Thanks the Lord for giving chances to begin a new life even though my sin is uncountable. I learnt that instead of thinking the hurts i have been experienced so far, i have to think of Lord's heart even more! He's the one really love all of us. He even pay the highest price for all sinners, but still not blame us. He chose to be obedient to His Father in heaven. Can you imagine how hurtful our Lord is? ;]
Let us not to focus on our own but God of Almighty's will. :]
For the Joy of our Lord is our strength .
The earth is filled with His Glory! Hallelujah...till forever!
Remember my purposes on this earth is to glorify His name, anytime, anyplace, anything. :)
I'm ready to start the new beginning of 2012, everyday is a new day & new beginning. Don't regret anymore for my previous life. Not to scare to start late but scare not to start today! Gambateh!
My goals in 2012:
Have a disciplined life.
1) Organize church's activities systematically
2) Learn to speak English more fluently everyday.
3) Do AMWAY by speaking OPP at least 10 people per month. Do demonstration of products to them. Get updates of news & information and join programs available.
Targets: God's ministry(spiritually),
Academically,
Physically(exercise),
working being successful (Diamonds 2012)
Friday, December 30, 2011
Monday, November 21, 2011
The End of Sem Four
At LCCT airport currently,
I SHALL BE MORE HUMBLE ALTHOUGH I CAN DO A THING OR EXCEL IN A TALENT, NO MATTER WHAT I GAIN/ LOSE!
I CAN SEE MOST PEOPLE AROUND ME ARE IMPROVING THEMSELVES IN TERMS OF PERSONALITY & RELATIONSHIP WITH PEOPLE. THEY CAN INTERACT MORE NATURALLY THAN ME. BUT I SEEMS CAN'T LIVE TO BE MYSELF. WHAT HAPPENED ACTUALLY? I think because of my timidness and lack of confidence on THE ALMIGHTY GOD. I HAVE MUCH TO LEARN TO PRACTICE THE COMMANDMENTS OF GOD IN THE HOLY BIBLE. AS PASTOR LINDA SAID, I, AS A CHRISTIAN SHALL LIVE THE JUSTICE OF GOD!! ^^ NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENED AROUND ME. :))
REMINDER:
NEXT 2 SEM I SHALL LIVE IN HOSTEL AGAIN. :D -sem 6
improving,improving, eventhough people around me do not do so. i should do it alone ya;)
I SHALL BE MORE HUMBLE ALTHOUGH I CAN DO A THING OR EXCEL IN A TALENT, NO MATTER WHAT I GAIN/ LOSE!
I CAN SEE MOST PEOPLE AROUND ME ARE IMPROVING THEMSELVES IN TERMS OF PERSONALITY & RELATIONSHIP WITH PEOPLE. THEY CAN INTERACT MORE NATURALLY THAN ME. BUT I SEEMS CAN'T LIVE TO BE MYSELF. WHAT HAPPENED ACTUALLY? I think because of my timidness and lack of confidence on THE ALMIGHTY GOD. I HAVE MUCH TO LEARN TO PRACTICE THE COMMANDMENTS OF GOD IN THE HOLY BIBLE. AS PASTOR LINDA SAID, I, AS A CHRISTIAN SHALL LIVE THE JUSTICE OF GOD!! ^^ NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENED AROUND ME. :))
REMINDER:
NEXT 2 SEM I SHALL LIVE IN HOSTEL AGAIN. :D -sem 6
improving,improving, eventhough people around me do not do so. i should do it alone ya;)
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
如何攀上成功的巔峰 Steps to the Top
作者: 齊格勒 Zig Ziglar
出版社: 大光
裝訂: 平裝 480 頁
適用對象: 想要攀上成功巔峰的人
本書與登上人生的高峰同是名作家齊格勒的佳作，兩本書可謂姊妹作品。本書中提到的許多真實人物，他們完全靠著思想、信仰和行動來克服困難，創造契機。
希望是堅持的力量。很多人失去快樂，不是因為他們沒找到，而是因為他們沒有停下來享受。閱讀本書，不僅能為你築出通往成功高峰的階梯，更告訴你如何運用奇妙的潛意識力量，完成自我訂定的目標，且告訴你達成成功巔峰的七大要素和二百多則金言及成功實例:
態度——正確的態度影響你的聽力，能力，甚至收入。
選擇——你能成為情緒，反應，思想和外觀的主宰。
勇氣——你能勝過限制人類成就的挫敗，失望，恐懼，嘲笑。
目標——唯有先確立目標，你才能充分利用每一個機會，挑戰夢想。
行動——曉得如何採取行動，比曉得許多知識更重要。
愛——從孩童，朋友，細微的事物中，發掘愛，從心中除去苦毒，恨惡的情感。
毅力——藉著專注，辛勤，全力以赴，你能得到想得到的一切。
本書內容充滿幽默，智慧，循著其中的觀念，你必能過一個美好成功的人生。
金言摘錄:
1.人生最重要的，不在遭遇如何，而在於你以什麼態度面對遭遇。
2.為什麼我們總以「理想」來評估自己，而以「行為」來衡量別人呢？
3.快樂並非旅途的終站，而是旅遊的方式。
4.不要害怕別人的反對，記住，風箏是逆風，而非順風飛翔。
5.如果你想成功，就必須開闢新路，而非踩著別人快磨損的成功之路。
6.生命的課題，不在於超越別人，而在於超越自己。
7.一個人必須學會和自己相處，他就會發現自己永遠有一個好伴侶。
8.那些帶給別人陽光的人，不能阻止陽光照耀自己。
9.不論遭遇什麼，千萬別放鬆兩條生命之繩——希望和信心。
10.只有往下看，才會使人暈眩。
11.文字就像是眼鏡，如果沒有擦乾淨，就會使每件事物都糢糊起來。
12.許多人對待機會，就像小孩子對待海灘的沙，他們手中裝滿了沙，然後讓沙子一粒一粒的滑落，直到全部的沙都從手中滑光。
13.年老對我而言，永遠有十五年之遙。
14.做好一件工作最大的報酬，就是你曾經花過心血完成它
15.一個人面對失敗的態度，將決定他距下次勝利來臨的時間有多長
16.生命最大的獎賞，就是有機會在有價值的工作上全力以赴。
17.那些害怕被征服的人，注定失敗
18.快樂是瓶香水，你無法在倒給他人時自己不沾上幾滴。
19.不論走在馬路上，或在激烈的爭辨中，紅燈一亮，千萬停止。
20.仁慈是一件沒有辦法送走的東西——它總是會回來的。
21.愚笨的人到遠方尋找快樂，聰明的人由自己腳下培植快樂。
22.許多人從來不失敗，因為他們從來不嘗試。
23.我們無法處處施恩與人，但我們總是可以親切地和人說話。
24.忙碌的人，只會受一個魔鬼誘惑，無所事事的人卻會受一大群魔鬼誘惑。
25.好決心比壞習慣，更容易半途而廢。
26.不要沮喪，往往是鑰匙環中的最後一根鑰匙，才把門打開。
27.作最好的期望，作最壞的打算，並且面對現實。
28.為什麼要留戀過去的光輝呢？每天早晨，就是新生命的開始。
29.成功並非終結，失敗也並非不可收拾，只有勇氣才能幫助你度過難關。
30.面朝太陽，影子自然落在背後。
關於作者
作者齊格勒是美國著名的動機啟發者，他鼓吹的積極思想，激勵了許多人更上一層樓。本書提到的許多真實人物，他們完全靠著思想、信仰和行動來克服困難，創造契機。希望是堅持的力量。很多人失去快樂，不是因為他們沒找到，而是因為他們沒有停下來享受。山不轉路轉，變通一下可扭轉時勢，不過更重要的是堅持不動搖。
出版社: 大光
裝訂: 平裝 480 頁
適用對象: 想要攀上成功巔峰的人
本書與登上人生的高峰同是名作家齊格勒的佳作，兩本書可謂姊妹作品。本書中提到的許多真實人物，他們完全靠著思想、信仰和行動來克服困難，創造契機。
希望是堅持的力量。很多人失去快樂，不是因為他們沒找到，而是因為他們沒有停下來享受。閱讀本書，不僅能為你築出通往成功高峰的階梯，更告訴你如何運用奇妙的潛意識力量，完成自我訂定的目標，且告訴你達成成功巔峰的七大要素和二百多則金言及成功實例:
態度——正確的態度影響你的聽力，能力，甚至收入。
選擇——你能成為情緒，反應，思想和外觀的主宰。
勇氣——你能勝過限制人類成就的挫敗，失望，恐懼，嘲笑。
目標——唯有先確立目標，你才能充分利用每一個機會，挑戰夢想。
行動——曉得如何採取行動，比曉得許多知識更重要。
愛——從孩童，朋友，細微的事物中，發掘愛，從心中除去苦毒，恨惡的情感。
毅力——藉著專注，辛勤，全力以赴，你能得到想得到的一切。
本書內容充滿幽默，智慧，循著其中的觀念，你必能過一個美好成功的人生。
金言摘錄:
1.人生最重要的，不在遭遇如何，而在於你以什麼態度面對遭遇。
2.為什麼我們總以「理想」來評估自己，而以「行為」來衡量別人呢？
3.快樂並非旅途的終站，而是旅遊的方式。
4.不要害怕別人的反對，記住，風箏是逆風，而非順風飛翔。
5.如果你想成功，就必須開闢新路，而非踩著別人快磨損的成功之路。
6.生命的課題，不在於超越別人，而在於超越自己。
7.一個人必須學會和自己相處，他就會發現自己永遠有一個好伴侶。
8.那些帶給別人陽光的人，不能阻止陽光照耀自己。
9.不論遭遇什麼，千萬別放鬆兩條生命之繩——希望和信心。
10.只有往下看，才會使人暈眩。
11.文字就像是眼鏡，如果沒有擦乾淨，就會使每件事物都糢糊起來。
12.許多人對待機會，就像小孩子對待海灘的沙，他們手中裝滿了沙，然後讓沙子一粒一粒的滑落，直到全部的沙都從手中滑光。
13.年老對我而言，永遠有十五年之遙。
14.做好一件工作最大的報酬，就是你曾經花過心血完成它
15.一個人面對失敗的態度，將決定他距下次勝利來臨的時間有多長
16.生命最大的獎賞，就是有機會在有價值的工作上全力以赴。
17.那些害怕被征服的人，注定失敗
18.快樂是瓶香水，你無法在倒給他人時自己不沾上幾滴。
19.不論走在馬路上，或在激烈的爭辨中，紅燈一亮，千萬停止。
20.仁慈是一件沒有辦法送走的東西——它總是會回來的。
21.愚笨的人到遠方尋找快樂，聰明的人由自己腳下培植快樂。
22.許多人從來不失敗，因為他們從來不嘗試。
23.我們無法處處施恩與人，但我們總是可以親切地和人說話。
24.忙碌的人，只會受一個魔鬼誘惑，無所事事的人卻會受一大群魔鬼誘惑。
25.好決心比壞習慣，更容易半途而廢。
26.不要沮喪，往往是鑰匙環中的最後一根鑰匙，才把門打開。
27.作最好的期望，作最壞的打算，並且面對現實。
28.為什麼要留戀過去的光輝呢？每天早晨，就是新生命的開始。
29.成功並非終結，失敗也並非不可收拾，只有勇氣才能幫助你度過難關。
30.面朝太陽，影子自然落在背後。
關於作者
作者齊格勒是美國著名的動機啟發者，他鼓吹的積極思想，激勵了許多人更上一層樓。本書提到的許多真實人物，他們完全靠著思想、信仰和行動來克服困難，創造契機。希望是堅持的力量。很多人失去快樂，不是因為他們沒找到，而是因為他們沒有停下來享受。山不轉路轉，變通一下可扭轉時勢，不過更重要的是堅持不動搖。
Monday, November 14, 2011
Sunday, November 13, 2011
20 Ways to Find Inspiration
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Inspiration is a beautiful thing because every person gets inspired in different ways and by different means. I’ve compiled a list of ways anybody can find some inspiration in their life. Being inspired is a great feeling that isn’t always sustainable – but it’s very important in your life. Think about this quote – “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure”. Inspiration is the same way – something I find inspiring you might not care about or think twice about. Something that means nothing to you, might mean the world to me. Below is a list of actions, quotes, movies, etc. that you can try – and I’m betting you find inspiration in your own life if you try these out.
Here we go.
Watch the sunrise or the sunset. This gives you a good chance to reflect on the day ahead or behind you. I personally enjoy watching the sunrise – knowing that I have an entire day ahead of me to make the most out of life…
Physical exertion. Challenging yourself physically can be very inspiring and can give you great energy. This also gives you time to do what you feel with your mind – you can think though challenges, or let your mind escape the day to some of your favorite music. I find running to be very therapeutic and often times look forward to getting into my run.
Consult your dreams. It’s easy to get bogged down by the many tasks and busy schedules each week presents to our lives. Take a few minutes each week or every month to really think about what your dreams. I find it very inspiring to let go of what’s bouncing around in my head from the work day to think about the big picture of life.
Travel. Seeing new places and meeting new people can be very inspiring. Even if you aren’t a very social person – take a weekend and put yourself in a different environment that you find to be enjoyable. Some ideas could be camping, scenic drives, visit a local town known for great architecture, walk the beach (if you’re lucky enough to be near one!), etc. I highly recommend international travel if you can, I have found immersion into a different culture to be highly rewarding and interesting.
This image is very inspiring.
Inspiration
This quote. “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” – Maria Robinson
This quote too. “You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.
Nature. I can find inspiration in all phases of nature. If you give yourself time to reflect, it’s easier to be inspired if you are in the presence of nature. Maybe it’s sitting on your front porch on a nice evening, or in your garage witnessing a driving rain, or taking a walk on a crisp fall morning – you get the idea. Nature is a very powerful thing – think about using some of that power for own benefit!
Get organized. Clean up your office or your house and get organized. File, throw away, figure out what you need, etc. to put yourself in a position to move forward in a positive direction – this will inspire you to take on what’s next. Sometimes clutter and useless stuff lingers in our workspace or home and slows productivity and advancement.
Be a good friend. Give your best friend, your brother, your father – anyone that you have a caring relationship with a phone call or pay them a visit. This allows you to break away and talk about problems, tell stories, discuss frustrations, etc. A good and active friendship can be the source of inspiration.
Be a volunteer. Give an hour of your time to a local organization. You’ll meet great people and have a pure, good feeling that you’ve given your time to help someone in need.
Watch Slumdog Millionaire. A great movie that immerses you in the slums of India and takes you on a journey of a boy’s life and ultimate destiny. If you have not seen it, your local library or Blockbuster (use your library!!) will most definitely have it free for you to rent.
And watch the movie Rudy. If you want to see a great story about someone pursuing their ultimate passion and overcoming every obstacle in their way – watch Rudy.
Lose the routine. Do something out of the ordinary that you wouldn’t usually do – something that’s not in your everyday routine. Wake up extra early and take a walk or get a cup of coffee and think about the day ahead of you. If you’re not a reader, read. If you’re not active, take a walk or go for a run. The options are endless for breaking your routine. And yes, you do have time time because you make the decisions in your life – nobody else decides how you spend your time but yourself.
People Watch. I know some individuals that people watch for sheer entertainment. And yes, it is entertaining. However, as entertaining as it may be – it can also be very inspirational. You get to see how different types of people communicate and react to one another and it forces you to reflect about your life. Give people watching a try, but with the intention of getting something positive out of it.
Read the The Diary of Anne Frank. A Jewish German girl who’s family went into hiding as persecutions against the Jews increased. Anne Frank and her family were trapped in small living quarters for nearly two years – living in fear the entire time. It’s a great story about the power of the human spirit – and seeing the good in life even when you could easily say that everything is wrong. “I don’t think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains.” – Anne Frank. The book is full of fantastic quotes. It’s a fast read because it is so very compelling. I had the honor of walking through the attic where Anne and her family hid when I visited Amsterdam a few years ago.
This Image. Print this off and post it at your workspace.
Visit the Bookstore / Library. Spending some time around a ton of books is a way to get you thinking about different things. Whatever your interests are in life – you better believe there are some books out there that can expand your thinking and knowledge base.
Finish a 7 Day Challenge. Everybody thinks about things they’d like to do more or less of – it’s natural. Often times you may be thinking about making some kind of change for week, months, even years at times. The easiest and most effective way to get the ball rolling – is to challenge yourself for 7 days. Start small – complete your challenge. Accomplishment is a huge source of inspiration and motivation.
Share. Involve others in your thoughts, feelings, desires, goals, opinions, etc. Invite others to share those things with you. You’ll find that doing this opens up your mind in many ways. Life is a constant learning process. By sharing, you are inadvertently teaching yourself and laying the groundwork for what action you should take next. Sharing helps lay groundwork or a foundation – and I can bet you that you’ll feel inspired about taking that next step off the ground.
Inspiration is a beautiful thing because every person gets inspired in different ways and by different means. I’ve compiled a list of ways anybody can find some inspiration in their life. Being inspired is a great feeling that isn’t always sustainable – but it’s very important in your life. Think about this quote – “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure”. Inspiration is the same way – something I find inspiring you might not care about or think twice about. Something that means nothing to you, might mean the world to me. Below is a list of actions, quotes, movies, etc. that you can try – and I’m betting you find inspiration in your own life if you try these out.
Here we go.
Watch the sunrise or the sunset. This gives you a good chance to reflect on the day ahead or behind you. I personally enjoy watching the sunrise – knowing that I have an entire day ahead of me to make the most out of life…
Physical exertion. Challenging yourself physically can be very inspiring and can give you great energy. This also gives you time to do what you feel with your mind – you can think though challenges, or let your mind escape the day to some of your favorite music. I find running to be very therapeutic and often times look forward to getting into my run.
Consult your dreams. It’s easy to get bogged down by the many tasks and busy schedules each week presents to our lives. Take a few minutes each week or every month to really think about what your dreams. I find it very inspiring to let go of what’s bouncing around in my head from the work day to think about the big picture of life.
Travel. Seeing new places and meeting new people can be very inspiring. Even if you aren’t a very social person – take a weekend and put yourself in a different environment that you find to be enjoyable. Some ideas could be camping, scenic drives, visit a local town known for great architecture, walk the beach (if you’re lucky enough to be near one!), etc. I highly recommend international travel if you can, I have found immersion into a different culture to be highly rewarding and interesting.
This image is very inspiring.
Inspiration
This quote. “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” – Maria Robinson
This quote too. “You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.
Nature. I can find inspiration in all phases of nature. If you give yourself time to reflect, it’s easier to be inspired if you are in the presence of nature. Maybe it’s sitting on your front porch on a nice evening, or in your garage witnessing a driving rain, or taking a walk on a crisp fall morning – you get the idea. Nature is a very powerful thing – think about using some of that power for own benefit!
Get organized. Clean up your office or your house and get organized. File, throw away, figure out what you need, etc. to put yourself in a position to move forward in a positive direction – this will inspire you to take on what’s next. Sometimes clutter and useless stuff lingers in our workspace or home and slows productivity and advancement.
Be a good friend. Give your best friend, your brother, your father – anyone that you have a caring relationship with a phone call or pay them a visit. This allows you to break away and talk about problems, tell stories, discuss frustrations, etc. A good and active friendship can be the source of inspiration.
Be a volunteer. Give an hour of your time to a local organization. You’ll meet great people and have a pure, good feeling that you’ve given your time to help someone in need.
Watch Slumdog Millionaire. A great movie that immerses you in the slums of India and takes you on a journey of a boy’s life and ultimate destiny. If you have not seen it, your local library or Blockbuster (use your library!!) will most definitely have it free for you to rent.
And watch the movie Rudy. If you want to see a great story about someone pursuing their ultimate passion and overcoming every obstacle in their way – watch Rudy.
Lose the routine. Do something out of the ordinary that you wouldn’t usually do – something that’s not in your everyday routine. Wake up extra early and take a walk or get a cup of coffee and think about the day ahead of you. If you’re not a reader, read. If you’re not active, take a walk or go for a run. The options are endless for breaking your routine. And yes, you do have time time because you make the decisions in your life – nobody else decides how you spend your time but yourself.
People Watch. I know some individuals that people watch for sheer entertainment. And yes, it is entertaining. However, as entertaining as it may be – it can also be very inspirational. You get to see how different types of people communicate and react to one another and it forces you to reflect about your life. Give people watching a try, but with the intention of getting something positive out of it.
Read the The Diary of Anne Frank. A Jewish German girl who’s family went into hiding as persecutions against the Jews increased. Anne Frank and her family were trapped in small living quarters for nearly two years – living in fear the entire time. It’s a great story about the power of the human spirit – and seeing the good in life even when you could easily say that everything is wrong. “I don’t think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains.” – Anne Frank. The book is full of fantastic quotes. It’s a fast read because it is so very compelling. I had the honor of walking through the attic where Anne and her family hid when I visited Amsterdam a few years ago.
This Image. Print this off and post it at your workspace.
Visit the Bookstore / Library. Spending some time around a ton of books is a way to get you thinking about different things. Whatever your interests are in life – you better believe there are some books out there that can expand your thinking and knowledge base.
Finish a 7 Day Challenge. Everybody thinks about things they’d like to do more or less of – it’s natural. Often times you may be thinking about making some kind of change for week, months, even years at times. The easiest and most effective way to get the ball rolling – is to challenge yourself for 7 days. Start small – complete your challenge. Accomplishment is a huge source of inspiration and motivation.
Share. Involve others in your thoughts, feelings, desires, goals, opinions, etc. Invite others to share those things with you. You’ll find that doing this opens up your mind in many ways. Life is a constant learning process. By sharing, you are inadvertently teaching yourself and laying the groundwork for what action you should take next. Sharing helps lay groundwork or a foundation – and I can bet you that you’ll feel inspired about taking that next step off the ground.
