment which serves your need for stability? And in which ways can you reach toward the heavens for inspiration and connection to Divine?
your seriousness feeds your ego, and keeps you away from God.
Seriousness makes you dull and dry. It feeds your sense of self-importance, that becomes a mountain between you and God. Drop your seriousness, and open the path to God.
this very message is a little hug.
Hugs tell us many things; that we are loved, that we are important, that we are valued. This message is a little hug from God telling you all those things. Enjoy it, be blessed by it and try to figure out a way to hug God back.
devotion to God begins with devotion to your family and community.
It is much easier to proclaim abstract and remote love, then to step into the midst of living and keep an open heart through the thick of it. Be there where you are needed the most.
when events happen which seem catastrophic, it is not only possible, but very important for you to allow yourself to come to a place of calmness.
Panicking serves no
if you're feeling stressed, take care of your body.
Breathe, stretch, move, get a massage. Your body will thank you and your spirit will feel renewed. God wants us to take care of body, mind, and spirit.
suffering, and not the the people who areone - not yourself, not planet. Allow yourself to trust that there is a larger purpose and that it may not be necessary for you to know that purpose at this time. Allow yourself to have faith that ultimately, all will be well.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
SEM 6
Moral Studies
Educational Sociology
Media resources in ELT
SEM 5
1 CES2213 INTRODUCTION TO PSYCHOLINGUISTICS jaga 5a 3
2 CES2313 TEACHING OF READING SKILLS SEM 5A 3
3 CES3123 MATERIAL SELECTION AND ADAPTATION - 3
4 CES3133 TEACHING OF WRITING SKILLS Mr Mus 3
5 CLS2213 THEATRE IN TESL Miss Tina 3
6 CPS2213 EDUCATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY Tn Haji
SEM 4
Course Description
1 CES2113 INTRODUCTION TO SOCIOLINGUISTICS
2 CES2143 TEACHING OF ENGLISH GRAMMAR
3 CES2153 READING FOR ACADEMIC PURPOSES
4 CES2223 ACADEMIC AND BUSINESS WRITING SKILLS
5 CES2243 TEACHING OF AURAL-ORAL SKILLS
6 CPS2113 TEACHING TECHNIQUES AND CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT
Sem 3
A Survey of Prose Forms & Poetry
English Phonetics & Phonology
Sem 2
Subject: Japanese 1 >>
Subject: Speech & Communication
Subject: English Syntax & Methodology >>find info again
Subject: Principles of Second Learning & Teaching >>
Subject: TESL Methodology >>
GAMES
EDUCATION EMPHASIS
LESSON PLANNING
TPR
PPP- describe each
Subject: Computer & Technology in Education
Subject: Co-curriculum
Sem 1
Subject: Pengajian Malaysia
Introduction to General Linguistics
English Grammar
Malaysian Literature
Language Awareness
Philosophy & Development of Education Industry
Language Learning Strategies & Study Skills
1 CES2213 INTRODUCTION TO PSYCHOLINGUISTICS jaga 5a 3
2 CES2313 TEACHING OF READING SKILLS SEM 5A 3
3 CES3123 MATERIAL SELECTION AND ADAPTATION - 3
4 CES3133 TEACHING OF WRITING SKILLS Mr Mus 3
5 CLS2213 THEATRE IN TESL Miss Tina 3
6 CPS2213 EDUCATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY Tn Haji
SEM 4
Course Description
1 CES2113 INTRODUCTION TO SOCIOLINGUISTICS
2 CES2143 TEACHING OF ENGLISH GRAMMAR
3 CES2153 READING FOR ACADEMIC PURPOSES
4 CES2223 ACADEMIC AND BUSINESS WRITING SKILLS
5 CES2243 TEACHING OF AURAL-ORAL SKILLS
6 CPS2113 TEACHING TECHNIQUES AND CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT
Sem 3
A Survey of Prose Forms & Poetry
English Phonetics & Phonology
Sem 2
Subject: Japanese 1 >>
Subject: Speech & Communication
Subject: English Syntax & Methodology >>find info again
Subject: Principles of Second Learning & Teaching >>
Subject: TESL Methodology >>
GAMES
EDUCATION EMPHASIS
LESSON PLANNING
TPR
PPP- describe each
Subject: Computer & Technology in Education
Subject: Co-curriculum
Sem 1
Subject: Pengajian Malaysia
Introduction to General Linguistics
English Grammar
Malaysian Literature
Language Awareness
Philosophy & Development of Education Industry
Language Learning Strategies & Study Skills
no matter what happens to you, you always have freedom of mind.
That means you always have freedom to choose the path of virtue over the path of suffering, to choose being one with God over being alone.
even when you do something wrong, even when you fail, even when you make poor choices, you are loved.
God is not a punitive. No doubt you will punish yourself enough for your mistakes. The question is: Will you try to do the right thing next time? Will you learn from your mistakes? Will you keep on loving and caring to the best of your ability?
it's time to remove everything unessential in your life.
Pairing down to essentials frees up energy and brings simplicity that are necessary for happiness.
you have allies in the world.
There are people who can help you navigate your way through the world. They can assist you in your healing and your growth. Seek out people who are supportive and wise and loving and honest. They will help you on your journey.
the more you are, the more you can be for others.
You cannot give to others what you do not have yourself. First, make yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually wealthy, and then freely give to others.
That means you always have freedom to choose the path of virtue over the path of suffering, to choose being one with God over being alone.
even when you do something wrong, even when you fail, even when you make poor choices, you are loved.
God is not a punitive. No doubt you will punish yourself enough for your mistakes. The question is: Will you try to do the right thing next time? Will you learn from your mistakes? Will you keep on loving and caring to the best of your ability?
it's time to remove everything unessential in your life.
Pairing down to essentials frees up energy and brings simplicity that are necessary for happiness.
you have allies in the world.
There are people who can help you navigate your way through the world. They can assist you in your healing and your growth. Seek out people who are supportive and wise and loving and honest. They will help you on your journey.
the more you are, the more you can be for others.
You cannot give to others what you do not have yourself. First, make yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually wealthy, and then freely give to others.
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