Lessons learnt in Semester 4
Don't be stupid enough to trust any friends as they all just treat u as a person who can exist or not. OPEN YOUR EYES WIDE IN CHOOSING AND TRUSTING FRIENDS AFTER KNOWING THEIR REAL PERSONALITIES.
AS MY EYES ARE UPON THE KIND, ALMIGHTY LORD, <3
Remember again ya~if u trust & put emphasizes more on people than THE LORD, you will definitely fall down and only disappointments as your rewards. Think and act according to God's precious words. :)
Live for myself. :) Don't forget my lovely family and relatives who loves me much more than any so called friends. I will always remember your goodness on me. I wish and pray that my dear God will give me wisdom in anything i do so that i can glorify HIS NAME in this world. I wanna bring happy lifes to my dearest family beside my GOD, to travel to more nice destinations around the world.. hehe ;) hmmm :D happppyyyyy
AS MY EYES ARE UPON THE KIND, ALMIGHTY LORD, <3
Remember again ya~if u trust & put emphasizes more on people than THE LORD, you will definitely fall down and only disappointments as your rewards. Think and act according to God's precious words. :)
Live for myself. :) Don't forget my lovely family and relatives who loves me much more than any so called friends. I will always remember your goodness on me. I wish and pray that my dear God will give me wisdom in anything i do so that i can glorify HIS NAME in this world. I wanna bring happy lifes to my dearest family beside my GOD, to travel to more nice destinations around the world.. hehe ;) hmmm :D happppyyyyy
How to Get Motivated
I’m sure you’ve heard of the phrase – “paralysis by analysis” right? Where there is too much of something going on – and ultimately nothing happens and you remain stagnant. Standing in the same place isn’t any fun – so it takes some type of motivation to make something happen.
If this is you, even if there are times when you might be tired, or exhausted, and the last thing you want to do is expend energy – here are some things you can try on for size that I do…
Get Physical.
Get your blood pumping and provoke your body into energizing itself. If I’m really stagnant and just can’t get going for whatever reason (there are many!), I’ll lace ‘em up and go for a run. Sometimes I’ll go shoot around and play some basketball, but the point is that I get my blood flowing. By the time I finish and shower – I feel refreshed, energized, and refocused.
Ask Yourself.
If you lack motivation, then I could make the assumption that you don’t really want to do whatever it is you need to be motivated to do. Now, I’m not referring to you being a procrastinator, but you may lack the motivation to do something you have committed, mentally, verbally, contractually, etc. to doing – this is when you can as yourself some questions. When you don’t want to do something – you can fall into the trap of mentally avoiding relative thoughts. Just ask yourself…
Why am I avoiding?
Does this warrant my time?
Does this get me closer to a goal, or something I want?
You get the idea. Pick your brain a little bit.
Be Positive.
Don’t be negative. I tend to get the most out of positive thinking in the mornings. As I’m getting myself going or driving to work – I think of reasons why today is and can be a great day. I play out the day in my head and just maintain a positive attitude in general. Your thinking patterns and thoughts are going to drive your behavior, whether you realize it happening or not!
Get Competitive, with Yourself.
Challenging yourself is a good thing, and should be something you enjoy. Trying to get better, trying to improve – and actually making it happen in the short term – gives you natural feelings of accomplishment and it induces the competitive juices in you. Pushing your limits is a good thing.
Information overload a bad thing. Simplification is always good. If you need to get motivated to get something accomplished and move forward in your life – give these a shot and see what happens. Figure out what works for you.
If this is you, even if there are times when you might be tired, or exhausted, and the last thing you want to do is expend energy – here are some things you can try on for size that I do…
Get Physical.
Get your blood pumping and provoke your body into energizing itself. If I’m really stagnant and just can’t get going for whatever reason (there are many!), I’ll lace ‘em up and go for a run. Sometimes I’ll go shoot around and play some basketball, but the point is that I get my blood flowing. By the time I finish and shower – I feel refreshed, energized, and refocused.
Ask Yourself.
If you lack motivation, then I could make the assumption that you don’t really want to do whatever it is you need to be motivated to do. Now, I’m not referring to you being a procrastinator, but you may lack the motivation to do something you have committed, mentally, verbally, contractually, etc. to doing – this is when you can as yourself some questions. When you don’t want to do something – you can fall into the trap of mentally avoiding relative thoughts. Just ask yourself…
Why am I avoiding?
Does this warrant my time?
Does this get me closer to a goal, or something I want?
You get the idea. Pick your brain a little bit.
Be Positive.
Don’t be negative. I tend to get the most out of positive thinking in the mornings. As I’m getting myself going or driving to work – I think of reasons why today is and can be a great day. I play out the day in my head and just maintain a positive attitude in general. Your thinking patterns and thoughts are going to drive your behavior, whether you realize it happening or not!
Get Competitive, with Yourself.
Challenging yourself is a good thing, and should be something you enjoy. Trying to get better, trying to improve – and actually making it happen in the short term – gives you natural feelings of accomplishment and it induces the competitive juices in you. Pushing your limits is a good thing.
Information overload a bad thing. Simplification is always good. If you need to get motivated to get something accomplished and move forward in your life – give these a shot and see what happens. Figure out what works for you.
Getting Rid of Negative Thoughts
THINK POSITIVE!
How many times have you read or been told that your stress and problems would be solved or helped if you would just – think positive! Get rid of those negative thoughts that pollute your brain and input some positive, constructive thoughts!
The bottom line is that some people have a tendency to think negatively and some people have a tendency to do just the opposite. And, fact of the matter is, positive thinking people are happier, typically more successful, and are certainly more enjoyable to be around.
Getting rid of negative thoughts is imperative when you are trying to do any of the following things…
Attract others, opposite sex or anyone for that matter
Advance in your career
Have solid friendships
Make new friendships
Be creative
Be spontaneous
Be resourceful and creative
That is a short list and could be much, much longer.
Improve Your Attitude
Take a look at your general attitude – can you improve your attitude?. Is it something that another person would want to mirror? Is it contagious? If it is – then that is great and you probably don’t need to worry about getting rid of negative thoughts as you most likely don’t have many!
Your attitude is your choice. My father always used to tell me as a kid, that there is one thing you can control when you roll out of bed every morning – and that is your attitude.
Life is all about choices. When get to the bottom of every single action and thing you do – it all boils down to choices that you make. You choose how to respond and react to situations in life. You choose to be in a good mood or a bad mood – and at the end of the day – how you live your life is your choice. Let’s say that again…
How you live your life is your choice.
Knock out the negativity in your life, flip the script, and get on with living a better life!
How many times have you read or been told that your stress and problems would be solved or helped if you would just – think positive! Get rid of those negative thoughts that pollute your brain and input some positive, constructive thoughts!
The bottom line is that some people have a tendency to think negatively and some people have a tendency to do just the opposite. And, fact of the matter is, positive thinking people are happier, typically more successful, and are certainly more enjoyable to be around.
Getting rid of negative thoughts is imperative when you are trying to do any of the following things…
Attract others, opposite sex or anyone for that matter
Advance in your career
Have solid friendships
Make new friendships
Be creative
Be spontaneous
Be resourceful and creative
That is a short list and could be much, much longer.
Improve Your Attitude
Take a look at your general attitude – can you improve your attitude?. Is it something that another person would want to mirror? Is it contagious? If it is – then that is great and you probably don’t need to worry about getting rid of negative thoughts as you most likely don’t have many!
Your attitude is your choice. My father always used to tell me as a kid, that there is one thing you can control when you roll out of bed every morning – and that is your attitude.
Life is all about choices. When get to the bottom of every single action and thing you do – it all boils down to choices that you make. You choose how to respond and react to situations in life. You choose to be in a good mood or a bad mood – and at the end of the day – how you live your life is your choice. Let’s say that again…
How you live your life is your choice.
Knock out the negativity in your life, flip the script, and get on with living a better life!
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Reading University's Library Books
There's an article stated that i should learn at least 8 hrs a day, if not doing so it is considered as not having moral value. immorality.
READ at least 200 books each year. how many have i read?
what're the purposes of me studying overseas?
playing"? zzz
remember my passions of studying during sem 1.
jia u jia u jia u ! :D
dont waste my times.
get ptptn scholarship, be a successful educators & businesswoman. :)
let my parents & siblings proud of having this daughter & eldest sister. be a role model & dont let them to be disapponted of me again. :)^^ yeah~!
go studying with your best ~~~!!!!!!!!!
READ at least 200 books each year. how many have i read?
what're the purposes of me studying overseas?
playing"? zzz
remember my passions of studying during sem 1.
jia u jia u jia u ! :D
dont waste my times.
get ptptn scholarship, be a successful educators & businesswoman. :)
let my parents & siblings proud of having this daughter & eldest sister. be a role model & dont let them to be disapponted of me again. :)^^ yeah~!
go studying with your best ~~~!!!!!!!!!
How to lead people to believe in Jesus Christ??
Dear God....pls help me~i'm in dilemma now..
sorry for my negative ways of thinking and behaviours ~i prAY for Suubita for she had been deleted me from her friend list. i hope she will experience you in her future. Please Lord. I know people can change immediately no matter how surprising it is. Thanks DEAR GOD. In Jesus Name i pray, amen. :)
Lessons learnt: i should keep praying for people without depend on my abilities.
There're purposes that this incidence happened in my life so that i learn from lessons and i know God is leading me & punishing me whenever i did wrong. Thanks for everything, DEAR GOD. :)
Friday, October 28, 2011
Teaching of English Grammar
what need to be improved?
Eye contact with students.
Be confident of your activities planned.
Let all students involved with clear instructions given by a teacher.
Eye contact with students.
Be confident of your activities planned.
Let all students involved with clear instructions given by a teacher.
Your Relationship with Money
Posted at June 27, 2011 in 1st Series
“I’m living so far beyond my income that we may almost be said to be living apart.” - e.e. cummings
Very seldom do we hear of people asking us, “How is your relationship with your money?” It may seem a little intruding but honestly, if you’re asked this question, how would you answer? Are you guys still “talking” to each other, living apart or worse, “divorced”? Understanding your relationship with money is crucial in helping you manage it wisely.
What about My Past?
To understand the kind of relationship you have with your money, let’s flashback to the time while you were growing up. Most often than not, your perception about money were shaped by the adults around you. You probably picked up many feelings and ideas about money from your family.
If people in your family had to work very hard, you might think that making money means many jobs and long hours. If there were fights over money, you might feel that talking about money makes people angry or afraid. If your family had government assistance, you might feel sad, thankful or embarrassed. If you earned money as a child, you might feel good or bad. You might feel good about having your own money or helping your family. You might feel angry about needing to work.
What about Today?
Sometimes you can find out how you feel about something by finishing an idea in your own words. Try to complete as many as you can and be aware of your feelings when you go through them:
It is easy for me to spend money on ……………………
It is hard for me to spend money on ……………………
I like earning money because …………………………..
I worry about money when ……………………………..
I argue about money because …………………………..
Saving money makes me feel …………………………..
If I had enough money today, I would ………………….
Talking about money makes me ………………………..
When I buy things I don’t need, I ……………………….
I don’t know how to manage my money because ……….
What about Tomorrow?
The best way to plan for the future is to understand your past and your present. Knowing how you think and feel about money helps you ask important questions. Your answers can help you make good decisions. Try asking yourself the following questions and take some time to think through your answers.
How much money is enough for my needs and wants?
How can I earn the money I need?
What about emergencies?
What about all the things my family needs?
How can I stop worrying about money?
How do Malaysians Feel about Money?
You need to think about your past and how it affects you. You also need to understand the influence of the world around you.
Malaysians in general value money. Very often, we see the lives of the rich and famous through the movies, reality TVs, sports, newspapers and magazines. In addition, advertisers tell us to buy, buy and buy some more. A lot of people act like money makes them important. We start believing that “newer and bigger” is better. We forget to plan before we spend.
Our culture shapes what we think and what we do. Let’s ask ourselves truthfully: Do we not think about famous people and wish we were like them? Do we not try to talk, dress or look like someone we admire? Do we not act like the characters we see on TV, in the movies or playing sports (yes, all you Beckhams wannabe!)? Do we not buy things because we want to be like the people in the ads (some may attest that their Nike T-shirt actually improve their game of golf!)?
Why do People Want Money?
People want money so they can live. They want money to take care of themselves and their families. But people also want money because our culture tells us: Money makes you important. Money equals self-esteem. You are what you earn.
Our culture also tells us that owning lots of things will make us happy. What we see and hear suggests that we can buy feelings. If we pay attention to all this hype, we can come up empty. We can end up without money or happiness.
What Can Money Do or Not Do?
While our culture says money is the answer to all our problems, we also hear that money is bad: Money is the root of all evil. Money corrupts! Let’s take a look at what can money do or not do:
“It can buy a house, but not a home.
It can buy a bed, but not sleep.
It can buy a clock, but not time.
It can buy you a book, but not knowledge.
It can buy you a position, but not respect.
It can buy you medicine, but not health.
It can buy you blood, but not life.”
So you see, Money isn’t everything!
What Can Money Get Me Today?
With money you can take care of food, shelter and clothing. Everyone needs these to live. You also use money for services like healthcare, childcare, transportation, insurance and education. You need many of the things you have and the services you buy. Other purchases are wants – a new car, eating out, expensive clothes, vacations or just trying to keep up with our neighbours.
The key is not how much money you have but how you use it. You need to get your spending in line with your values. Your values are what’s important to you. This takes planning and practice. Unless you use money as a tool, it can easily become a trap!
What Can Money Do for My Future?
The choices you make today can change your future. When you do any of the following, you’re not just planning for next week, next month or next year but a lifetime:
Choose to spend or not to spend
Save for emergencies or “rainy days”
Learn new skills to get or keep a job
Pay off debts
Become a good credit risk so that you can get a loan for big things like a car of house
Show children and family the right uses of money
There you have it! Until and unless you have a good relationship with money, you’ll never be able to live with it. As the saying goes, “A fool and his money were soon parted.”
Next week, we’ll help you put in place a proper money plan by setting a budget. It’s something that everyone should have but don’t have it, at least, not yet. Till then, let’s, “Make Prudent Financial Management A Way of Life!”
“I’m living so far beyond my income that we may almost be said to be living apart.” - e.e. cummings
Very seldom do we hear of people asking us, “How is your relationship with your money?” It may seem a little intruding but honestly, if you’re asked this question, how would you answer? Are you guys still “talking” to each other, living apart or worse, “divorced”? Understanding your relationship with money is crucial in helping you manage it wisely.
What about My Past?
To understand the kind of relationship you have with your money, let’s flashback to the time while you were growing up. Most often than not, your perception about money were shaped by the adults around you. You probably picked up many feelings and ideas about money from your family.
If people in your family had to work very hard, you might think that making money means many jobs and long hours. If there were fights over money, you might feel that talking about money makes people angry or afraid. If your family had government assistance, you might feel sad, thankful or embarrassed. If you earned money as a child, you might feel good or bad. You might feel good about having your own money or helping your family. You might feel angry about needing to work.
What about Today?
Sometimes you can find out how you feel about something by finishing an idea in your own words. Try to complete as many as you can and be aware of your feelings when you go through them:
It is easy for me to spend money on ……………………
It is hard for me to spend money on ……………………
I like earning money because …………………………..
I worry about money when ……………………………..
I argue about money because …………………………..
Saving money makes me feel …………………………..
If I had enough money today, I would ………………….
Talking about money makes me ………………………..
When I buy things I don’t need, I ……………………….
I don’t know how to manage my money because ……….
What about Tomorrow?
The best way to plan for the future is to understand your past and your present. Knowing how you think and feel about money helps you ask important questions. Your answers can help you make good decisions. Try asking yourself the following questions and take some time to think through your answers.
How much money is enough for my needs and wants?
How can I earn the money I need?
What about emergencies?
What about all the things my family needs?
How can I stop worrying about money?
How do Malaysians Feel about Money?
You need to think about your past and how it affects you. You also need to understand the influence of the world around you.
Malaysians in general value money. Very often, we see the lives of the rich and famous through the movies, reality TVs, sports, newspapers and magazines. In addition, advertisers tell us to buy, buy and buy some more. A lot of people act like money makes them important. We start believing that “newer and bigger” is better. We forget to plan before we spend.
Our culture shapes what we think and what we do. Let’s ask ourselves truthfully: Do we not think about famous people and wish we were like them? Do we not try to talk, dress or look like someone we admire? Do we not act like the characters we see on TV, in the movies or playing sports (yes, all you Beckhams wannabe!)? Do we not buy things because we want to be like the people in the ads (some may attest that their Nike T-shirt actually improve their game of golf!)?
Why do People Want Money?
People want money so they can live. They want money to take care of themselves and their families. But people also want money because our culture tells us: Money makes you important. Money equals self-esteem. You are what you earn.
Our culture also tells us that owning lots of things will make us happy. What we see and hear suggests that we can buy feelings. If we pay attention to all this hype, we can come up empty. We can end up without money or happiness.
What Can Money Do or Not Do?
While our culture says money is the answer to all our problems, we also hear that money is bad: Money is the root of all evil. Money corrupts! Let’s take a look at what can money do or not do:
“It can buy a house, but not a home.
It can buy a bed, but not sleep.
It can buy a clock, but not time.
It can buy you a book, but not knowledge.
It can buy you a position, but not respect.
It can buy you medicine, but not health.
It can buy you blood, but not life.”
So you see, Money isn’t everything!
What Can Money Get Me Today?
With money you can take care of food, shelter and clothing. Everyone needs these to live. You also use money for services like healthcare, childcare, transportation, insurance and education. You need many of the things you have and the services you buy. Other purchases are wants – a new car, eating out, expensive clothes, vacations or just trying to keep up with our neighbours.
The key is not how much money you have but how you use it. You need to get your spending in line with your values. Your values are what’s important to you. This takes planning and practice. Unless you use money as a tool, it can easily become a trap!
What Can Money Do for My Future?
The choices you make today can change your future. When you do any of the following, you’re not just planning for next week, next month or next year but a lifetime:
Choose to spend or not to spend
Save for emergencies or “rainy days”
Learn new skills to get or keep a job
Pay off debts
Become a good credit risk so that you can get a loan for big things like a car of house
Show children and family the right uses of money
There you have it! Until and unless you have a good relationship with money, you’ll never be able to live with it. As the saying goes, “A fool and his money were soon parted.”
Next week, we’ll help you put in place a proper money plan by setting a budget. It’s something that everyone should have but don’t have it, at least, not yet. Till then, let’s, “Make Prudent Financial Management A Way of Life!”
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Teaching of Aural-Oral
Lecturer's comments
Overall flow is poor.
No teaching in the lesson. Don't assume students know everything.
Teacher should teach the students first then only conducting activities. Not just implement activities we plan.
Should guide them while conduct activities, how to do it.
E.g, T/F Questions: Explanation from the teacher in details-techniques of answering.
Vocabularies need to be taught.
Activity:
1. Role Play
Need to tell them to communicate politely while role playing the situation/ characters.
How they are suppose to response.
2. Discussion:
evaluate the importance of...
need to achieve the learning objective, so provide more information for them to evaluate & carry out the discussion.
Overall flow is poor.
No teaching in the lesson. Don't assume students know everything.
Teacher should teach the students first then only conducting activities. Not just implement activities we plan.
Should guide them while conduct activities, how to do it.
E.g, T/F Questions: Explanation from the teacher in details-techniques of answering.
Vocabularies need to be taught.
Activity:
1. Role Play
Need to tell them to communicate politely while role playing the situation/ characters.
How they are suppose to response.
2. Discussion:
evaluate the importance of...
need to achieve the learning objective, so provide more information for them to evaluate & carry out the discussion.
Thursday, October 6, 2011
AMWAY- 97 Countries
安利97个国家全球性事业
By James Simon Ting · Last edited 9 hours ago · Edit Doc
Åland
American Samoa
Anguilla
Antiqua
Argentina
Australia
Austria
Azores
Bahamas
Barbados
Barbuda
Belgium
Bermuda
Brazil
British Virgin Islands
Brunei
Canada
Canary Islands
Cayman Islands
Channel Islands
Chile
Colombia
Costa Rica
Croatia
Czech Republic
Denmark
Dominica
Dominican Republic
El Salvador
Faroe Islands
Finland
France
French Antilles
French Guiana
Germany
Grenada
Greece
Guam
Guatemala
Guernsey
Haiti
Honduras
Hong Kong
Hungary
Republic of Ireland
Russia
India
Indonesia
Italy
Japan
Jersey Island
Korea
La Reunion
Macau
Madeira
Malaysia
Mexico
Monserrat
Namibia
The Netherlands
Netherlands Antilles
(Aruba, Bonaire,Curacao, Dutch St. Martin, Saba, St. Eustatius)
New Zealand
Norway
Palau Islands
Panama
People's Republic of China
Philippines
Poland
Portugal
Puerto Rico
Romania
Russia
Singapore
The Slovak Republic
Slovenia
South Africa
Spain
St. Kitts and Nevis
St. Lucia
St. Vincent
Sweden
Switzerland
Taiwan (Republic of China)
Thailand
Trinidad and Tobago
Trust Territories of the
Pacific (Mariana, Marshall, and Caroline Islands)
Turkey
Turks and Caicos Islands
Ukraine
United Kingdom
United States of America
US Virgin Islands
Uruguay
Venezuela
Vietnam
Wake Islands
(97 total)
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By James Simon Ting · Last edited 9 hours ago · Edit Doc
Åland
American Samoa
Anguilla
Antiqua
Argentina
Australia
Austria
Azores
Bahamas
Barbados
Barbuda
Belgium
Bermuda
Brazil
British Virgin Islands
Brunei
Canada
Canary Islands
Cayman Islands
Channel Islands
Chile
Colombia
Costa Rica
Croatia
Czech Republic
Denmark
Dominica
Dominican Republic
El Salvador
Faroe Islands
Finland
France
French Antilles
French Guiana
Germany
Grenada
Greece
Guam
Guatemala
Guernsey
Haiti
Honduras
Hong Kong
Hungary
Republic of Ireland
Russia
India
Indonesia
Italy
Japan
Jersey Island
Korea
La Reunion
Macau
Madeira
Malaysia
Mexico
Monserrat
Namibia
The Netherlands
Netherlands Antilles
(Aruba, Bonaire,Curacao, Dutch St. Martin, Saba, St. Eustatius)
New Zealand
Norway
Palau Islands
Panama
People's Republic of China
Philippines
Poland
Portugal
Puerto Rico
Romania
Russia
Singapore
The Slovak Republic
Slovenia
South Africa
Spain
St. Kitts and Nevis
St. Lucia
St. Vincent
Sweden
Switzerland
Taiwan (Republic of China)
Thailand
Trinidad and Tobago
Trust Territories of the
Pacific (Mariana, Marshall, and Caroline Islands)
Turkey
Turks and Caicos Islands
Ukraine
United Kingdom
United States of America
US Virgin Islands
Uruguay
Venezuela
Vietnam
Wake Islands
(97 total)
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Friday, September 23, 2011
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Depending on God isn’t weakness;
it’s acknowledging His strength...◕‿◕...
ஐ¤*¨¨*¤¨°o.O( 與其失望灰心，應該更多的向前行⋯。
耶穌說，手扶著犁向後看的，不配進神的國⋯。（路加福音：九62）我不是以為自己已經得著了，我只有一件事，就是忘記背後努力面前的⋯。（腓立比書：三13）)O.o°¤*¨¨*¤εïз
☜♥☞ º°”˜`”°º☜(Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the grave, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom. -Ecclesiastes 9:10-)☞ º°”˜`”°☜♥☞
•☆.•*´¨`*••♥ Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. -Colossians 3:23-24- ♥••*´¨`*•.☆•
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我們愛，因為 神先愛我們 ✞ ✝
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人若有爱上帝 的心,就会有爱他人的心. ♡ ❤ ღ
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<º))))><.•´¯`•.(“In the meantime, if you are worried about the people outside, the most unreasonable thing you can do is to remain outside yourself. Christians are Christ’s body, the organism through which He works. . . If you want to help those outside you must add your own little cell to the body of Christ who alone can help them.” C. S. Lewis)¸.•´¯`•.¸><((((º>
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..•.¸¸•´¯`•.¸¸.ஐRomans 12: 1-2 Dear friends, God is good. So I beg you to offer your bodies to him as a living sacrifice, pure and pleasing. That's the most sensible way to serve God. Don't be like the people of this world, but let God change the way you think. Then you will know how to do everything that is good and pleasing to him. (CEV)ஐ..•.¸¸•´¯`•.¸¸.
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신◈기◈今天◈(★) Trying to keep my days from being a "schedule" or "to-do list" but more of opportunities for the Lord to work in my everyday! (★)◈동방◈기◈天
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Depending on God isn’t weakness;
it’s acknowledging His strength...◕‿◕...
ஐ¤*¨¨*¤¨°o.O( 與其失望灰心，應該更多的向前行⋯。
耶穌說，手扶著犁向後看的，不配進神的國⋯。（路加福音：九62）我不是以為自己已經得著了，我只有一件事，就是忘記背後努力面前的⋯。（腓立比書：三13）)O.o°¤*¨¨*¤εïз
☜♥☞ º°”˜`”°º☜(Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the grave, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom. -Ecclesiastes 9:10-)☞ º°”˜`”°☜♥☞
•☆.•*´¨`*••♥ Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. -Colossians 3:23-24- ♥••*´¨`*•.☆•
Thursday, September 22, 2011
每个人从一出生开始，生命就在进行倒计时。时光飞逝，随着岁月一同走远的，还有我们所经历的那些人和事。对也罢，错也罢，都已经成为过去，一味沉湎其中，是对生命极大的浪费。人生在世，不可能不经历失去，与其抱残守缺、执着于过去，不如果断放弃。美梦破灭之后，往往就是黎明。
不到最后一刻，千万别放弃。最后得到好东西，不是幸运，有时候，必须有前面的苦心经营，才有后面的偶然相遇。
用知识的浪花去推动思考的风帆，用智慧的火星去点燃思想的火花，用浪漫的激情去创造美好的生活，用科学的力量去强劲腾飞的翅膀！
Share. Give. Love. Whatever you put out into the world will return to you multiplied
if you feel yourself floundering in the sea of life, try leaning back and floating.
Let yourself be supported. Gaze into the beautiful sky and allow time for your spirit to be refreshed. Then when you are feeling stronger, simply choose a direction and start swimming.
sometimes it helps to go to the sacred places of this Earth.
There is a lot of peace and energy there to fill you up and restore you. Go there in person, or if you cannot, in your imagination. When you get there, miracles do happen.
la zu..ru mei le la xin jiu bu nen tan shao den long..ru mei le la zujiu shi qu le guan chai
zon qiu..ru mei le yue bin jiu shi qu le yi yi
prng you..ru shao le liang shi jiu shi qu le ganqin shuo yi zai ze mei li lan man de zon qiu jie wo bu huiwan le ni!wo hui he you da you yuan de yue liang pei ban ze ni! yu zao zu ni zhong qiu jie kuai le :)
#♫•.•°*°•.¸.[̲̅̅H̲̅][̲̅̅A̲̅][̲̅̅P̲̅][̲̅̅P̲̅][̲̅̅Y̲̅] ♫•*¨*•.¸¸...#
我┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓我
賀┠生┠┨日┠┨快┠┨樂┨┠哦┨┠！┨賀
您┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛您
[让赞美飞扬,
真实的悔改-
[不要放弃，满有能力
神羔羊-
[爱可以再更多一
主的喜乐是我力量,凡是都能做-[深触我心
you are needed, you are wanted, you are loved.
Blessings to you and your family.
不到最后一刻，千万别放弃。最后得到好东西，不是幸运，有时候，必须有前面的苦心经营，才有后面的偶然相遇。
用知识的浪花去推动思考的风帆，用智慧的火星去点燃思想的火花，用浪漫的激情去创造美好的生活，用科学的力量去强劲腾飞的翅膀！
Share. Give. Love. Whatever you put out into the world will return to you multiplied
if you feel yourself floundering in the sea of life, try leaning back and floating.
Let yourself be supported. Gaze into the beautiful sky and allow time for your spirit to be refreshed. Then when you are feeling stronger, simply choose a direction and start swimming.
sometimes it helps to go to the sacred places of this Earth.
There is a lot of peace and energy there to fill you up and restore you. Go there in person, or if you cannot, in your imagination. When you get there, miracles do happen.
la zu..ru mei le la xin jiu bu nen tan shao den long..ru mei le la zujiu shi qu le guan chai
zon qiu..ru mei le yue bin jiu shi qu le yi yi
prng you..ru shao le liang shi jiu shi qu le ganqin shuo yi zai ze mei li lan man de zon qiu jie wo bu huiwan le ni!wo hui he you da you yuan de yue liang pei ban ze ni! yu zao zu ni zhong qiu jie kuai le :)
#♫•.•°*°•.¸.[̲̅̅H̲̅][̲̅̅A̲̅][̲̅̅P̲̅][̲̅̅P̲̅][̲̅̅Y̲̅] ♫•*¨*•.¸¸...#
我┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓┏┯┓我
賀┠生┠┨日┠┨快┠┨樂┨┠哦┨┠！┨賀
您┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛┗┷┛您
[让赞美飞扬,
真实的悔改-
[不要放弃，满有能力
神羔羊-
[爱可以再更多一
主的喜乐是我力量,凡是都能做-[深触我心
you are needed, you are wanted, you are loved.
Blessings to you and your family.
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Monday, September 12, 2011
your longing for God will be rewarded.
God always hears a yearning spirit.
Find joy in your uniqueness. Appreciate it in others.
your seriousness feeds your ego, and keeps you away from God.
Seriousness makes you dull and dry. It feeds your sense of self-importance, that becomes a mountain between you and God. Drop your seriousness, and open the path to God.
generosity will make you rich.
The best thing to do if you're feeling poor is to give something away. Give a few dollars to a homeless person, some clothes to a thrift store or pay for the person behind you at the drive through. Instead of focusing on what you don't have, focus on what you do have and how you can bless others with it. Being able to give is a Divine gift in itself.
this week express your devotion for God through dancing.
Many are ways to God. Let the energy created by your body moving in rhythm become your homage to God
The harder the path, the greater the joy when you reach your destination.
vices can be turned to virtues through awareness.
Look for a daily practice to cultivate your awareness.
There is nothing to fear when you trust in me.
God always hears a yearning spirit.
Find joy in your uniqueness. Appreciate it in others.
your seriousness feeds your ego, and keeps you away from God.
Seriousness makes you dull and dry. It feeds your sense of self-importance, that becomes a mountain between you and God. Drop your seriousness, and open the path to God.
generosity will make you rich.
The best thing to do if you're feeling poor is to give something away. Give a few dollars to a homeless person, some clothes to a thrift store or pay for the person behind you at the drive through. Instead of focusing on what you don't have, focus on what you do have and how you can bless others with it. Being able to give is a Divine gift in itself.
this week express your devotion for God through dancing.
Many are ways to God. Let the energy created by your body moving in rhythm become your homage to God
The harder the path, the greater the joy when you reach your destination.
vices can be turned to virtues through awareness.
Look for a daily practice to cultivate your awareness.
There is nothing to fear when you trust in me.
Thursday, September 8, 2011
挫折 是年轻人最好的礼物
他刚从军中退伍时，只有高中学歷，无一技之长，
只好到一家印刷厂，担任「送货员」。
一天，这年轻人将一整车四、五十梱的书，送到某大学的七楼办公室..
当他先把两三捆的书扛到电梯口等候时，一位五十多岁的警卫走过来，说：
「这电梯是给教授、老师搭乘的，其他人一律都不准搭，你必须走楼梯！」
年轻人向警卫解释：
「我不是学生，我是要送一整车的书到七楼办公室，这是你们学校订的书啊！」
可是警卫一脸无情的说：
「不行就是不行，你不是教授，不是老师，不准搭电梯！」
两人在电梯口吵半天，但警卫依然不予放行，
年轻人心想，这一车的书，要搬完，
至少要来回走七层楼梯二十多趟，会累死人的！
过后，年轻人无法忍受这「无理的刁难」，就心一横，
把四、五十梱书搬放在大厅角落，不顾一切的走人。
后来，年轻人向印刷厂老闆解释事情原委，获得谅解，但也向老闆辞职，
并且立刻到书局买整套高中教材和参考书，含泪发誓，
我一定要奋发图强，考上大学，我绝不再让别人「瞧不起」..
这年轻人在联考前半年，天天闭门苦读十四个小时，
因为他知道，他的时间不多了，他已无退路可走，
每当他偷懒、懈怠时，脑中就想起「警卫不准他搭电梯」被羞辱、歧视的一幕，
也就打起精神、加倍努力用功。
几年后，这年轻人终於考上某大学医学院。
如今，二十多年过去了，他也变成一家开业诊所的中年医生，
然而，他静心一想，当时，要不是「警卫无理刁难和歧视」，
他怎能从屈辱中擦乾眼泪、勇敢站起来？
而那位被他痛恨的警卫，不也是他一生中的恩人吗？
这故事让我想起，唸高中时，班上有位调皮的男生，
成绩普通，并不杰出。
一天，物理老师发下一艰深的试题，要同学当家庭作业，
隔天上课时，每个同学几乎都答不出来，
可是，却只有那调皮的陈同学解出来了！
「陈某某，你老实说，这作业是不是你哥哥帮你做的？
我知道你哥哥的物理很厉害。去年我教过他」老师问。
「是我自己做的啊！老师，你怎麼可以诬赖我？」
「少来，你少骗我啦！不是自己写的，干嘛那麼不要脸，硬是说是自己写的？」
物理老师站在台上嘲讽的说：
「哎呀！你少丢脸了啦！你的程度我很了解，你不用骗我啦！」
当时，我转过头，看到小陈低著头，抿著嘴，眼光闪著泪水..
他没有再回嘴，只是一直低著头，假装看著书，
而他的眼泪，也一颗颗的滴在课本上..
联考放榜后，争气的他，考上台大物理系，
毕业，当兵退伍后，他更留学美国，
现在，已拿到「物理学博士」的学位回国。
而我，永远忘不了在高中时他对我说的一句话：
「那一题，明明是我自己做对的，他（物理老师）干嘛不相信我，
还当众嘲笑我、瞧不起我？以后，我的物理，一定要比他更厉害！」
经国先生曾说：「失意时需要忍，得意时需要淡..」
的确，人，都有失意，不顺遂的时候，然而，我更相信！
「挫折，是年轻人最好的礼物！」人只有在遭遇挫折，
被他人百般刁难、岐视、嘲讽时，才能「打醒自己」，
让自己被「当头棒喝」而惊醒过来！这岂不是一生中最珍贵的礼物..？
因此，如果现在的挫折，能带给你未来幸福，请忍受它..
如果现在的快乐，会带给你未来不幸，请拋弃它〜
分享：
『生命中的每个挫折、每个伤痛、每个打击，都有它的意义..』
只好到一家印刷厂，担任「送货员」。
一天，这年轻人将一整车四、五十梱的书，送到某大学的七楼办公室..
当他先把两三捆的书扛到电梯口等候时，一位五十多岁的警卫走过来，说：
「这电梯是给教授、老师搭乘的，其他人一律都不准搭，你必须走楼梯！」
年轻人向警卫解释：
「我不是学生，我是要送一整车的书到七楼办公室，这是你们学校订的书啊！」
可是警卫一脸无情的说：
「不行就是不行，你不是教授，不是老师，不准搭电梯！」
两人在电梯口吵半天，但警卫依然不予放行，
年轻人心想，这一车的书，要搬完，
至少要来回走七层楼梯二十多趟，会累死人的！
过后，年轻人无法忍受这「无理的刁难」，就心一横，
把四、五十梱书搬放在大厅角落，不顾一切的走人。
后来，年轻人向印刷厂老闆解释事情原委，获得谅解，但也向老闆辞职，
并且立刻到书局买整套高中教材和参考书，含泪发誓，
我一定要奋发图强，考上大学，我绝不再让别人「瞧不起」..
这年轻人在联考前半年，天天闭门苦读十四个小时，
因为他知道，他的时间不多了，他已无退路可走，
每当他偷懒、懈怠时，脑中就想起「警卫不准他搭电梯」被羞辱、歧视的一幕，
也就打起精神、加倍努力用功。
几年后，这年轻人终於考上某大学医学院。
如今，二十多年过去了，他也变成一家开业诊所的中年医生，
然而，他静心一想，当时，要不是「警卫无理刁难和歧视」，
他怎能从屈辱中擦乾眼泪、勇敢站起来？
而那位被他痛恨的警卫，不也是他一生中的恩人吗？
这故事让我想起，唸高中时，班上有位调皮的男生，
成绩普通，并不杰出。
一天，物理老师发下一艰深的试题，要同学当家庭作业，
隔天上课时，每个同学几乎都答不出来，
可是，却只有那调皮的陈同学解出来了！
「陈某某，你老实说，这作业是不是你哥哥帮你做的？
我知道你哥哥的物理很厉害。去年我教过他」老师问。
「是我自己做的啊！老师，你怎麼可以诬赖我？」
「少来，你少骗我啦！不是自己写的，干嘛那麼不要脸，硬是说是自己写的？」
物理老师站在台上嘲讽的说：
「哎呀！你少丢脸了啦！你的程度我很了解，你不用骗我啦！」
当时，我转过头，看到小陈低著头，抿著嘴，眼光闪著泪水..
他没有再回嘴，只是一直低著头，假装看著书，
而他的眼泪，也一颗颗的滴在课本上..
联考放榜后，争气的他，考上台大物理系，
毕业，当兵退伍后，他更留学美国，
现在，已拿到「物理学博士」的学位回国。
而我，永远忘不了在高中时他对我说的一句话：
「那一题，明明是我自己做对的，他（物理老师）干嘛不相信我，
还当众嘲笑我、瞧不起我？以后，我的物理，一定要比他更厉害！」
经国先生曾说：「失意时需要忍，得意时需要淡..」
的确，人，都有失意，不顺遂的时候，然而，我更相信！
「挫折，是年轻人最好的礼物！」人只有在遭遇挫折，
被他人百般刁难、岐视、嘲讽时，才能「打醒自己」，
让自己被「当头棒喝」而惊醒过来！这岂不是一生中最珍贵的礼物..？
因此，如果现在的挫折，能带给你未来幸福，请忍受它..
如果现在的快乐，会带给你未来不幸，请拋弃它〜
分享：
『生命中的每个挫折、每个伤痛、每个打击，都有它的意义..』
太晚睡觉等于自杀（献给爱熬夜的年轻朋友）
原本一向身体健康，时常运动 (打羽球) 但在近日连续熬夜数晚，
经过数日后，突然第二天起床会觉得很疲劳！一闭眼就想睡觉！
(跟前一日熬夜的感觉不同)，而且会腰酸背痛，但一到晚上精神又好起来！
别以为这是小事〜！
根据中医的看法，是因过劳而造成体内器官阴阳失调，就是体内器官起内讧，
互相打架，最后造成器官衰竭而死，所以希望你不是下一个！
晚上9-11点：为免疫系统（淋巴）排毒时间，此段时间应安静或听音乐
晚间11-凌晨1点：肝的排毒，需在熟睡中进行。
凌晨1-3点：胆的排毒，亦同。
凌晨3-5点：肺的排毒。此即为何咳嗽的人在这段时间咳得最剧烈，
因排毒动作已走到肺；不应用止咳药，以免抑制废积物的排除。
凌晨5-7点：大肠的排毒，应上厕所排便。
早上7-9点：小肠大量吸收营养的时段，应吃早餐。
疗病者最好早吃，在6点半前，养生者在7点半前，
不吃早餐者应改变习惯，即使拖到9、10点吃都比不吃好。
半夜至凌晨4点为脊椎造血时段，必须熟睡，不宜熬夜。
【人体24小时使用手册】
1:00 人体进入浅睡阶段，易醒。此时头脑较清楚，熬夜者想睡反而睡不着。
2:00 绝大多数器官处于一天中工作最慢的状态，肝脏却在紧张工作，生血气为人体排毒。
3:00 进入深度睡眠阶段，肌肉完全放松。
4:00 “黎明前的黑暗”时刻，老年人最易发生意外。
血压处于一天中最低值，糖尿病病人易出现低血糖，心脑血管患者易发生心梗等。
5:00 阳气逐渐升华，精神状态饱满。
6:00 血压开始升高，心跳逐渐加快。高血压患者得吃降压药了。
7:00 人体免疫力最强。吃完早饭，营养逐渐被人体吸收。
8:00 各项生理激素分泌旺盛，开始进入工作状态。
9:00 适合打针、手术、做体检等。此时人体气血活跃，大脑皮层兴奋，痛感降低。
10:00 工作效率最高。
10:00-11:00 属于人体的第一个黄金时段。心脏充分发挥其功能，精力充沛，不会感到疲劳。
12:00 紧张工作一上午后，需要休息。
12:00-13:00 是最佳“子午觉”时间。不宜疲劳作战，最好躺着休息半小时至一小时。
14:00 反应迟钝。易有昏昏欲睡之感，人体应激能力降低。
15:00 午饭营养吸收后逐渐被输送到全身，工作能力开始恢复。
15:00-17:00 为人体第二个黄金时段。最适宜开会、公关、接待重要客人。
16:00 血糖开始升高，有虚火者此时表现明显。阳虚、肺结核等患者的脸部最红。
17:00 工作效率达到午后时间的最高值，也适宜进行体育锻炼。
18:00 人体敏感度下降，痛觉随之再度降低。
19:00 最易发生争吵。此时是人体血压波动的晚高峰，人们的情绪最不稳定。
20:00 人体进入第三个黄金阶段。记忆力最强，大脑反应异常迅速。
20:00-21:00 适合做作业、阅读、创作、锻炼等。
22:00 适合梳洗。呼吸开始减慢，体温逐渐下降。最好在十点半泡脚后上床，能很快入睡。
23:00 阳气微弱，人体功能下降，开始逐渐进入深度睡眠，一天的疲劳开始缓解。
24:00 气血处于一天中的最低值，除了休息，不宜进行任何活动。
经过数日后，突然第二天起床会觉得很疲劳！一闭眼就想睡觉！
(跟前一日熬夜的感觉不同)，而且会腰酸背痛，但一到晚上精神又好起来！
别以为这是小事〜！
根据中医的看法，是因过劳而造成体内器官阴阳失调，就是体内器官起内讧，
互相打架，最后造成器官衰竭而死，所以希望你不是下一个！
晚上9-11点：为免疫系统（淋巴）排毒时间，此段时间应安静或听音乐
晚间11-凌晨1点：肝的排毒，需在熟睡中进行。
凌晨1-3点：胆的排毒，亦同。
凌晨3-5点：肺的排毒。此即为何咳嗽的人在这段时间咳得最剧烈，
因排毒动作已走到肺；不应用止咳药，以免抑制废积物的排除。
凌晨5-7点：大肠的排毒，应上厕所排便。
早上7-9点：小肠大量吸收营养的时段，应吃早餐。
疗病者最好早吃，在6点半前，养生者在7点半前，
不吃早餐者应改变习惯，即使拖到9、10点吃都比不吃好。
半夜至凌晨4点为脊椎造血时段，必须熟睡，不宜熬夜。
【人体24小时使用手册】
1:00 人体进入浅睡阶段，易醒。此时头脑较清楚，熬夜者想睡反而睡不着。
2:00 绝大多数器官处于一天中工作最慢的状态，肝脏却在紧张工作，生血气为人体排毒。
3:00 进入深度睡眠阶段，肌肉完全放松。
4:00 “黎明前的黑暗”时刻，老年人最易发生意外。
血压处于一天中最低值，糖尿病病人易出现低血糖，心脑血管患者易发生心梗等。
5:00 阳气逐渐升华，精神状态饱满。
6:00 血压开始升高，心跳逐渐加快。高血压患者得吃降压药了。
7:00 人体免疫力最强。吃完早饭，营养逐渐被人体吸收。
8:00 各项生理激素分泌旺盛，开始进入工作状态。
9:00 适合打针、手术、做体检等。此时人体气血活跃，大脑皮层兴奋，痛感降低。
10:00 工作效率最高。
10:00-11:00 属于人体的第一个黄金时段。心脏充分发挥其功能，精力充沛，不会感到疲劳。
12:00 紧张工作一上午后，需要休息。
12:00-13:00 是最佳“子午觉”时间。不宜疲劳作战，最好躺着休息半小时至一小时。
14:00 反应迟钝。易有昏昏欲睡之感，人体应激能力降低。
15:00 午饭营养吸收后逐渐被输送到全身，工作能力开始恢复。
15:00-17:00 为人体第二个黄金时段。最适宜开会、公关、接待重要客人。
16:00 血糖开始升高，有虚火者此时表现明显。阳虚、肺结核等患者的脸部最红。
17:00 工作效率达到午后时间的最高值，也适宜进行体育锻炼。
18:00 人体敏感度下降，痛觉随之再度降低。
19:00 最易发生争吵。此时是人体血压波动的晚高峰，人们的情绪最不稳定。
20:00 人体进入第三个黄金阶段。记忆力最强，大脑反应异常迅速。
20:00-21:00 适合做作业、阅读、创作、锻炼等。
22:00 适合梳洗。呼吸开始减慢，体温逐渐下降。最好在十点半泡脚后上床，能很快入睡。
23:00 阳气微弱，人体功能下降，开始逐渐进入深度睡眠，一天的疲劳开始缓解。
24:00 气血处于一天中的最低值，除了休息，不宜进行任何活动。
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
My favourite Quotes
約翰一書4:19 ↖(^ω^)↗ Y(^_^)Y
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我們愛，因為 神先愛我們 ✞ ✝
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人若有爱上帝 的心,就会有爱他人的心. ♡ ❤ ღ
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<º))))><.•´¯`•.(“In the meantime, if you are worried about the people outside, the most unreasonable thing you can do is to remain outside yourself. Christians are Christ’s body, the organism through which He works. . . If you want to help those outside you must add your own little cell to the body of Christ who alone can help them.” C. S. Lewis)¸.•´¯`•.¸><((((º>
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..•.¸¸•´¯`•.¸¸.ஐRomans 12: 1-2 Dear friends, God is good. So I beg you to offer your bodies to him as a living sacrifice, pure and pleasing. That's the most sensible way to serve God. Don't be like the people of this world, but let God change the way you think. Then you will know how to do everything that is good and pleasing to him. (CEV)ஐ..•.¸¸•´¯`•.¸¸.
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신◈기◈今天◈(★) Trying to keep my days from being a "schedule" or "to-do list" but more of opportunities for the Lord to work in my everyday! (★)◈동방◈기◈天
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Depending on God isn’t weakness;
it’s acknowledging His strength...◕‿◕...
ஐ¤*¨¨*¤¨°o.O( 與其失望灰心，應該更多的向前行⋯。
耶穌說，手扶著犁向後看的，不配進神的國⋯。（路加福音：九62）我不是以為自己已經得著了，我只有一件事，就是忘記背後努力面前的⋯。（腓立比書：三13）)O.o°¤*¨¨*¤εïз
☜♥☞ º°”˜`”°º☜(Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the grave, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom. -Ecclesiastes 9:10-)☞ º°”˜`”°☜♥☞
•☆.•*´¨`*••♥ Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. -Colossians 3:23-24- ♥••*´¨`*•.☆•
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我們愛，因為 神先愛我們 ✞ ✝
✿◕ ‿ ◕✿ ❀◕ ‿ ◕❀ ❁◕ ‿ ◕❁ ✾◕ ‿ ◕✾
人若有爱上帝 的心,就会有爱他人的心. ♡ ❤ ღ
★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆
<º))))><.•´¯`•.(“In the meantime, if you are worried about the people outside, the most unreasonable thing you can do is to remain outside yourself. Christians are Christ’s body, the organism through which He works. . . If you want to help those outside you must add your own little cell to the body of Christ who alone can help them.” C. S. Lewis)¸.•´¯`•.¸><((((º>
❀ ✿ ❁ ✾ ✽ ❃ ❋
..•.¸¸•´¯`•.¸¸.ஐRomans 12: 1-2 Dear friends, God is good. So I beg you to offer your bodies to him as a living sacrifice, pure and pleasing. That's the most sensible way to serve God. Don't be like the people of this world, but let God change the way you think. Then you will know how to do everything that is good and pleasing to him. (CEV)ஐ..•.¸¸•´¯`•.¸¸.
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신◈기◈今天◈(★) Trying to keep my days from being a "schedule" or "to-do list" but more of opportunities for the Lord to work in my everyday! (★)◈동방◈기◈天
εїз
Depending on God isn’t weakness;
it’s acknowledging His strength...◕‿◕...
ஐ¤*¨¨*¤¨°o.O( 與其失望灰心，應該更多的向前行⋯。
耶穌說，手扶著犁向後看的，不配進神的國⋯。（路加福音：九62）我不是以為自己已經得著了，我只有一件事，就是忘記背後努力面前的⋯。（腓立比書：三13）)O.o°¤*¨¨*¤εïз
☜♥☞ º°”˜`”°º☜(Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the grave, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom. -Ecclesiastes 9:10-)☞ º°”˜`”°☜♥☞
•☆.•*´¨`*••♥ Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. -Colossians 3:23-24- ♥••*´¨`*•.☆•
Monday, September 5, 2011
you are wonderfully made.
Look at the world around you, the infinite detail and creativity. Unimaginable beauty surrounds us every day. You are part of that creation, materializing from the same artist that created sunsets and rainbows. Don't ever allow yourself to think you are anything less than wonderful.
happiness is contagious.
When you are happy, sing your heart out! Let your joy and well-being radiate and transform all around you.
you can find a moment of rest.
Life is full of busyness: work, family, friends, housework, the list goes on and on. Take a few minutes right now to let yourself just rest. Quiet your mind and let the silence relax your body.
you matter.
People need you. People you love and even people you have never met are depending on you. You matter to God as well. No one else can be the person you were created to be. Do not think for a minute that you are not important; - the world needs you. God needs you.
even God rested.
Some people relax with TV, some people relax with a book, and some people relax with friends. But when was the last time you rested by truly doing nothing? Sometimes it's necessary to simply be still and breathe.
Look at the world around you, the infinite detail and creativity. Unimaginable beauty surrounds us every day. You are part of that creation, materializing from the same artist that created sunsets and rainbows. Don't ever allow yourself to think you are anything less than wonderful.
happiness is contagious.
When you are happy, sing your heart out! Let your joy and well-being radiate and transform all around you.
you can find a moment of rest.
Life is full of busyness: work, family, friends, housework, the list goes on and on. Take a few minutes right now to let yourself just rest. Quiet your mind and let the silence relax your body.
you matter.
People need you. People you love and even people you have never met are depending on you. You matter to God as well. No one else can be the person you were created to be. Do not think for a minute that you are not important; - the world needs you. God needs you.
even God rested.
Some people relax with TV, some people relax with a book, and some people relax with friends. But when was the last time you rested by truly doing nothing? Sometimes it's necessary to simply be still and breathe.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Sunday, August 14, 2011
【約爾牧師每周講台 : 第470講 遇到對的人】
箴言27:17說，「鐵磨鐵，磨出刃來；朋友相感也是如此。」，若要完成上帝賜予你的命定，達到成功境地，關鍵在於遇到對的人，就是遇見那些稱讚你、鼓勵你、提升你的人。如果你要成為上帝所創造完整的你，身邊必須有許多能將生命、信念和異象引進你生命的對的人。不幸的是，許多人無法發揮全部潛力，是因為他們從來沒有擺脫那些錯的人，那些錯的人不斷地告訴他們，他們不能做想要做成的事，不能成為想要成為的人。你不必如此，不要再浪費任何時間和那些不磨造你、不鼓勵你、無法使你進步的人在一起。生命是短暫的，要讓朋友幫助你，相信上帝，因為他已經安排了合適的人進入你的生活，激勵你、挑戰你、幫助你成長和實現自己的夢想！
如果没有人相信你，那就自己相信自己；如果没人欣赏你，那就自己欣赏自己；如果没人祝福你，那就自己祝福自己。用心去触摸属于自己的阳光，用爱去创造属于自己的时空。当自己读懂了自己，世界才能读懂你。
如果你不夠忍耐，請坐下來和約伯談談；
如果你信心軟弱，請到基立溪旁去看看以利亞；
如果你心中沒有詩歌，請聽聽大衛夜間的讚美；
如果你四面楚歌，請到紅海邊向摩西領教；
如果你多受磨煉，請和被賣的約瑟做朋友；
如果你成了官員，請看看但以理的生活；
如果你是神的僕人，請讀讀保羅的生平。
如果你相信神對你的完全了解，你就不必理會人對你的誤解；
如果你在世間一無所有，請爬上啓示錄的梯子，向未來的榮美福地作一次鳥瞰；
如果你心中沒有平安，請跪在主耶稣的面前；祂就賜你無限的平安、莫大的安慰、甜蜜的安息。
如果你肯進密室，你就會看見主溫柔的容顔；
如果你肯安靜，你就會聽見神的安慰和呼喚。
箴言作者勉勵我們「在（你）一切所行的事上，都要認定祂。」神對我們說，來倚靠我，仰賴我吧，來向我傾心吐意，向我詢問，向我求；告訴我你們今天的計劃，告訴我你們面對的困難，與我分享你們的盼望和夢想，你們的懼怕和失敗 —— 換言之，將一切放在禱告之中。
唯一能讓事情有所改變的就是你自己！
「我是尊貴的，我是被愛的。上帝對我的生命有一個很棒的計劃，我走到哪兒都有恩惠、慈愛隨著我。上帝的福分澆灌我，甚至要滿溢出來了，凡我手做的盡都成功興盛。我對未來充滿期待！」
at any moment, you can choose peace.
You can choose inner peace, you can choose peace between friends, you can choose peace between enemies, and you can choose peace on the planet.
Though our feelings come and go, God's love for us does not.
you will blossom.
A flower starts deep under the dirt and has to fight against gravity in the darkness before finally breaking free and opening its bloom to the sun. You may feel like you're in darkness and everything around you is muddy, but keep pushing toward the Light and when the time is right, you will burst into blossom.
each day is a day in making.
At any moment, you can make a different choice about what you are doing, how you are feeling, and what you are focusing on. It is never too late to start over again and make new choices.
all virtues, when practiced regularly, grow in size.
Cultivate the virtues of love, kindness, joy, - and you will be rewarded with a life filled with love, kindness and joy.
箴言27:17說，「鐵磨鐵，磨出刃來；朋友相感也是如此。」，若要完成上帝賜予你的命定，達到成功境地，關鍵在於遇到對的人，就是遇見那些稱讚你、鼓勵你、提升你的人。如果你要成為上帝所創造完整的你，身邊必須有許多能將生命、信念和異象引進你生命的對的人。不幸的是，許多人無法發揮全部潛力，是因為他們從來沒有擺脫那些錯的人，那些錯的人不斷地告訴他們，他們不能做想要做成的事，不能成為想要成為的人。你不必如此，不要再浪費任何時間和那些不磨造你、不鼓勵你、無法使你進步的人在一起。生命是短暫的，要讓朋友幫助你，相信上帝，因為他已經安排了合適的人進入你的生活，激勵你、挑戰你、幫助你成長和實現自己的夢想！
如果没有人相信你，那就自己相信自己；如果没人欣赏你，那就自己欣赏自己；如果没人祝福你，那就自己祝福自己。用心去触摸属于自己的阳光，用爱去创造属于自己的时空。当自己读懂了自己，世界才能读懂你。
如果你不夠忍耐，請坐下來和約伯談談；
如果你信心軟弱，請到基立溪旁去看看以利亞；
如果你心中沒有詩歌，請聽聽大衛夜間的讚美；
如果你四面楚歌，請到紅海邊向摩西領教；
如果你多受磨煉，請和被賣的約瑟做朋友；
如果你成了官員，請看看但以理的生活；
如果你是神的僕人，請讀讀保羅的生平。
如果你相信神對你的完全了解，你就不必理會人對你的誤解；
如果你在世間一無所有，請爬上啓示錄的梯子，向未來的榮美福地作一次鳥瞰；
如果你心中沒有平安，請跪在主耶稣的面前；祂就賜你無限的平安、莫大的安慰、甜蜜的安息。
如果你肯進密室，你就會看見主溫柔的容顔；
如果你肯安靜，你就會聽見神的安慰和呼喚。
箴言作者勉勵我們「在（你）一切所行的事上，都要認定祂。」神對我們說，來倚靠我，仰賴我吧，來向我傾心吐意，向我詢問，向我求；告訴我你們今天的計劃，告訴我你們面對的困難，與我分享你們的盼望和夢想，你們的懼怕和失敗 —— 換言之，將一切放在禱告之中。
唯一能讓事情有所改變的就是你自己！
「我是尊貴的，我是被愛的。上帝對我的生命有一個很棒的計劃，我走到哪兒都有恩惠、慈愛隨著我。上帝的福分澆灌我，甚至要滿溢出來了，凡我手做的盡都成功興盛。我對未來充滿期待！」
at any moment, you can choose peace.
You can choose inner peace, you can choose peace between friends, you can choose peace between enemies, and you can choose peace on the planet.
Though our feelings come and go, God's love for us does not.
you will blossom.
A flower starts deep under the dirt and has to fight against gravity in the darkness before finally breaking free and opening its bloom to the sun. You may feel like you're in darkness and everything around you is muddy, but keep pushing toward the Light and when the time is right, you will burst into blossom.
each day is a day in making.
At any moment, you can make a different choice about what you are doing, how you are feeling, and what you are focusing on. It is never too late to start over again and make new choices.
all virtues, when practiced regularly, grow in size.
Cultivate the virtues of love, kindness, joy, - and you will be rewarded with a life filled with love, kindness and joy.
Friday, August 5, 2011
every moment can be made glorious by your realization of God.
That does not mean praying incessantly or reading holy book nonstop. What that does mean is going about your everyday life with an awareness of communion with God in your heart.
there is an ebb and flow to this life.
Trust this peaceful rhythm. If there were constant flow, we would drown in the intensity. Ebb is as necessary as flow.
you've got what it takes.
God won't give you more than you can handle. Although there may have been times you thought the world was caving in on you, you got through it. You are much stronger than you think and with God's power, you are stronger than you can imagine. So charge ahead, you can handle it.
you are what you think of all day long.
Day after day your thoughts shape you like dripping water shapes rock. Pay attention to what you are habitually thinking about, - are your thoughts serving you well?
the more you are, the more you can be for others.
You cannot give to others what you do not have yourself. First, make yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually wealthy, and then freely give to others.
your home is sacred.
Where you live makes a big difference. Every little thing in your home influences you through its colors, shapes, textures, smells. Take a look around your home, - what can you change to transform your home into a place of communion.
you can be an encouragement.
Everyone needs encouragement, but it's so easy to forget to take the time to give it. Think of someone in your life whom you appreciate today, or someone who made you smile, - and tell them! Even if it's a stranger, take a moment to let them know you noticed.
freedom is within, not without.
Freedom is much misunderstood as freedom from something, as outward facing. Such freedom is illusory. Real freedom is freedom from mental sins of desire, hate, prejudice. Real freedom brings peace, grace, bliss.
peace is yours.
Storms may be raging around you, but you can still find peace in your own heart because the God of Peace reigns within you.
there are no wrongs that God cannot make right.
So you've been hurt or maybe you hurt someone else. God can fix it. God may be nudging you this very moment to ask for forgiveness or be willing to forgive. Trust God, listen and act. There is no wrong that God cannot make right.
the world is an abundant place.
So far, everyday of your life you have had enough to survive. Whether it was water, food or shelter, one way or another, you had enough. Why would tomorrow be any different? God has created an abundant world, live in appreciation of that.
to love God you must have an attitude of love.
An attitude of receptivity and warmth and readiness to receive God's grace. An attitude of giving and generosity and not-holding-back to let God's grace flow through you and on into the world. You know you love God when you feel love flowing through you.
love won't run out.
In moments when you feel like you have given and given until there is no more of yourself to give, remember that love won't run out. God has an infinite amount of love for you and for you to pass on to others. Even at times when the well seems dry, God can send a flood. Let the flood of love wash over you and then drench everyone around you.
the only opinion of you that is important, is God's.
Focus on living your life, and let the opinions of others be what they are.
Lee Hei Tin dear, you will have stars in your eyes and a special someone to share your comfort zone. You just need to play your cards right. Remember they too have feelings. You could both end up saying some strange and wonderful things to each other but the understanding will be the same, especially when you can demonstrate the love. Honest actions will help your relationship to become even better with positive and clear intentions. Enjoy the new quality of your relationship.
the wind is a powerful cleansing agent, blowing away old stagnant energies.
What needs to be released in your life? Stop holding on to that which does not work in your life. Let it go.
That does not mean praying incessantly or reading holy book nonstop. What that does mean is going about your everyday life with an awareness of communion with God in your heart.
there is an ebb and flow to this life.
Trust this peaceful rhythm. If there were constant flow, we would drown in the intensity. Ebb is as necessary as flow.
you've got what it takes.
God won't give you more than you can handle. Although there may have been times you thought the world was caving in on you, you got through it. You are much stronger than you think and with God's power, you are stronger than you can imagine. So charge ahead, you can handle it.
you are what you think of all day long.
Day after day your thoughts shape you like dripping water shapes rock. Pay attention to what you are habitually thinking about, - are your thoughts serving you well?
the more you are, the more you can be for others.
You cannot give to others what you do not have yourself. First, make yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually wealthy, and then freely give to others.
your home is sacred.
Where you live makes a big difference. Every little thing in your home influences you through its colors, shapes, textures, smells. Take a look around your home, - what can you change to transform your home into a place of communion.
you can be an encouragement.
Everyone needs encouragement, but it's so easy to forget to take the time to give it. Think of someone in your life whom you appreciate today, or someone who made you smile, - and tell them! Even if it's a stranger, take a moment to let them know you noticed.
freedom is within, not without.
Freedom is much misunderstood as freedom from something, as outward facing. Such freedom is illusory. Real freedom is freedom from mental sins of desire, hate, prejudice. Real freedom brings peace, grace, bliss.
peace is yours.
Storms may be raging around you, but you can still find peace in your own heart because the God of Peace reigns within you.
there are no wrongs that God cannot make right.
So you've been hurt or maybe you hurt someone else. God can fix it. God may be nudging you this very moment to ask for forgiveness or be willing to forgive. Trust God, listen and act. There is no wrong that God cannot make right.
the world is an abundant place.
So far, everyday of your life you have had enough to survive. Whether it was water, food or shelter, one way or another, you had enough. Why would tomorrow be any different? God has created an abundant world, live in appreciation of that.
to love God you must have an attitude of love.
An attitude of receptivity and warmth and readiness to receive God's grace. An attitude of giving and generosity and not-holding-back to let God's grace flow through you and on into the world. You know you love God when you feel love flowing through you.
love won't run out.
In moments when you feel like you have given and given until there is no more of yourself to give, remember that love won't run out. God has an infinite amount of love for you and for you to pass on to others. Even at times when the well seems dry, God can send a flood. Let the flood of love wash over you and then drench everyone around you.
the only opinion of you that is important, is God's.
Focus on living your life, and let the opinions of others be what they are.
Lee Hei Tin dear, you will have stars in your eyes and a special someone to share your comfort zone. You just need to play your cards right. Remember they too have feelings. You could both end up saying some strange and wonderful things to each other but the understanding will be the same, especially when you can demonstrate the love. Honest actions will help your relationship to become even better with positive and clear intentions. Enjoy the new quality of your relationship.
the wind is a powerful cleansing agent, blowing away old stagnant energies.
What needs to be released in your life? Stop holding on to that which does not work in your life. Let it go.
Friday, July 29, 2011
People Helping People Help Themselves: Courage and Risk
People Helping People Help Themselves: Courage and Risk: "It's a simple truth - anything you do involve risk. To drive a car is to risk having a wreck. To apply for a job is to risk not being hi..."
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
good thoughts and actions always produce good results, sometimes in unusual ways.
You just focus on doing what you can, and leave the results up to God.
your intuition is very important.
The more often you listen to it, the more often you will hear it and the more accurately it will guide you.
you have no right to wish for more, until you fully appreciate what you already have.
It's not the amount that matters, but the blessings you are able to receive from it. A slice of stale bread gives more to the beggar, than a new house to the rich. Everything you have has unending blessings for you hidden inside, - learn to receive them.
you attract not what you want, but who you are.
If you want to change something in your life, focus on the inner, and God will take care of the outer.
God can fix anything.
Have you ever witnessed a skilled craftsman going into an old broken down home and restoring it into something fabulous? God is the master of restoration, taking the broken and damaged and making them beautiful. Are there some things in your life that could use a little work??llow yourself to be God's next fixer upper project.
it's ok to ask for help.
You are not here to do it all alone. That would be crazy! Do you know how to grow rice, spin yard or make electricity? No one does it all alone. That's why people have each other. Relying on and supporting each other is what makes the world go round. Don't be shy about asking for help.
there are just two directions in life, - to shrink or to grow.
Every challenge is God's offer for you to grow, to enlarge your soul. You can take God's offer and become more, or you can shrink back, shy away and become less.
when you want God to knock on your door, you go and knock on God's door.
Give of yourself and you shall receive.
truth has strength and power of its own.
In any situation you find yourself in, look for truth, search for it deep in your heart. Let that truth of your heart flow, and you will see obstacles melt like ice.
there are no small miracles.
A miracle is a miracle. Don't forget to notice them! As you begin to notice miracles, you will find that they are all around. Love and blessings abound!
You just focus on doing what you can, and leave the results up to God.
your intuition is very important.
The more often you listen to it, the more often you will hear it and the more accurately it will guide you.
you have no right to wish for more, until you fully appreciate what you already have.
It's not the amount that matters, but the blessings you are able to receive from it. A slice of stale bread gives more to the beggar, than a new house to the rich. Everything you have has unending blessings for you hidden inside, - learn to receive them.
you attract not what you want, but who you are.
If you want to change something in your life, focus on the inner, and God will take care of the outer.
God can fix anything.
Have you ever witnessed a skilled craftsman going into an old broken down home and restoring it into something fabulous? God is the master of restoration, taking the broken and damaged and making them beautiful. Are there some things in your life that could use a little work??llow yourself to be God's next fixer upper project.
it's ok to ask for help.
You are not here to do it all alone. That would be crazy! Do you know how to grow rice, spin yard or make electricity? No one does it all alone. That's why people have each other. Relying on and supporting each other is what makes the world go round. Don't be shy about asking for help.
there are just two directions in life, - to shrink or to grow.
Every challenge is God's offer for you to grow, to enlarge your soul. You can take God's offer and become more, or you can shrink back, shy away and become less.
when you want God to knock on your door, you go and knock on God's door.
Give of yourself and you shall receive.
truth has strength and power of its own.
In any situation you find yourself in, look for truth, search for it deep in your heart. Let that truth of your heart flow, and you will see obstacles melt like ice.
there are no small miracles.
A miracle is a miracle. Don't forget to notice them! As you begin to notice miracles, you will find that they are all around. Love and blessings abound!
Thursday, July 21, 2011
可以參考的85句話！
1、別低估任何人。
2、你沒那麼多觀眾，別那麼累。
3、溫和對人對事。不要隨意發脾氣，誰都不欠你的。
4、現在很痛苦，等過陣子回頭看看，會發現其實那都不算事。
5、和對自己有惡意的人絕交。人有絕交，才有至交。
6、學會寬容傷害自己的人，因為他們很可憐，各人都有自己的難處，大家都不容易。
7、學會放棄，拽的越緊，痛苦的是自己。
8、低調。取捨間，必有得失。
9、不要試圖給自己找任何藉口，錯誤面前沒人愛聽那些藉口。
10、慎言，獨立。學會妥協的同時，也要堅持自己最基本的原則。
11、付出並不一定有結果。堅持可能會導致失去更多。
12、過去的事情可以不忘記，但一定要放下。
13、活得輕鬆，任何事都作一個最好的打算和最壞的打算。
14、做一個簡單的人，踏實而務實。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自擾。
15、不說謊話，因為總有被拆穿的一天。
16、別人光鮮的背後或者有著太多不為人知的痛苦。
17、儘量充實自己。不要停止學習。不管學習什麼，語言，廚藝，各種技能。
18、注意自己的修養，你就是孩子的第一位老師。
19、孝順父母。不只是嘴上說說，即使多打幾個電話也是很好的。
20、愛父母，因為他們給了你生命，同時也是愛你愛的最無私的人。
21、偶爾也要現實和虛偽一點，因為不那樣做的話，很難混。
22、收斂自己的脾氣，偶爾要刻意沉默，因為衝動會做下讓自己無法挽回的事情。
23、無論什麼時候，做什麼事情，要思考。
24、永遠不要給背叛過自己的朋友第二次背叛的機會。
25、無論是誰，都有自己的限度。特別是信任。
26、懂得傾聽別人的忠告。
27、別人說的記在腦袋裡，而自己的，則放在心裡。
28、儘量不要講同事朋友的八卦。
29、信因果，在真正的因果面前，人的力量是微不足道的。
30、坦然接受生活給你的饋贈吧，不管是好的還是壞的。
31、真正瞭解無常的含義，當你痛苦時，你要想這痛苦不是永恆的，當你快樂時，你要想這快樂也不是永恆的。
32、要快樂，要開朗，要堅韌，要溫暖，對人要真誠。
33、空虛無聊的時候就讀書，但一定得有自己的生活目標和計畫。
34、對人性的弱點有清醒的認識，但要相信真誠的愛情，對愛情永遠懷有單純的嚮往。
35、不要太過依賴除自己以外的人，因為只有自己不會拋棄自己。
36、永遠對生活充滿希望，對於困境與磨難，微笑面對。
37、多看書，看好書。
38、少吃點，吃好的。
39、古龍說過，愛笑的女孩子，運氣不會太差。
40、多交朋友，交好的朋友。
41、請記得，好朋友的定義是：你混的好，她打心眼裡為你開心；你混的不好，她由衷的為你著急。
42、要有夢想，即使遙遠。
43、努力愛一個人。付出，不一定會有收穫；不付出，卻一定不會有收穫，不要奢望出現奇跡。
44、承諾是一件美好的事情，但美好的東西往往不會變為現實。
45、每個人都有自己鮮明的主張和個性，不要識途去改變他人，同樣，也不要被他人所改變。改了，就不是自己了。
46、沒有十全十美的東西，沒有十全十美的人，關鍵是清楚到底想要什麼。得到想要的，肯定會失去另外一部分。如果什麼都想要，只會什麼都得不到。
47、這個世界最脆弱的是生命，身體健康，很重要。
48、老天爺對每個人都是公平的。
49、不要試圖控制別人，不要要求別人理解你。
50、活在當下，別在懷念過去或者憧憬未來中浪費掉你現在的生活。
51、不要忘本，任何時候，任何事情。
52、要誠懇，要坦然，要慷慨，要寬容，要有平常心。
53、學會忘記, 善忘是一件好事。
54、要樂觀，要積極，多笑，多照鏡子。
55、相信他說的話，但不要當真。
56、凡事多長心眼。
57、不要自作聰明。
58、做自己的決定。然後準備好承擔後果。從一開始就提醒自己，世上沒有後悔藥吃。
59、自己不喜歡的人，可以報之以沉默微笑；自己喜歡的人，那就隨便怎麼樣了，因為你的喜愛會擋也擋不住地流露出來。
60、相信因果報應！
61、要學會忍耐與堅持！
62、這個世界上沒有真正的愛情……時間可以沖淡一切。
63、不要做刺蝟，能不與人結仇就不與人結仇，誰也不跟誰一輩子，有些事情沒必要記在心上。
64、有時要學會聽取身邊人的意見，更多時候這樣才不會讓自己受到傷害。
65、忘記過去才能有新的開始。
66、這個世界很不公平。
67、不要太依賴朋友，人性基本都有惡的一面。
68、愛情很美好，相信愛情。如果連愛情都不相信那人生豈不太苦了？
69、想得到一樣一定會失去另一件東西。
70、痛苦讓人成長，是你進步的一個機會，一個挑戰。別害怕痛苦的事情，它有另一面積極的作用。
71、人就是孤獨的，緩解它帶來的痛苦的唯一方式就是平靜的接受它。
72、沒有經歷過的，永遠不能理解這些道理，但聽聽也是好的。
73、可以不美麗，可以不可愛，可以不溫柔，但是一定要誠實和善良。
74、喜愛一切美好的事物，讚美並享受它們所帶來的美好。
75、當困難來臨時，用微笑去面對，用智慧去解決。
76、要勇於承認自己所犯的錯誤，並承擔其帶來的責任。
77、愛家人，愛朋友，愛伴侶，愛孩子，然而，要真正為自己活。
78、永遠不要為已發生的和未發生的事憂慮。已經發生既成事實憂慮也于事無補，未發生的憑主觀臆測，無法推斷事情的走向，徒增煩惱而已。
79、不要老在別人面前傾訴你的困境袒露你的脆弱。
80、不要想著依靠別人，要有目標有追求，這與年齡無關。
81、做一個簡單的人，踏實而務實。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自擾。
82、學會思考，頭腦清晰，明白自己的渺小，切忌自我陶醉。炮打出頭鳥，凡事不要強出頭，因為你並沒有想像中的強！
83、每個人都是獨立的個體，真的沒有誰離開誰就活不下去！
84、不要太高估自己在集體中的力量，因為當你選擇離開時，就會發現即使沒有你，太陽照常升起！
85、社會是有等級的，很多事不公平。別抱怨，因為沒有用。
1、別低估任何人。
2、你沒那麼多觀眾，別那麼累。
3、溫和對人對事。不要隨意發脾氣，誰都不欠你的。
4、現在很痛苦，等過陣子回頭看看，會發現其實那都不算事。
5、和對自己有惡意的人絕交。人有絕交，才有至交。
6、學會寬容傷害自己的人，因為他們很可憐，各人都有自己的難處，大家都不容易。
7、學會放棄，拽的越緊，痛苦的是自己。
8、低調。取捨間，必有得失。
9、不要試圖給自己找任何藉口，錯誤面前沒人愛聽那些藉口。
10、慎言，獨立。學會妥協的同時，也要堅持自己最基本的原則。
11、付出並不一定有結果。堅持可能會導致失去更多。
12、過去的事情可以不忘記，但一定要放下。
13、活得輕鬆，任何事都作一個最好的打算和最壞的打算。
14、做一個簡單的人，踏實而務實。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自擾。
15、不說謊話，因為總有被拆穿的一天。
16、別人光鮮的背後或者有著太多不為人知的痛苦。
17、儘量充實自己。不要停止學習。不管學習什麼，語言，廚藝，各種技能。
18、注意自己的修養，你就是孩子的第一位老師。
19、孝順父母。不只是嘴上說說，即使多打幾個電話也是很好的。
20、愛父母，因為他們給了你生命，同時也是愛你愛的最無私的人。
21、偶爾也要現實和虛偽一點，因為不那樣做的話，很難混。
22、收斂自己的脾氣，偶爾要刻意沉默，因為衝動會做下讓自己無法挽回的事情。
23、無論什麼時候，做什麼事情，要思考。
24、永遠不要給背叛過自己的朋友第二次背叛的機會。
25、無論是誰，都有自己的限度。特別是信任。
26、懂得傾聽別人的忠告。
27、別人說的記在腦袋裡，而自己的，則放在心裡。
28、儘量不要講同事朋友的八卦。
29、信因果，在真正的因果面前，人的力量是微不足道的。
30、坦然接受生活給你的饋贈吧，不管是好的還是壞的。
31、真正瞭解無常的含義，當你痛苦時，你要想這痛苦不是永恆的，當你快樂時，你要想這快樂也不是永恆的。
32、要快樂，要開朗，要堅韌，要溫暖，對人要真誠。
33、空虛無聊的時候就讀書，但一定得有自己的生活目標和計畫。
34、對人性的弱點有清醒的認識，但要相信真誠的愛情，對愛情永遠懷有單純的嚮往。
35、不要太過依賴除自己以外的人，因為只有自己不會拋棄自己。
36、永遠對生活充滿希望，對於困境與磨難，微笑面對。
37、多看書，看好書。
38、少吃點，吃好的。
39、古龍說過，愛笑的女孩子，運氣不會太差。
40、多交朋友，交好的朋友。
41、請記得，好朋友的定義是：你混的好，她打心眼裡為你開心；你混的不好，她由衷的為你著急。
42、要有夢想，即使遙遠。
43、努力愛一個人。付出，不一定會有收穫；不付出，卻一定不會有收穫，不要奢望出現奇跡。
44、承諾是一件美好的事情，但美好的東西往往不會變為現實。
45、每個人都有自己鮮明的主張和個性，不要識途去改變他人，同樣，也不要被他人所改變。改了，就不是自己了。
46、沒有十全十美的東西，沒有十全十美的人，關鍵是清楚到底想要什麼。得到想要的，肯定會失去另外一部分。如果什麼都想要，只會什麼都得不到。
47、這個世界最脆弱的是生命，身體健康，很重要。
48、老天爺對每個人都是公平的。
49、不要試圖控制別人，不要要求別人理解你。
50、活在當下，別在懷念過去或者憧憬未來中浪費掉你現在的生活。
51、不要忘本，任何時候，任何事情。
52、要誠懇，要坦然，要慷慨，要寬容，要有平常心。
53、學會忘記, 善忘是一件好事。
54、要樂觀，要積極，多笑，多照鏡子。
55、相信他說的話，但不要當真。
56、凡事多長心眼。
57、不要自作聰明。
58、做自己的決定。然後準備好承擔後果。從一開始就提醒自己，世上沒有後悔藥吃。
59、自己不喜歡的人，可以報之以沉默微笑；自己喜歡的人，那就隨便怎麼樣了，因為你的喜愛會擋也擋不住地流露出來。
60、相信因果報應！
61、要學會忍耐與堅持！
62、這個世界上沒有真正的愛情……時間可以沖淡一切。
63、不要做刺蝟，能不與人結仇就不與人結仇，誰也不跟誰一輩子，有些事情沒必要記在心上。
64、有時要學會聽取身邊人的意見，更多時候這樣才不會讓自己受到傷害。
65、忘記過去才能有新的開始。
66、這個世界很不公平。
67、不要太依賴朋友，人性基本都有惡的一面。
68、愛情很美好，相信愛情。如果連愛情都不相信那人生豈不太苦了？
69、想得到一樣一定會失去另一件東西。
70、痛苦讓人成長，是你進步的一個機會，一個挑戰。別害怕痛苦的事情，它有另一面積極的作用。
71、人就是孤獨的，緩解它帶來的痛苦的唯一方式就是平靜的接受它。
72、沒有經歷過的，永遠不能理解這些道理，但聽聽也是好的。
73、可以不美麗，可以不可愛，可以不溫柔，但是一定要誠實和善良。
74、喜愛一切美好的事物，讚美並享受它們所帶來的美好。
75、當困難來臨時，用微笑去面對，用智慧去解決。
76、要勇於承認自己所犯的錯誤，並承擔其帶來的責任。
77、愛家人，愛朋友，愛伴侶，愛孩子，然而，要真正為自己活。
78、永遠不要為已發生的和未發生的事憂慮。已經發生既成事實憂慮也于事無補，未發生的憑主觀臆測，無法推斷事情的走向，徒增煩惱而已。
79、不要老在別人面前傾訴你的困境袒露你的脆弱。
80、不要想著依靠別人，要有目標有追求，這與年齡無關。
81、做一個簡單的人，踏實而務實。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自擾。
82、學會思考，頭腦清晰，明白自己的渺小，切忌自我陶醉。炮打出頭鳥，凡事不要強出頭，因為你並沒有想像中的強！
83、每個人都是獨立的個體，真的沒有誰離開誰就活不下去！
84、不要太高估自己在集體中的力量，因為當你選擇離開時，就會發現即使沒有你，太陽照常升起！
85、社會是有等級的，很多事不公平。別抱怨，因為沒有用。
Saturday, July 16, 2011
here are people in this world who would greatly benefit from your love.
Who are these people? Notice them and don't hold back. Show your love.
everything will be alright.
It may seem dark at the moment, but don't lose hope. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel, keep moving and you'll get there. God won't abandon you; let God be your light. It may take some time, but in the end, everything will be alright.
the surest way to become is to playact.
Whenever you wish to change yourself, but find it difficult, start as children do by pretending that you already are. As you play at being who you wish to become, the playact itself will surely transform you.
it's okay to say no.
It is better to do a few things well than a bunch of things shoddily. If you are feeling overwhelmed, don't take on anything more. It's okay, and you might be giving someone else a chance to get involved. You don't have to be all things to all people; a few things to a few people will be just fine.
worshipping God is good for you.
In a world where there are many things competing for your devotion and worship, God is the only one that delivers and doesn't disappoint. Putting anything above God will ultimately let you down and leave you feeling empty. So sing praises, lift your hands in the air and give glory to God. It's good for you!
a new beginning is always possible.
Let the greening of the Earth in springtime be a sign for you that a new beginning is always possible, even after the longest, coldest, darkest winter.
here are times we are called to be a light in the darkness.
Now is that time. Be a calm presence of love. Let your heart shine like a beacon in dark times. It is surprising what a difference one light can make.
when you are ready for grace, grace will arrive.
If you expect trouble, trouble will hurry to your door. Look for grace.
you can give yourself more credit.
Are you juggling too much? Sometimes you don't give yourself enough credit for what you do get done in a day. Today, celebrate your accomplishments.
there will be times when you feel frightened or lonely or confused; this is part of the human condition.
When this happens, reach out to a friend. And remember that God is one of them.
Who are these people? Notice them and don't hold back. Show your love.
everything will be alright.
It may seem dark at the moment, but don't lose hope. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel, keep moving and you'll get there. God won't abandon you; let God be your light. It may take some time, but in the end, everything will be alright.
the surest way to become is to playact.
Whenever you wish to change yourself, but find it difficult, start as children do by pretending that you already are. As you play at being who you wish to become, the playact itself will surely transform you.
it's okay to say no.
It is better to do a few things well than a bunch of things shoddily. If you are feeling overwhelmed, don't take on anything more. It's okay, and you might be giving someone else a chance to get involved. You don't have to be all things to all people; a few things to a few people will be just fine.
worshipping God is good for you.
In a world where there are many things competing for your devotion and worship, God is the only one that delivers and doesn't disappoint. Putting anything above God will ultimately let you down and leave you feeling empty. So sing praises, lift your hands in the air and give glory to God. It's good for you!
a new beginning is always possible.
Let the greening of the Earth in springtime be a sign for you that a new beginning is always possible, even after the longest, coldest, darkest winter.
here are times we are called to be a light in the darkness.
Now is that time. Be a calm presence of love. Let your heart shine like a beacon in dark times. It is surprising what a difference one light can make.
when you are ready for grace, grace will arrive.
If you expect trouble, trouble will hurry to your door. Look for grace.
you can give yourself more credit.
Are you juggling too much? Sometimes you don't give yourself enough credit for what you do get done in a day. Today, celebrate your accomplishments.
there will be times when you feel frightened or lonely or confused; this is part of the human condition.
When this happens, reach out to a friend. And remember that God is one of them.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
饶恕 坚强 仁慈 勇敢 细心 谦卑 自豪 you默
感谢神,再次提醒: 饶恕,
是释放一个囚徒-自己;
并不是逃避, 假装和睦;
了解实情并选择饶恕, 因祂已饶恕了我.
70 个七次...无数次~ ;)
领导者要坚强, 而不粗暴;
要仁慈,而不软弱;
要勇敢,而不霸道;
要细心,而不懒惰;
要谦卑,而不懦弱;
要自豪,而不骄傲;
要you默,而不愚mei. Jim Rohn
zhuo ge cheng gon de zu shou
是释放一个囚徒-自己;
并不是逃避, 假装和睦;
了解实情并选择饶恕, 因祂已饶恕了我.
70 个七次...无数次~ ;)
领导者要坚强, 而不粗暴;
要仁慈,而不软弱;
要勇敢,而不霸道;
要细心,而不懒惰;
要谦卑,而不懦弱;
要自豪,而不骄傲;
要you默,而不愚mei. Jim Rohn
zhuo ge cheng gon de zu shou
Thursday, June 30, 2011
比尔·盖茨退休前写给青年人的十条忠告~ o.O
1.社会充满着不公平的现象。
但你先不要想去改造它，只能先适应它。
（因为你管不了它。）
2.世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。
在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。
(因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利。)
3.你只是中学毕业，通常不会成为CEO，直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。
（直到此时，人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业）
4.当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。
（你要悄悄地振作起来，重新奋起。）
5.你要懂得：在没有你之前，你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。
你应该想到，这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。
（你永远要感恩和孝敬他们，才是硬道理。）
6.在学校里，你考第几已不是那么重要，但进入社会却不然。
不管你去哪里，都要分等排名。
（社会、公司要排名次是常见的事，要鼓起勇气竞争才对。）
7.学校里有节假日，到公司打工则不然，
你几乎不能休息，很少能轻松地过节假日。
（否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了，甚至会让你永远落后。）
8.在学校，老师会帮助你学习，到公司却不会。
如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格，那是你还没有进入公司打工。
因为，如果公司对你不严厉，你就要失业了。
（你必须清醒地认识到：公司比学校更要严格要求自己。）
9.人们都喜欢看电视剧，但你不要看，那并不是你的生活。
只要在公司工作，你是无暇看电视剧的。
（奉劝你不要看，否则你走上看电视连续剧之路，
而且看得津津有味，那你将失去成功的资格。）
10.永远不要在背后批评别人，尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能..
（因为这样的心态，会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路。）
但你先不要想去改造它，只能先适应它。
（因为你管不了它。）
2.世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。
在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。
(因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利。)
3.你只是中学毕业，通常不会成为CEO，直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。
（直到此时，人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业）
4.当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。
（你要悄悄地振作起来，重新奋起。）
5.你要懂得：在没有你之前，你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。
你应该想到，这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。
（你永远要感恩和孝敬他们，才是硬道理。）
6.在学校里，你考第几已不是那么重要，但进入社会却不然。
不管你去哪里，都要分等排名。
（社会、公司要排名次是常见的事，要鼓起勇气竞争才对。）
7.学校里有节假日，到公司打工则不然，
你几乎不能休息，很少能轻松地过节假日。
（否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了，甚至会让你永远落后。）
8.在学校，老师会帮助你学习，到公司却不会。
如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格，那是你还没有进入公司打工。
因为，如果公司对你不严厉，你就要失业了。
（你必须清醒地认识到：公司比学校更要严格要求自己。）
9.人们都喜欢看电视剧，但你不要看，那并不是你的生活。
只要在公司工作，你是无暇看电视剧的。
（奉劝你不要看，否则你走上看电视连续剧之路，
而且看得津津有味，那你将失去成功的资格。）
10.永远不要在背后批评别人，尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能..
（因为这样的心态，会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路。）
看完这21个故事的人，30岁前都成了富翁.. 你的想法会有所改变
【1】
甲去买烟
烟29元
但他没火柴
跟店员说：
“顺便送一盒火柴吧..”
店员没给
乙去买烟
烟29元
他也没火柴
跟店员说：
“便宜一毛吧..”
最后他用这一毛买一盒火柴
这是最简单的心理边际效应
第一种：
店主认为自己在一个商品上赚钱了
另外一个没赚钱
赚钱感觉指数为1
第二种：
店主认为两个商品都赚钱了
赚 钱指数为2
当然心理倾向第二种了
同样..
这种心理还表现在买一送一的花招上
顾客认为有一样东西不用付钱就赚了
其实都是心理边际效应在作怪
启示：
变换一种方式
往往能起到意想不到的效果
通常很多事情换一种做法结果就不同了
人生道路上..
改善心智模式和思维方式是很重要的
【2】
有个小男孩
有一天妈妈带着他到杂货店去买东西
老板看到这个可爱的小孩就打开一罐糖果
要小男孩自己拿一把糖果
但是这个男孩却没有任何 动作
几次的邀请之后
老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中
回到家中
母亲好奇地问小男孩
为什么没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓呢?
小男孩回答很妙：
“ 因为我的手比较小呀..
而老板的手比较大
所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多”
启示：
这是一个聪明的孩子
他知道自己的有限
而更重要的..
他也知道别人比自己强
凡事不只靠自己的力量
学会适时地依靠他人
是一种谦卑
更是一种聪明
【3】
美国知名主持人林克莱特
有一天访问一名小朋友
问他说：
“你长大后想要当做什么呀?”
小朋友天真地回答：
“嗯……
我要当飞机的驾驶员”
林克 莱特接着问：
“如果有一天
你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都熄火了
你会怎么办?”
小朋友想了想：
“我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带
然后我挂上我 的降落伞跳出去”
当在场的观众笑得东倒西歪时
林克莱特继续注视着这孩子
想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙?
没想到接着孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出
这才使得 林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之心
远非笔墨所能形容
于是林克莱特问他说：
“为什么你要这么做?”
小孩的答案透露了这个孩子真挚的想法：
“我要去拿燃料
我还要 回来”
启示：
这就是“听的艺术”
一是听话不要听一半
二是不要把自己的意思
投射到别人所说的话上头
要学会聆听
用心听、虚心听
【4】
有两个和尚
他们分别住在相邻的两座山上的庙里
这两座山之间有一条溪
于是这两个和尚每天都会在同一时间下山去溪边挑水
久而久之他么变成为了好朋友
就 这样时间在每天挑水中
不知不觉已经过了五年
突然有一天
左边这座山的和尚没有下山挑水
右边那座山的和尚心想：
“他大概睡过头了”
便不以为意
哪知道第二天
左边这座山的和尚还是没有下山挑水
第三天也一样
过了一个星期还是一样
直到过了一个月右边那座山的和尚终于受不了
他心想：
“我的朋友可能生病 了
我要过去拜访他
看看能帮上什么忙”
于是他便爬上了左边这座山去探望他的老朋友
等他到了左边这座山的庙
看到他的老友之后大吃一惊
因为他的老 友正在庙前打太极拳
一点也不像一个月没喝水的人
他很好奇地问：
“你已经一个月没有下山挑水了
难道你可以不用喝水吗?”
左边这座山的和尚说：
“来来 来..
我带你去看”
于是他带着右边那座山的和尚走到庙的后院
指着一口井说：
“这五年来
我每天做完功课后都会抽空挖这口井
即使有时很忙..
能挖多少就算 多少
如今终于让我挖出井水
我就不用再下山挑水
我可以有更多时间练我喜欢的太极拳”
启示：
我们在公司领的薪水再多
那都是挑水
而把握下班后的时间挖一口属于自己的井
培养自己另一方面的实力
未来当我们年纪大了
体力拼不过年轻人了
依然还是有水喝
而且还能喝得很悠闲
【5】
有两个人相约到山上去寻找精美的石头
甲背了满满的一筐
乙的筐里只有一个他认为是最精美的石头
甲就笑乙：
“你为什么只挑一个啊?”
乙 说：
“漂亮的石头虽然多
但我只选一个最精美的就够了”
甲笑而不语
下山的路上
甲感到负担越来越重
最后不得已不断地从一筐的石头中挑一个最差的扔 下
到下山的时候他的筐里结果只剩下一个石头
启示：
人生中会有许多的东西值得留恋
有的时候你应该学会去放弃
【6】
有一家牙膏厂
产品优良、包装精美
受到顾客的喜爱
营业额连续10年递增
每年的增长率在10％～20％
可到了第11年
业绩停滞下来
以后两年也如此
公司经理召开高级会议、商讨对策
会议中..
公司总裁许诺说：
谁能想出解决问题的办法
让公司的业绩增长
重奖10万元
有位年轻经理站起 来
递给总裁一张纸条
总裁看完后
马上签了一张10万元的支票给了这位经理
那张纸条上写着：
将现在牙膏开口扩大1毫米
消费者每天早晨挤出同样长度的 牙膏
开口扩大了1毫米
每个消费者就多用1毫米宽的牙膏
每天的消费量将多出多少呢..
公司立即更改包装
第14年
公司的营业额增加了32％
启示：
面对生活中的变化
我们常常习惯过去的思维方法
其实只要你把心径扩大1毫米
你就会看到生活中的变化都有它积极的一面
充满了机遇和挑战
【7】
一只火鸡和一头牛闲聊
火鸡说：
我希望能飞到树顶
可我没有勇气
牛说：
为什么不吃一点我的牛粪呢?
他们很有营养
火鸡吃了一点牛粪
发现它 确实给了它足够的力量飞到第一根树枝
第二天
火鸡又吃了更多的牛粪
飞到第二根树枝
两个星期后
火鸡骄傲的飞到了树顶
但不久..
一个农夫看到了它
迅 速的把它从树上射了下来
启示：
牛屎运让你达到顶峰
但不能让你留在那里
【8】
乌鸦站在树上
整天无所事事
兔子看见乌鸦就问：
我能像你一样
整天什么事都不用干吗?
乌鸦说：
当然..
有什么不可以呢?
于是兔子在树下的空地上开始休息
忽然一只狐狸出现了
它跳起来抓住兔子把它吞了下去
启示：
如果你想站着什么事都不做
那你必须站的很高、非常高
【9】
一只小鸟飞到南方去过冬
天很冷..
小鸟几乎冻僵了
于是飞到一大块空地上
一头牛经过那儿
拉了一堆牛粪在小鸟的身上
冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆 里觉得很温暖
渐渐苏醒过来
它温暖而舒服的躺着
不久唱起歌来..
一只路过的野猫听到声音
走过去看个究竟
循着声音
野猫很快发现了躺在粪堆里的小 鸟
把它拽出来吃掉了
启示：
不是每个往你身上拉大粪的人都是你的敌人
也不是每个把你从粪堆里拉出来的人都是你的朋友
还有..
当你躺在粪堆里时
最好把你的嘴闭上
【10】
甲去买烟
烟29元
但他没火柴
跟店员说：
“顺便送一盒火柴吧..”
店员没给
乙去买烟
烟29元
他也没火柴
跟店员说：
“便宜一毛吧..”
最后他用这一毛买一盒火柴
这是最简单的心理边际效应
第一种：
店主认为自己在一个商品上赚钱了
另外一个没赚钱
赚钱感觉指数为1
第二种：
店主认为两个商品都赚钱了
赚 钱指数为2
当然心理倾向第二种了
同样..
这种心理还表现在买一送一的花招上
顾客认为有一样东西不用付钱就赚了
其实都是心理边际效应在作怪
启示：
变换一种方式
往往能起到意想不到的效果
通常很多事情换一种做法结果就不同了
人生道路上..
改善心智模式和思维方式是很重要的
【2】
有个小男孩
有一天妈妈带着他到杂货店去买东西
老板看到这个可爱的小孩就打开一罐糖果
要小男孩自己拿一把糖果
但是这个男孩却没有任何 动作
几次的邀请之后
老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中
回到家中
母亲好奇地问小男孩
为什么没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓呢?
小男孩回答很妙：
“ 因为我的手比较小呀..
而老板的手比较大
所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多”
启示：
这是一个聪明的孩子
他知道自己的有限
而更重要的..
他也知道别人比自己强
凡事不只靠自己的力量
学会适时地依靠他人
是一种谦卑
更是一种聪明
【3】
美国知名主持人林克莱特
有一天访问一名小朋友
问他说：
“你长大后想要当做什么呀?”
小朋友天真地回答：
“嗯……
我要当飞机的驾驶员”
林克 莱特接着问：
“如果有一天
你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都熄火了
你会怎么办?”
小朋友想了想：
“我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带
然后我挂上我 的降落伞跳出去”
当在场的观众笑得东倒西歪时
林克莱特继续注视着这孩子
想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙?
没想到接着孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出
这才使得 林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之心
远非笔墨所能形容
于是林克莱特问他说：
“为什么你要这么做?”
小孩的答案透露了这个孩子真挚的想法：
“我要去拿燃料
我还要 回来”
启示：
这就是“听的艺术”
一是听话不要听一半
二是不要把自己的意思
投射到别人所说的话上头
要学会聆听
用心听、虚心听
【4】
有两个和尚
他们分别住在相邻的两座山上的庙里
这两座山之间有一条溪
于是这两个和尚每天都会在同一时间下山去溪边挑水
久而久之他么变成为了好朋友
就 这样时间在每天挑水中
不知不觉已经过了五年
突然有一天
左边这座山的和尚没有下山挑水
右边那座山的和尚心想：
“他大概睡过头了”
便不以为意
哪知道第二天
左边这座山的和尚还是没有下山挑水
第三天也一样
过了一个星期还是一样
直到过了一个月右边那座山的和尚终于受不了
他心想：
“我的朋友可能生病 了
我要过去拜访他
看看能帮上什么忙”
于是他便爬上了左边这座山去探望他的老朋友
等他到了左边这座山的庙
看到他的老友之后大吃一惊
因为他的老 友正在庙前打太极拳
一点也不像一个月没喝水的人
他很好奇地问：
“你已经一个月没有下山挑水了
难道你可以不用喝水吗?”
左边这座山的和尚说：
“来来 来..
我带你去看”
于是他带着右边那座山的和尚走到庙的后院
指着一口井说：
“这五年来
我每天做完功课后都会抽空挖这口井
即使有时很忙..
能挖多少就算 多少
如今终于让我挖出井水
我就不用再下山挑水
我可以有更多时间练我喜欢的太极拳”
启示：
我们在公司领的薪水再多
那都是挑水
而把握下班后的时间挖一口属于自己的井
培养自己另一方面的实力
未来当我们年纪大了
体力拼不过年轻人了
依然还是有水喝
而且还能喝得很悠闲
【5】
有两个人相约到山上去寻找精美的石头
甲背了满满的一筐
乙的筐里只有一个他认为是最精美的石头
甲就笑乙：
“你为什么只挑一个啊?”
乙 说：
“漂亮的石头虽然多
但我只选一个最精美的就够了”
甲笑而不语
下山的路上
甲感到负担越来越重
最后不得已不断地从一筐的石头中挑一个最差的扔 下
到下山的时候他的筐里结果只剩下一个石头
启示：
人生中会有许多的东西值得留恋
有的时候你应该学会去放弃
【6】
有一家牙膏厂
产品优良、包装精美
受到顾客的喜爱
营业额连续10年递增
每年的增长率在10％～20％
可到了第11年
业绩停滞下来
以后两年也如此
公司经理召开高级会议、商讨对策
会议中..
公司总裁许诺说：
谁能想出解决问题的办法
让公司的业绩增长
重奖10万元
有位年轻经理站起 来
递给总裁一张纸条
总裁看完后
马上签了一张10万元的支票给了这位经理
那张纸条上写着：
将现在牙膏开口扩大1毫米
消费者每天早晨挤出同样长度的 牙膏
开口扩大了1毫米
每个消费者就多用1毫米宽的牙膏
每天的消费量将多出多少呢..
公司立即更改包装
第14年
公司的营业额增加了32％
启示：
面对生活中的变化
我们常常习惯过去的思维方法
其实只要你把心径扩大1毫米
你就会看到生活中的变化都有它积极的一面
充满了机遇和挑战
【7】
一只火鸡和一头牛闲聊
火鸡说：
我希望能飞到树顶
可我没有勇气
牛说：
为什么不吃一点我的牛粪呢?
他们很有营养
火鸡吃了一点牛粪
发现它 确实给了它足够的力量飞到第一根树枝
第二天
火鸡又吃了更多的牛粪
飞到第二根树枝
两个星期后
火鸡骄傲的飞到了树顶
但不久..
一个农夫看到了它
迅 速的把它从树上射了下来
启示：
牛屎运让你达到顶峰
但不能让你留在那里
【8】
乌鸦站在树上
整天无所事事
兔子看见乌鸦就问：
我能像你一样
整天什么事都不用干吗?
乌鸦说：
当然..
有什么不可以呢?
于是兔子在树下的空地上开始休息
忽然一只狐狸出现了
它跳起来抓住兔子把它吞了下去
启示：
如果你想站着什么事都不做
那你必须站的很高、非常高
【9】
一只小鸟飞到南方去过冬
天很冷..
小鸟几乎冻僵了
于是飞到一大块空地上
一头牛经过那儿
拉了一堆牛粪在小鸟的身上
冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆 里觉得很温暖
渐渐苏醒过来
它温暖而舒服的躺着
不久唱起歌来..
一只路过的野猫听到声音
走过去看个究竟
循着声音
野猫很快发现了躺在粪堆里的小 鸟
把它拽出来吃掉了
启示：
不是每个往你身上拉大粪的人都是你的敌人
也不是每个把你从粪堆里拉出来的人都是你的朋友
还有..
当你躺在粪堆里时
最好把你的嘴闭上
【10】
李嘉诚【名言】
1. 不敢说一定没有命运，但假如一件事在天时、地利、人和等方面皆相背时，
那肯定不会成功。若我们贸然去做，失败时便埋怨命运，这是不对的。
2、与新老朋友相交时，都要诚实可靠，避免说大话。
要说到做到，不放空炮，做不到的寧可不说。
3、你要相信世界上每一个人都精明，要令人信服并喜欢和你交往，那才最重要。
4、即使本来有一百的力量足以成事，但我要储足二百的力量去攻，
而不是随便去赌一赌。
5、一般而言，我对那些默默无闻，但做一些对人类有实际贡献的事情的人，
都心存景仰，我很喜欢看关於那些人物的书。
无论在医疗、政治、教育、福利哪一方面，对全人类有所帮助的人，我都很佩服。
6、人才取之不尽，用之不竭。你对人好，人家对你好是很自然的，
世界上任何人也都可以成为你的核心人物。
7、知人善任，大多数人都会有部分的长处，部分的短处，
各尽所能，各得所需，以量才而用为原则。
8、做人最要紧的，是让人由衷地喜欢你，敬佩你本人，
而不是你的财力，也不是表面上的服从。
9、决定一件事时，事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚，当决定后，就勇往直前去做。
10、在剧烈的竞争当中多付出一点，便可多赢一点。
就像参加奥运会一样，你看一、二、三名，跑第一的往往只是快了那麼一点点。
11、人生自有其沉浮，每个人都应该学会忍受生活中属於自己的一份悲伤。只有这样，你才能体会到什麼叫做成功，什麼叫做真正的幸福。
12、苦难的生活，是我人生的最好锻炼，尤其是做推销员，使我学会了不少东西，明白了不少事理。所有这些，是我今天10亿、100亿也买不到的。
13、在事业上谋求成功，没有什麼绝对的公式。但如果能依赖某些原则的话，能将成功的希望提高很多。
14、人们讚誉我是超人，其实我并非天生就是优秀的经营者。到现在我只敢说经营得还可以，我是经歷了很多挫折和磨难之后，才领会了一些经营的要诀。
15、每一次新的商机的到来，都会造就一批富翁，每一批富翁的造就就是： 当别人不明白的时候，他明白他在做什麼； 当别人不理解的时候，他理解他在做什麼。 当别人明白了，他富有了； 当别人理解了，他成功了。
16、决定一件事时，事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚，当决定后，就勇往直前去做，不必再有丝毫犹豫，竞争既搏命，更是斗智斗勇。倘若连这点勇气都没有，谈何在商场立脚，超越置地？
17、我老是在说一句话，亲人并不一定就是亲信。 一个人你要跟他相处，日子久了，你觉得他的思路跟你一样是正面的，那你就应该可以信任他；你交给他的每一项重要工作，他都会做，这个人就可以做你的亲信。
18、世情才是学问。世界上每一个人都精明，要令大家信服并喜欢不容易！
19、在20岁前，事业上的成果百分之百靠双手勤劳换来；20岁至30岁之前，事业已有些小基础，那10年的成功，10%靠运气好，90%仍是由勤劳得来；之后，机会的比例也渐渐提高；到现在，运气已差不多要占三至四成了。
那肯定不会成功。若我们贸然去做，失败时便埋怨命运，这是不对的。
2、与新老朋友相交时，都要诚实可靠，避免说大话。
要说到做到，不放空炮，做不到的寧可不说。
3、你要相信世界上每一个人都精明，要令人信服并喜欢和你交往，那才最重要。
4、即使本来有一百的力量足以成事，但我要储足二百的力量去攻，
而不是随便去赌一赌。
5、一般而言，我对那些默默无闻，但做一些对人类有实际贡献的事情的人，
都心存景仰，我很喜欢看关於那些人物的书。
无论在医疗、政治、教育、福利哪一方面，对全人类有所帮助的人，我都很佩服。
6、人才取之不尽，用之不竭。你对人好，人家对你好是很自然的，
世界上任何人也都可以成为你的核心人物。
7、知人善任，大多数人都会有部分的长处，部分的短处，
各尽所能，各得所需，以量才而用为原则。
8、做人最要紧的，是让人由衷地喜欢你，敬佩你本人，
而不是你的财力，也不是表面上的服从。
9、决定一件事时，事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚，当决定后，就勇往直前去做。
10、在剧烈的竞争当中多付出一点，便可多赢一点。
就像参加奥运会一样，你看一、二、三名，跑第一的往往只是快了那麼一点点。
11、人生自有其沉浮，每个人都应该学会忍受生活中属於自己的一份悲伤。只有这样，你才能体会到什麼叫做成功，什麼叫做真正的幸福。
12、苦难的生活，是我人生的最好锻炼，尤其是做推销员，使我学会了不少东西，明白了不少事理。所有这些，是我今天10亿、100亿也买不到的。
13、在事业上谋求成功，没有什麼绝对的公式。但如果能依赖某些原则的话，能将成功的希望提高很多。
14、人们讚誉我是超人，其实我并非天生就是优秀的经营者。到现在我只敢说经营得还可以，我是经歷了很多挫折和磨难之后，才领会了一些经营的要诀。
15、每一次新的商机的到来，都会造就一批富翁，每一批富翁的造就就是： 当别人不明白的时候，他明白他在做什麼； 当别人不理解的时候，他理解他在做什麼。 当别人明白了，他富有了； 当别人理解了，他成功了。
16、决定一件事时，事先都会小心谨慎研究清楚，当决定后，就勇往直前去做，不必再有丝毫犹豫，竞争既搏命，更是斗智斗勇。倘若连这点勇气都没有，谈何在商场立脚，超越置地？
17、我老是在说一句话，亲人并不一定就是亲信。 一个人你要跟他相处，日子久了，你觉得他的思路跟你一样是正面的，那你就应该可以信任他；你交给他的每一项重要工作，他都会做，这个人就可以做你的亲信。
18、世情才是学问。世界上每一个人都精明，要令大家信服并喜欢不容易！
19、在20岁前，事业上的成果百分之百靠双手勤劳换来；20岁至30岁之前，事业已有些小基础，那10年的成功，10%靠运气好，90%仍是由勤劳得来；之后，机会的比例也渐渐提高；到现在，运气已差不多要占三至四成了。
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
the world is as good as you see it is.
If you focus on the bad, you will see a 'bad' world. If you focus on the good, you will see goodness. Choose your focus carefully.
in order to move forward you must open yourself to new experiences.
There is no failing, only results. Be courageous and push yourself to new heights. Besides, what is going to happen if you make a bad decision? - You will learn from it. The more results you make, the faster you will reach your destination.
together we are strong.
When you join your hearts and prayers and intentions with the hearts and prayers and intentions of others, almost anything becomes possible.
most important decisions are not to be made with the mind; they are to be made with the heart.
So when you have an important decision to make, check in with how you feel, not how you think.
you can find meaning in the storm.
At times everyone goes through trials and tribulations. Seek out someone else in a similar situation and give them an encouragement or just a hug. Find meaning in the midst of your struggles by helping another in similar straits.
when you notice the beauty and the goodness in the world, then the evils and catastrophes, the greed and the wars will not be as overwhelming.
Hold fast to your faith. Believe in goodness. Believe in God.
the life you are having is the life you are creating.
Even when this seems paradoxical on the surface, - how could you ever possibly want anything but happiness, - on a deeper level, there is something in you that is making it so. To transform your life you first must understand what is keeping it the way it is.
If you focus on the bad, you will see a 'bad' world. If you focus on the good, you will see goodness. Choose your focus carefully.
in order to move forward you must open yourself to new experiences.
There is no failing, only results. Be courageous and push yourself to new heights. Besides, what is going to happen if you make a bad decision? - You will learn from it. The more results you make, the faster you will reach your destination.
together we are strong.
When you join your hearts and prayers and intentions with the hearts and prayers and intentions of others, almost anything becomes possible.
most important decisions are not to be made with the mind; they are to be made with the heart.
So when you have an important decision to make, check in with how you feel, not how you think.
you can find meaning in the storm.
At times everyone goes through trials and tribulations. Seek out someone else in a similar situation and give them an encouragement or just a hug. Find meaning in the midst of your struggles by helping another in similar straits.
when you notice the beauty and the goodness in the world, then the evils and catastrophes, the greed and the wars will not be as overwhelming.
Hold fast to your faith. Believe in goodness. Believe in God.
the life you are having is the life you are creating.
Even when this seems paradoxical on the surface, - how could you ever possibly want anything but happiness, - on a deeper level, there is something in you that is making it so. To transform your life you first must understand what is keeping it the way it is.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Five things that will ruin your relationship
If you don’t want your relationship to die, then don’t steer clear of these things
There are plenty of things that couples will argue over, and they range from the petty things that aren’t worth arguing about, to arguments that will ruin your relationship. While there are some things that will simply rock the boat, we present here are some things that will, without a doublt, wreck your relationship.
Cyber snooping
Dating has changed forever thanks to the social websites that have launched over the past few years and many couples are guilty of snooping on their partner. Photos become incriminating, jealousy rears its head due to possible hints of betrayal adding fuel to the fire which can potentially ruin a relationship. Email accounts are also ‘hacked’ into in search of guilty material. Don’t let curiosity get the better of you as karma is likely to ruin your relationship.
Adding a third person
Even if it is something you both agree to, in most cases it will likely see you relationship slowly breakdown. Sex involves bonding and emotions and involving another person will almost certainly fuel jealous feelings, insecure questions and doubt. It’s a recipe for disaster and is unlikely to make your relationship stronger; in fact quite the opposite.
Job
Many people dedicate themselves to their jobs and work long hours. It all about commitment to the job and career you are developing. However, relationships can get swept to the side when work becomes a person’s main priority and while there is nothing wrong with that, if you are in a relationship, you also need to make sure you don’t neglect it. You need to make sure you put enough quality time into your relationship so the other person doesn’t feel neglected.
Having a past
A person’s relationship history is something that many couples argue over. It usually involves exs, but everyone has a relationship past. Unless they have given you reason to think that they maybe disloyal or that the ex may have other intents, then them being in contact doesn’t mean he wants to be back with her. It just shows that the break up was dealt with in a civilised manner.
Revealing your fantasy – sizzle or fizzle?
While sexual fantasies are normal, it can be like opening Pandora’s Box when they are revealed. It can make the other person judge them or it can spice up a sex life that is stuck in a rut so it is best to reveal your inner thoughts cautiously. Revealing fantasies about other people is only going to spark jealousy and arguments and the refusal to accept a fantasy is likely to make your relationship flame fizzle or sizzle out causing divide.
There are plenty of things that couples will argue over, and they range from the petty things that aren’t worth arguing about, to arguments that will ruin your relationship. While there are some things that will simply rock the boat, we present here are some things that will, without a doublt, wreck your relationship.
Cyber snooping
Dating has changed forever thanks to the social websites that have launched over the past few years and many couples are guilty of snooping on their partner. Photos become incriminating, jealousy rears its head due to possible hints of betrayal adding fuel to the fire which can potentially ruin a relationship. Email accounts are also ‘hacked’ into in search of guilty material. Don’t let curiosity get the better of you as karma is likely to ruin your relationship.
Adding a third person
Even if it is something you both agree to, in most cases it will likely see you relationship slowly breakdown. Sex involves bonding and emotions and involving another person will almost certainly fuel jealous feelings, insecure questions and doubt. It’s a recipe for disaster and is unlikely to make your relationship stronger; in fact quite the opposite.
Job
Many people dedicate themselves to their jobs and work long hours. It all about commitment to the job and career you are developing. However, relationships can get swept to the side when work becomes a person’s main priority and while there is nothing wrong with that, if you are in a relationship, you also need to make sure you don’t neglect it. You need to make sure you put enough quality time into your relationship so the other person doesn’t feel neglected.
Having a past
A person’s relationship history is something that many couples argue over. It usually involves exs, but everyone has a relationship past. Unless they have given you reason to think that they maybe disloyal or that the ex may have other intents, then them being in contact doesn’t mean he wants to be back with her. It just shows that the break up was dealt with in a civilised manner.
Revealing your fantasy – sizzle or fizzle?
While sexual fantasies are normal, it can be like opening Pandora’s Box when they are revealed. It can make the other person judge them or it can spice up a sex life that is stuck in a rut so it is best to reveal your inner thoughts cautiously. Revealing fantasies about other people is only going to spark jealousy and arguments and the refusal to accept a fantasy is likely to make your relationship flame fizzle or sizzle out causing divide.
Quotes that Celebrate Inner Beauty
A Beautiful Heart
"Our hearts are drunk with a beauty our eyes could never see."
-George W. Russell
The Light of Beauty
"Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart."
-Kahlil Gibran
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Beautiful Mind
"Beauty comes as much from the mind as from the eye."
-Grey Livingston
Everything Has Beauty
"Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it."
Heart Full of Beauty
"Beauty...when you look into a woman's eyes and see what is in her heart."
-Nate Dircks
A Beautiful Soul
"You can take no credit for beauty at sixteen. But if you are beautiful at sixty, it will be your souls own doing."
-Marie Stopes
A Beautiful Personality
"It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
True Inner Beauty
“It's beauty a kind of radiance. People who possess a true inner beauty, their eyes are a little brighter, their skin a little more dewy. They vibrate at a different frequency.”
-Cameron Diaz
Beauty Isn't Physical
"Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical."
-Sophia Loren
Revealing Your Beauty
"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."
-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Everlasting Beauty
"Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty - they merely move it from their faces into their hearts."
- Martin Buxbaum
You Determine Your Beauty
"It took me a long time to not judge myself, through someone else's eyes."
-Sally Fields
Beauty's In Your Character
"Character contributes to beauty. It fortifies a woman as her youth fades. A mode of conduct, a standard of courage, discipline, fortitude, and integrity can do a great deal to make a woman beautiful."
-Anonymous
Untouchable Beauty
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched ... but are felt in the heart."
-Helen Keller
Recipe For Beauty
"The recipe for beauty is to have less illusion and more Soul, to retreat from the belief of pain or pleasure in the body into the unchanging calm and glorious freedom of spiritual harmony."
- Mary Baker Eddy
The Heart of Life
"When you reach the heart of life you shall find beauty in all things, even in the eyes that are blind to beauty."
-Kahlil Gibran
Love Makes You Beautiful
“The most important thing I teach my kids is that you can’t put your value in looks. Presence is based upon magnitude. You can pretend to have an air about you but it is quickly deflated, but you cannot deflate presence. Presence walks into a room and surrounds and fills anything that’s in that room without trying to demand it, it takes it. It can come from a smile. Like I said, love makes you beautiful. What is beautiful radiates. “
-Terrence Howard
The Best Cosmetic
"Taking joy in living is a woman's best cosmetic."
-Rosalind Russell
"A person is only beautiful, when their own beauty is reflecting on to others."
Tara Grady
Beauty Starts the Race
“Your beauty may get you to the start of the race, but it takes more to get you to the finish line”
- D. Smith
A Six Letter Word
"Beauty: A six letter word that makes people crazy. The only beauty there is, is what is on the inside. Don't make yourself feel bad if you don't like what you see. Look deeper and that is all you need. The outside is secondary no matter what anyone says."
-Anonymous
Personality Outshines Beauty
"It is beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
Value Your Inner Beauty
“Believe yourself, value your inner beauty and be open to opportunities.”
-Chelsea Cooley
"Our hearts are drunk with a beauty our eyes could never see."
-George W. Russell
The Light of Beauty
"Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart."
-Kahlil Gibran
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Good Is Always Beautiful
"That which is striking and beautiful is not always good, but that which is good is always beautiful."
-Ninon de L'Enclos
Beautiful Mind
"Beauty comes as much from the mind as from the eye."
-Grey Livingston
Everything Has Beauty
"Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it."
Heart Full of Beauty
"Beauty...when you look into a woman's eyes and see what is in her heart."
-Nate Dircks
A Beautiful Soul
"You can take no credit for beauty at sixteen. But if you are beautiful at sixty, it will be your souls own doing."
-Marie Stopes
A Beautiful Personality
"It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
True Inner Beauty
“It's beauty a kind of radiance. People who possess a true inner beauty, their eyes are a little brighter, their skin a little more dewy. They vibrate at a different frequency.”
-Cameron Diaz
Beauty Isn't Physical
"Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical."
-Sophia Loren
Revealing Your Beauty
"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."
-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Everlasting Beauty
"Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty - they merely move it from their faces into their hearts."
- Martin Buxbaum
You Determine Your Beauty
"It took me a long time to not judge myself, through someone else's eyes."
-Sally Fields
Beauty's In Your Character
"Character contributes to beauty. It fortifies a woman as her youth fades. A mode of conduct, a standard of courage, discipline, fortitude, and integrity can do a great deal to make a woman beautiful."
-Anonymous
Untouchable Beauty
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched ... but are felt in the heart."
-Helen Keller
Recipe For Beauty
"The recipe for beauty is to have less illusion and more Soul, to retreat from the belief of pain or pleasure in the body into the unchanging calm and glorious freedom of spiritual harmony."
- Mary Baker Eddy
The Heart of Life
"When you reach the heart of life you shall find beauty in all things, even in the eyes that are blind to beauty."
-Kahlil Gibran
Love Makes You Beautiful
“The most important thing I teach my kids is that you can’t put your value in looks. Presence is based upon magnitude. You can pretend to have an air about you but it is quickly deflated, but you cannot deflate presence. Presence walks into a room and surrounds and fills anything that’s in that room without trying to demand it, it takes it. It can come from a smile. Like I said, love makes you beautiful. What is beautiful radiates. “
-Terrence Howard
The Best Cosmetic
"Taking joy in living is a woman's best cosmetic."
-Rosalind Russell
"A person is only beautiful, when their own beauty is reflecting on to others."
Tara Grady
Beauty Starts the Race
“Your beauty may get you to the start of the race, but it takes more to get you to the finish line”
- D. Smith
A Six Letter Word
"Beauty: A six letter word that makes people crazy. The only beauty there is, is what is on the inside. Don't make yourself feel bad if you don't like what you see. Look deeper and that is all you need. The outside is secondary no matter what anyone says."
-Anonymous
Personality Outshines Beauty
"It is beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
-Anonymous
Value Your Inner Beauty
“Believe yourself, value your inner beauty and be open to opportunities.”
-Chelsea Cooley
The sins of friendship Avoid breaking these rules of friendship
Friendships come and go throughout our lives and while there are some that will take a back seat, there are others that can be like a rock to you. Friendships are delicate, easily ruined and can be taken for granted by many. Like any relationship, they need to be nurtured and there are some unwritten ‘rules’ that most abide by to ensure they don’t damage their relationship with their friends. We take a look at some of the cardinal rules of friendship and the sins that shouldn’t be committed.
Some people can’t help but to gossip. It isn’t a particularly attractive trait if it is negative talk, but it can be all too easy to get caught up in it. Gossiping about a friend, especially about something personal you have been told in confidence, is usually toxic to the friendship can dissolve the trust. You are likely to tarnish your name and friends will slowly lose confidence in you.
Letting a friend down, particularly when they need you the most can cause damage to a friendship, especially if it is a reoccurring thing. It conjures feeling of disappointment and friends will begin see you as unreliable and that the friendship is a one way street which only benefits you. There are plenty of ways to let a friend down from not showing up, revealing a secret or saying you’ll do something then don’t.
This is a difficult one, often riddled with problems leading to the end of a friendship with social consequences. If it is something you are considering for whatever reason then you need to take your friends feelings into serious account and find out how they would feel about it. Talk with them. They may be happy, have moved and give you their blessing, but make sure you think what your morals are and how you’d feel in the reverse situation.
Everyone gets jealous from time to time, and it can be due to all sorts of things, but the green eyed monster can be a destructive characteristic to have and will ruin friendship if it isn’t kept in check. It is unhealthy and can lead to animosity and even hate. You need to be happy with who you are and what you have in order to stop being jealous of others.
As humans we tend to judge people, whether it is first impressions, what someone wears or on their behaviour. Try to avoid judging your friends and respect their choices whether it is something they, wear or even their other half. You can offer your advice when asked for it, but judgment is a form of criticism and can drive your friends away. Be careful in agreeing to others judgments also.
Always remember the value that good friends bring to your life and when things are tough they can be invaluable. They provide comfort; support, encouragement and good times and many of us are guilty of not putting enough time in to nurture them.
Some people can’t help but to gossip. It isn’t a particularly attractive trait if it is negative talk, but it can be all too easy to get caught up in it. Gossiping about a friend, especially about something personal you have been told in confidence, is usually toxic to the friendship can dissolve the trust. You are likely to tarnish your name and friends will slowly lose confidence in you.
Letting a friend down, particularly when they need you the most can cause damage to a friendship, especially if it is a reoccurring thing. It conjures feeling of disappointment and friends will begin see you as unreliable and that the friendship is a one way street which only benefits you. There are plenty of ways to let a friend down from not showing up, revealing a secret or saying you’ll do something then don’t.
This is a difficult one, often riddled with problems leading to the end of a friendship with social consequences. If it is something you are considering for whatever reason then you need to take your friends feelings into serious account and find out how they would feel about it. Talk with them. They may be happy, have moved and give you their blessing, but make sure you think what your morals are and how you’d feel in the reverse situation.
Everyone gets jealous from time to time, and it can be due to all sorts of things, but the green eyed monster can be a destructive characteristic to have and will ruin friendship if it isn’t kept in check. It is unhealthy and can lead to animosity and even hate. You need to be happy with who you are and what you have in order to stop being jealous of others.
As humans we tend to judge people, whether it is first impressions, what someone wears or on their behaviour. Try to avoid judging your friends and respect their choices whether it is something they, wear or even their other half. You can offer your advice when asked for it, but judgment is a form of criticism and can drive your friends away. Be careful in agreeing to others judgments also.
Always remember the value that good friends bring to your life and when things are tough they can be invaluable. They provide comfort; support, encouragement and good times and many of us are guilty of not putting enough time in to nurture them.
Essential friends 7 BFFs that you should have in your life
Good friends are an important feature in our lives. Not only are they there for us when we need them, but they are also good for your health. While there are times when friends can let you down or you drift apart over the years, there are some friends that women should have through their lives. We take a look at the essential friends woman should have and the richness and benefits they bring to your life.
A friend who you have known since childhood and have a history with is a great asset to you. They know everything about you and have been by your side all these years. Most people drift apart from their childhood friends for an array of reasons, but when it comes to reminiscing about ‘the good old days’, there is nobody better to do this with.
A friend that you can go to when you need advice and will be 100 per cent honest with you is also invaluable. They’ll tell you the truth, but not out of malice, but because they genuinely care about you. If you go to them with something you don’t want others to know, but need advice, you are assured that they won’t tell a soul.
Whether you want to unwind from stress or just go out and have a good time, you know you can count on this girl for entertainment. She is the sociable one who always knows where to go that best suits a situation or a person’s mood and they are guaranteed to have an amusing time. She is spontaneous, has a sense of fun and allows you to let your hair down without being judged.
It’s important to have someone at work that you are close to, to have as an ally and is someone there when you need to moan about your workload or can reassure you when the going gets tough. Resent research has also found that having close friends in the office can improve your health and add years to your life.
This is the friend that you see once or twice a week as you’ve joined a class or gym together. You help to keep each other motivated, because let’s be honest, you’d both rather be elsewhere, but you’ll have more success when you have someone to push you. You wouldn’t skip the work out because you wouldn’t want to let her down and vice versa.
Some people will say that there is no such thing as a platonic friendship between the opposite sex, which is ridiculous. Who says you can’t be friends with a guy as not every relationship is full of lust and romance. He’ll watch out for you like a brother and will give you advice from a male perspective.
Then there is the guy which you know you can always have a good flirt with, and vice versa without being offended. There ‘is nothing’ between the two of you and never will be, but you both know its fun to flirt, pander to each other and shower compliments and innuendos back and forth.
A friend who you have known since childhood and have a history with is a great asset to you. They know everything about you and have been by your side all these years. Most people drift apart from their childhood friends for an array of reasons, but when it comes to reminiscing about ‘the good old days’, there is nobody better to do this with.
A friend that you can go to when you need advice and will be 100 per cent honest with you is also invaluable. They’ll tell you the truth, but not out of malice, but because they genuinely care about you. If you go to them with something you don’t want others to know, but need advice, you are assured that they won’t tell a soul.
Whether you want to unwind from stress or just go out and have a good time, you know you can count on this girl for entertainment. She is the sociable one who always knows where to go that best suits a situation or a person’s mood and they are guaranteed to have an amusing time. She is spontaneous, has a sense of fun and allows you to let your hair down without being judged.
It’s important to have someone at work that you are close to, to have as an ally and is someone there when you need to moan about your workload or can reassure you when the going gets tough. Resent research has also found that having close friends in the office can improve your health and add years to your life.
This is the friend that you see once or twice a week as you’ve joined a class or gym together. You help to keep each other motivated, because let’s be honest, you’d both rather be elsewhere, but you’ll have more success when you have someone to push you. You wouldn’t skip the work out because you wouldn’t want to let her down and vice versa.
Some people will say that there is no such thing as a platonic friendship between the opposite sex, which is ridiculous. Who says you can’t be friends with a guy as not every relationship is full of lust and romance. He’ll watch out for you like a brother and will give you advice from a male perspective.
Then there is the guy which you know you can always have a good flirt with, and vice versa without being offended. There ‘is nothing’ between the two of you and never will be, but you both know its fun to flirt, pander to each other and shower compliments and innuendos back and forth.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
MLM
http://www.mlmsuccesstrainingsite.com/?t=blog article
http://simple2catch.com/yy.php?11=1haf8msvchristian.h7A5M.H5P.0c302
http://www.hugedomains.com/
http://www.monavieinternational.com/Web/MY/en/monavie_original.dhtml
Social networkings
tagged.com
netlog
wordpress
hi5
Investments
http://cforum5.cari.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=1406783&extra=page%3D1&page=1
Beliefnets
http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/2009/06/Self-Confidence-Quotes.aspx?p=15
Poems
http://www.passionup.com/love-poems/poetry4063.htm?e=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&f=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&h=ef2df2b09c1ef068
http://www.mlmsuccesstrainingsite.com/?t=blog article
http://simple2catch.com/yy.php?11=1haf8msvchristian.h7A5M.H5P.0c302
http://www.hugedomains.com/
http://www.monavieinternational.com/Web/MY/en/monavie_original.dhtml
Social networkings
tagged.com
netlog
wordpress
hi5
Investments
http://cforum5.cari.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=1406783&extra=page%3D1&page=1
Beliefnets
http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/2009/06/Self-Confidence-Quotes.aspx?p=15
Poems
http://www.passionup.com/love-poems/poetry4063.htm?e=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&f=carol%252dtin%2538%2539%2540hotmail%252ecom&h=ef2df2b09c1ef068
this human form is temporary.
Enjoy playing the game, even be serious about it if you wish, but do not get so attached to this form that you forget who you truly are - the fruit of God's love.
there is a time for birth.
What is within you crying out to be birthed into the world right now? What talent do you have that is ready to be used? What project have you been endlessly thinking about that is ready to be birthed into physical reality? And what dreams do you have for this precious planet? God can help midwife your dreams.
you influence those around you.
Think well about the seeds you are planting as you influence the people around you every day. You can plant seeds of impatience, fear, and frustration, or of love, contentment, and faith. It's up to you!
the quality of life is a result of many small actions.
It's not New Year resolutions, nor big promises that make or break life, it's the innumerable small actions you take every hour that compound into a life well lived. Look at how you are living moment to moment to know whether at the end of your life you will be looking back with pride or sorrow.
when you strike out, you always strike in.
Any weapon you use to strike, - clenched hand, angry voice, closed heart withholding love, - is double-sided with one edge always cutting deep into yourself. Sometimes a weapon is necessary, but use it wisely, - and remember that the cost of using one are your own wounds.
Enjoy playing the game, even be serious about it if you wish, but do not get so attached to this form that you forget who you truly are - the fruit of God's love.
there is a time for birth.
What is within you crying out to be birthed into the world right now? What talent do you have that is ready to be used? What project have you been endlessly thinking about that is ready to be birthed into physical reality? And what dreams do you have for this precious planet? God can help midwife your dreams.
you influence those around you.
Think well about the seeds you are planting as you influence the people around you every day. You can plant seeds of impatience, fear, and frustration, or of love, contentment, and faith. It's up to you!
the quality of life is a result of many small actions.
It's not New Year resolutions, nor big promises that make or break life, it's the innumerable small actions you take every hour that compound into a life well lived. Look at how you are living moment to moment to know whether at the end of your life you will be looking back with pride or sorrow.
when you strike out, you always strike in.
Any weapon you use to strike, - clenched hand, angry voice, closed heart withholding love, - is double-sided with one edge always cutting deep into yourself. Sometimes a weapon is necessary, but use it wisely, - and remember that the cost of using one are your own wounds.
Monday, June 20, 2011
These Holidays
how i past my holidays? > than 5 weeks~
last week in hostel.
tis week in aunty's house
next 2 weeks back home. hehe ...............
last week in hostel.
tis week in aunty's house
next 2 weeks back home. hehe ...............
Thursday, June 16, 2011
20 Words to Change Your Life
BEGIN
Take charge of your life by beginning something you've always wanted to do. If your goal seems overwhelming, start small.
IMAGINE
Your imagination has no boundaries..."dreaming about something is the first step toward achieving it."
LAUGH
"Laughter is a direct route to the soul. It broadens your perspective, keeps you healthy, and makes an unbearable situation easier to deal with."
BELIEVE
Set your mind to predict success. Tell yourself you WILL succeed at whatever you're doing at the moment.
SEEK
Allow yourself to grow by exposing your vulnerability and insecurity.
Don't live strictly inside your comfort zone- don't always play it safe.
PLAY
We can always find something that "needs to be done" and we forget how to have fun. Make a conscious effort to take time off- you'll feel refreshed & able to think more clearly afterwards.
TRUST
"...being paralyzed by indecision is worse than making the wrong decision."
You can't grow if you don't trust your inner voice.
LISTEN
Try listening carefully to the other person's point of view first,
without being preoccupied or distracted.
You'll really hear what is being said and the other person is more likely to pay attention to your views.
CREATE
Creativity maintains the balance in our lives. The more we use our creativity, the more it develops.
CONNECT
Relationships are what pull us through the hard times, and make the good times meaningful. Take time to nurture the connections that uplift you.
TOUCH
Humans need touch to survive and thrive. Don't forget to hug your loved ones.
Pat your friends on the back, literally and figuratively.
FORGIVE
Forgiveness is life- giving because it puts you in charge. You become empowered.
PRAY
"Prayer is asking God to transform the situation and become the heart of your life."
Take time each day to nurture this connection.
HOPE
"Hope is the knowledge that even in the worst of times we can triumph over hardship
and sorrow and grow in spirit." Hope is what sustains humanity.
CHOOSE
"We can't always choose our circumstances, but we can choose our attitudes towards them."
APPRECIATE
Admire the good in yourself and in those around you.
GIVE
Happiness involves giving freely to others and not necessarily wanting something in return.
READ
Reading removes boundaries.
WRITE
Words are freedom. Words are power.
RELEASE
Avoid doing something just because everyone thinks you should.
Give yourself permission to relax.
Take charge of your life by beginning something you've always wanted to do. If your goal seems overwhelming, start small.
IMAGINE
Your imagination has no boundaries..."dreaming about something is the first step toward achieving it."
LAUGH
"Laughter is a direct route to the soul. It broadens your perspective, keeps you healthy, and makes an unbearable situation easier to deal with."
BELIEVE
Set your mind to predict success. Tell yourself you WILL succeed at whatever you're doing at the moment.
SEEK
Allow yourself to grow by exposing your vulnerability and insecurity.
Don't live strictly inside your comfort zone- don't always play it safe.
PLAY
We can always find something that "needs to be done" and we forget how to have fun. Make a conscious effort to take time off- you'll feel refreshed & able to think more clearly afterwards.
TRUST
"...being paralyzed by indecision is worse than making the wrong decision."
You can't grow if you don't trust your inner voice.
LISTEN
Try listening carefully to the other person's point of view first,
without being preoccupied or distracted.
You'll really hear what is being said and the other person is more likely to pay attention to your views.
CREATE
Creativity maintains the balance in our lives. The more we use our creativity, the more it develops.
CONNECT
Relationships are what pull us through the hard times, and make the good times meaningful. Take time to nurture the connections that uplift you.
TOUCH
Humans need touch to survive and thrive. Don't forget to hug your loved ones.
Pat your friends on the back, literally and figuratively.
FORGIVE
Forgiveness is life- giving because it puts you in charge. You become empowered.
PRAY
"Prayer is asking God to transform the situation and become the heart of your life."
Take time each day to nurture this connection.
HOPE
"Hope is the knowledge that even in the worst of times we can triumph over hardship
and sorrow and grow in spirit." Hope is what sustains humanity.
CHOOSE
"We can't always choose our circumstances, but we can choose our attitudes towards them."
APPRECIATE
Admire the good in yourself and in those around you.
GIVE
Happiness involves giving freely to others and not necessarily wanting something in return.
READ
Reading removes boundaries.
WRITE
Words are freedom. Words are power.
RELEASE
Avoid doing something just because everyone thinks you should.
Give yourself permission to relax.
The Lion King -"Circle of Life"
From the day we arrive on the planet
And blinking, step into the sun
There's more to see than can ever be seen
More to do than can ever be done
There's far too much to take in here
More to find than can ever be found
But the sun rolling high
Through the sapphire sky
Keeps great and small on the endless round
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
And blinking, step into the sun
There's more to see than can ever be seen
More to do than can ever be done
There's far too much to take in here
More to find than can ever be found
But the sun rolling high
Through the sapphire sky
Keeps great and small on the endless round
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
It's the Circle of Life
And it moves us all
Through despair and hope
Through faith and love
Till we find our place
On the path unwinding
In the Circle
The Circle of Life
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
关于讲信誉的名言警句
言不信者，行不果 ————墨子
民无信不立 ————孔子
没有诚实哪来尊严 ————西塞罗
真话说一半常是弥天大谎 ————富兰克林
诚者，天之道也；思诚者，人之道也 ————孟子
失信就是失败 ————左拉
真诚是一种心灵的开放 ————拉罗什富科
欺人只能一时，而诚信才是长久之策 ————约翰·雷
诚信是一枚凝重的砝码，放上它生命不再摇摆不定，天平立即稳稳地倾向一端。
诚信是一轮朗耀的明月，惟有与高处的皎洁对视，才能沉淀出对待生命的真正态度。
诚信是一道山巅的流水，能够洗尽浮华，洗尽躁动，洗尽虚假，留下启悟心灵的妙谛。
当信用消失的时候，肉体就没有生命 ————大仲马
如果要别人诚信，首先要自己诚信 ————莎士比亚
隐瞒真实，就是骗自己。
君子一言，驷马难追。
坦诚是最明智的策略。
一言九鼎。
一诺千金。
言而有信。
金口玉言。
君子说话，一言为定。
我要求别人诚实，我自己就得诚实。
两心不可以得一人，一心可得百人。 ————《淮南子·缪称训》
真诚才是人生最高的美德 ————乔叟
实话可能令人伤心，但胜过谎言 ————瓦·阿扎耶夫
在一切道德品质中，善良的本性是世界上最需要的 ————罗素
金钱比起一分纯洁的良心来，有算得了什么呢？ ————哈代
老老实实最能打动人心 ————莎士比亚
真诚与朴实是天才的宝贵品质 ————斯坦尼斯拉夫斯基
法治长城始于一砖一石，诚信文明凝聚一点一滴。
今天付出诚意，明天收获信誉。
出局才懂诚信重，进‘宫'方恨知法晚。
播种诚信，你收获的就不仅仅是朋友的信任，还有可以信任的朋友。
诚信是在衡量自我得失时失去的。
诚信缺失乃人性之莫大悲哀，共铸诚信不妨从小事做起；法治健全是国家的坚实基础，推进法治务必要领导带头。
诚信是社会的支撑点，法治是社会的生命灯。
诚信是你的存款，信用是你的抵押，名誉是你的帐号，承诺是你的支票，假如失去了诚信 ，你将是一无所有。
立身须以诚为本， 治国必以法为基。
诚信以心为上， 法治以公为魂。
诚取天地正气问人间暖凉,法引规矩方圆律世间万象。
诚信在心，法治在行。
不讲诚信者必被社会所弃， 以身试法者必受国法严惩。
诚信凝聚力量，法治诞生希望。
诚信法治两手抓，共铸辉煌齐万家。
诚信是立身之本，法治乃安国之源。
诚信，人生最珍贵的无形资产； 法治，人类社会进步的阶梯。
扬诚信风帆同度文明人生，树法制大旗共展和谐社会。
赏罚分明， 市场经济讲诚信假一罚十； 宽严适度，法制社会护稳定惩教结合 。
诚信是社会的通行证，法治是国家的座右铭。
诚信是现代文明的晴雨表。
诚信与高尚同行；法治与正义相伴。
诚信有法治保障才有号召力，法治有诚信支持才有生命力。
树诚信风尚，铸法治长城。
谎言浇不开诚信之花，虚伪结不出幸福之果。
行必诚，言必信；法必依，治必严。
无信则人危，无法则国乱。
你诚信我诚信人人有威信 ，讲法治护法治个个能自治。
诚信要靠法律维系，法律要靠诚信遵守。
社会是由诚信与法律组成的双轮车。
送东送西送出良心与理智，诚实诚信成就道德与文明。
信是为人之道， 法是强国之本。
心连心共筑诚信长城 ，手牵手齐建法制社会。
守法律己时时尽心报国，诚信待人处处竭力为民。
以诚待人，人人敬；以信办事，事事成。
诚信处世世界大，奸诈为人人格低。
没有诚信的坚强基石，法制便犹如是建在沙土上的高层建筑。
诚实是智慧之书的第一章。
个个互信，人人守法。
诚信走遍天下，法治和谐人间。
经常用诚信的尺子丈量自己，坚持以诚信的言行对待别人。
诚存人自乐,法正民自安。
法治与安定同在，诚信与文明共存。
手牵手，与法治同行；心连心，将诚信同铸。
倡导法治， 法治执根于社会;谋求诚信,诚信融汇于民心。
信用制度是市场经济的助推器和安全阀。
立警为公执法为民长霞精神耀神州，与时俱进诚信俱佳玉儒形象映中华。
做人要诚信，做事要守法。
用诚信美化心灵，用法治规范社会。
法纪为天平，岂容人情充筹码；诚信作准绳，不许利欲乱曲直。
经营有法有道，交往以信以诚 。
生命因诚信而美丽，生活因守法而精彩。
诚信不能只挂在嘴上，法律不能只写在纸上。
铸诚信，万事兴；严法治，国必强。
人人参与，共铸诚信；个个努力，推进法治。
以诚取信心灵美,依法循规事业兴。
做诚信之人， 铸法治之国。
虚假呈一时之得，诚信享一世之裕。
做人以诚信为本， 治市以法律为基。
诚信提升城市品位，法治推动文明进步。
欺诈只能得逞一时，诚信才能受益一生。
信达于诚，方能勤政。法精于治，方能谐民。
诚信缔造和谐社会，法治铸就平安生活。
人生百年以诚为贵，国家兴旺依法则灵。
诚信三冬暖，失信三伏寒 。
诚信展现人格魅力，法治推进社会文明。
诚信与责任同在，法治与发展共存 。
手拉手共铸诚信,心连心推进法制。
吹响诚信号角，高举法治大旗。
诚信是面镜子，时刻照射着我们身边的每一个人。
做人讲诚则灵，治国依法则兴。
诚信交得天下友，法治换得万家安。
法治造就和谐社会，诚信成就积极人生。
人无信不立， 国无法不安。
生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
崇尚诚信，华夏春风暖；推行法治，神州正气扬。
诚信不可无，贪念不可有；做人莫忘法，做事莫违法。
守信万里还嫌近，无信一寸步难行。
诚信塑人，法治兴邦。
切勿丢掉诚信，当你回过头再去捡它的时候，它已失去了原有的色彩！
谁如果失去了金钱，他只是失去了他能再次得到的东西，要是谁失去了诚信，他就会失去了他再也不会得到的东西。
1、 诚信是人最美丽的外套，是心灵最圣洁的鲜花。
2、 诚信是你价格不菲的鞋子，踏遍千山万水，质量也应永恒不变。
3、 诚信像一面镜子，一旦打破，你的人格就会出现裂痕。
4、 诚信是道路，随着开拓者的脚步延伸；诚信是智慧，随着博学者的求索积累；诚信是成功，随着奋进者的拼搏临近；诚信是财富的种子，只要你诚心种下，就能找到打开金库的钥匙。
5、 诚信是做人之根本，立业之基。
6、 创起诚信校园，树起诚信学风，成为诚信学子。
7、 诚信为本，学做真人。
8、 诚信为荣，失信可耻。
9、 最大限度的诚实是最好的处事之道。
10、 诚实守信是面明镜，不诚实的人在他面前，都会露出真相。
11、 没有诚实，何来尊严？
12、 诚实是上策。
13、 一切有成效的工作都是以某种诚信为先决条件。
14、 不诚则有累，诚则无累。
15、 诚信是沟通心灵的桥梁，善于欺骗的人，永远到不了桥的另一端。
16、 诚信，是一股清泉，它将洗去欺诈的肮脏，让世界的每一个角落都流淌着洁净。
17、 诚信，让心灵无瑕，让友谊长存，让世界美好！
18、 知识是财富，诚信也是一种财富，拥有知识能使你变得充实，拥有诚信能使世界变得更美好！
19、 诚，乃信之本；无诚，何以言信？诚而有信，方为人生．
20、 诚信，如一把钥匙，打开你我心中那扇门上的锁，让我们敞开心扉，沐浴那友谊的阳光。
21、 诚信，是人类文明的阶梯；诚信，是填补人类间隔的碎石。
22、 诚信是一种自我约束的品质，不是通过一篇文章或一句话就能检验得出的。
23、 诚信是人的本钱，没有诚信的人是一个失败者。
24、 诚信比一切智谋更好。
25、 诚信就像人身上不可缺的钙，没钙的还能算作人吗？
26、 诚信就像人生航船的楫桨，控制着人生的去向。
27、 诚信犹如一颗青涩的果，你咬一口，虽然很苦，却回味无穷，倘若你将它丢弃，便会终身遗憾！
28、 生活是需要诚信的，有了诚信才会有幸福可言。
29、 生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
30、 诚实是人生的命脉，是一切价值的根基。
31、 诚实是一种力量的象征，它显示着一个人的高度自重和内心的安全感与尊严感。
32、 如果要别人诚信，首先要自己诚信。
33、 失去了诚信，就等同于敌人毁灭了自己。
34、 诚实的人必须对自己守信，他的最后靠山就是真诚。
35、 诚信是人生之本。
36、 诚信者，受人爱戴尊敬也。
37、 诚信是友谊的必备条件。
38、 诚信，是一个人立足社会的先导。
39、 诚信是人生路途中的第一准则。
40、 诚信是一种美德，会让你更加完美。
41、 诚实守信是做人的根本，是世界上最美丽的花朵。
42、 诚实守信，快乐人生。
43、 诚信就是取之不尽、用之不竭的知识、金钱。
44、 诚信，世界需要你。
45、 诚信创造财富。
46、 不讲诚信的人，是可悲的、可怜的、可恨的，也是可怕的。
47、 只有种下诚信的苗，才能结出诚信的果。
48、 有其言，无其行，君子之耻也。
49、 给心灵一片净土，给诚信一片天地，人生的道路让我们与诚信同行。
50、 人如以诚信为本，就能塑造完美人生。
诚信格言摘录
1、内不欺己，外不欺人。 ———孔子
2、人而无信，不知其可也。 ———孔子
3、言必信，行必果。 ——子路
4、你必须以诚待人，别人才会以诚回报。 ———李嘉诚
5、诚实是人生永远最美好的品格。 ———高尔基
6、老老实实最能打动人心。 ———莎士比亚
7、没有一处遗产像诚实那样丰富的了。 ———莎士比亚
8、对自己的忠实，才不会对别人欺诈。 ———莎士比亚
9、诚实和勤勉应该成为你永久的伴侣。 ———本·富兰克林
10、 难听的实话胜过动听的谎言。 ———苏尤里·郁达列夫
11、 坦白使人心地轻松的妙药。 ———西塞罗
12、 即使开始时，怀有故意的人，只要自己抱有真实和诚实去接触，就一定能换来好意。
———日本 池田大作
13、 诚实是艺术的最大要素。只要我们总对自己诚实，艺术总在那里，它决不会让我们失望的。 ———柯尼利亚·奥提斯金约
14、 有所许诺，纤毫必偿。有所期约，时刻不易。 ———袁采
15、 诚实比一切智谋更好，而且它是智谋的基本条件。 ———康德
16、 要宣扬你的一切，不必用你的言语，要用你的本来面目。 ———卢梭
17、 忠诚的高尚和可敬，无与伦比。 ———裴多菲
18、 我们应该老老实实地办事。 ———毛泽东
19、 做老实人，说老实话，干老实事，就是实事求是。 ——— 邓小
民无信不立 ————孔子
没有诚实哪来尊严 ————西塞罗
真话说一半常是弥天大谎 ————富兰克林
诚者，天之道也；思诚者，人之道也 ————孟子
失信就是失败 ————左拉
真诚是一种心灵的开放 ————拉罗什富科
欺人只能一时，而诚信才是长久之策 ————约翰·雷
诚信是一枚凝重的砝码，放上它生命不再摇摆不定，天平立即稳稳地倾向一端。
诚信是一轮朗耀的明月，惟有与高处的皎洁对视，才能沉淀出对待生命的真正态度。
诚信是一道山巅的流水，能够洗尽浮华，洗尽躁动，洗尽虚假，留下启悟心灵的妙谛。
当信用消失的时候，肉体就没有生命 ————大仲马
如果要别人诚信，首先要自己诚信 ————莎士比亚
隐瞒真实，就是骗自己。
君子一言，驷马难追。
坦诚是最明智的策略。
一言九鼎。
一诺千金。
言而有信。
金口玉言。
君子说话，一言为定。
我要求别人诚实，我自己就得诚实。
两心不可以得一人，一心可得百人。 ————《淮南子·缪称训》
真诚才是人生最高的美德 ————乔叟
实话可能令人伤心，但胜过谎言 ————瓦·阿扎耶夫
在一切道德品质中，善良的本性是世界上最需要的 ————罗素
金钱比起一分纯洁的良心来，有算得了什么呢？ ————哈代
老老实实最能打动人心 ————莎士比亚
真诚与朴实是天才的宝贵品质 ————斯坦尼斯拉夫斯基
法治长城始于一砖一石，诚信文明凝聚一点一滴。
今天付出诚意，明天收获信誉。
出局才懂诚信重，进‘宫'方恨知法晚。
播种诚信，你收获的就不仅仅是朋友的信任，还有可以信任的朋友。
诚信是在衡量自我得失时失去的。
诚信缺失乃人性之莫大悲哀，共铸诚信不妨从小事做起；法治健全是国家的坚实基础，推进法治务必要领导带头。
诚信是社会的支撑点，法治是社会的生命灯。
诚信是你的存款，信用是你的抵押，名誉是你的帐号，承诺是你的支票，假如失去了诚信 ，你将是一无所有。
立身须以诚为本， 治国必以法为基。
诚信以心为上， 法治以公为魂。
诚取天地正气问人间暖凉,法引规矩方圆律世间万象。
诚信在心，法治在行。
不讲诚信者必被社会所弃， 以身试法者必受国法严惩。
诚信凝聚力量，法治诞生希望。
诚信法治两手抓，共铸辉煌齐万家。
诚信是立身之本，法治乃安国之源。
诚信，人生最珍贵的无形资产； 法治，人类社会进步的阶梯。
扬诚信风帆同度文明人生，树法制大旗共展和谐社会。
赏罚分明， 市场经济讲诚信假一罚十； 宽严适度，法制社会护稳定惩教结合 。
诚信是社会的通行证，法治是国家的座右铭。
诚信是现代文明的晴雨表。
诚信与高尚同行；法治与正义相伴。
诚信有法治保障才有号召力，法治有诚信支持才有生命力。
树诚信风尚，铸法治长城。
谎言浇不开诚信之花，虚伪结不出幸福之果。
行必诚，言必信；法必依，治必严。
无信则人危，无法则国乱。
你诚信我诚信人人有威信 ，讲法治护法治个个能自治。
诚信要靠法律维系，法律要靠诚信遵守。
社会是由诚信与法律组成的双轮车。
送东送西送出良心与理智，诚实诚信成就道德与文明。
信是为人之道， 法是强国之本。
心连心共筑诚信长城 ，手牵手齐建法制社会。
守法律己时时尽心报国，诚信待人处处竭力为民。
以诚待人，人人敬；以信办事，事事成。
诚信处世世界大，奸诈为人人格低。
没有诚信的坚强基石，法制便犹如是建在沙土上的高层建筑。
诚实是智慧之书的第一章。
个个互信，人人守法。
诚信走遍天下，法治和谐人间。
经常用诚信的尺子丈量自己，坚持以诚信的言行对待别人。
诚存人自乐,法正民自安。
法治与安定同在，诚信与文明共存。
手牵手，与法治同行；心连心，将诚信同铸。
倡导法治， 法治执根于社会;谋求诚信,诚信融汇于民心。
信用制度是市场经济的助推器和安全阀。
立警为公执法为民长霞精神耀神州，与时俱进诚信俱佳玉儒形象映中华。
做人要诚信，做事要守法。
用诚信美化心灵，用法治规范社会。
法纪为天平，岂容人情充筹码；诚信作准绳，不许利欲乱曲直。
经营有法有道，交往以信以诚 。
生命因诚信而美丽，生活因守法而精彩。
诚信不能只挂在嘴上，法律不能只写在纸上。
铸诚信，万事兴；严法治，国必强。
人人参与，共铸诚信；个个努力，推进法治。
以诚取信心灵美,依法循规事业兴。
做诚信之人， 铸法治之国。
虚假呈一时之得，诚信享一世之裕。
做人以诚信为本， 治市以法律为基。
诚信提升城市品位，法治推动文明进步。
欺诈只能得逞一时，诚信才能受益一生。
信达于诚，方能勤政。法精于治，方能谐民。
诚信缔造和谐社会，法治铸就平安生活。
人生百年以诚为贵，国家兴旺依法则灵。
诚信三冬暖，失信三伏寒 。
诚信展现人格魅力，法治推进社会文明。
诚信与责任同在，法治与发展共存 。
手拉手共铸诚信,心连心推进法制。
吹响诚信号角，高举法治大旗。
诚信是面镜子，时刻照射着我们身边的每一个人。
做人讲诚则灵，治国依法则兴。
诚信交得天下友，法治换得万家安。
法治造就和谐社会，诚信成就积极人生。
人无信不立， 国无法不安。
生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
崇尚诚信，华夏春风暖；推行法治，神州正气扬。
诚信不可无，贪念不可有；做人莫忘法，做事莫违法。
守信万里还嫌近，无信一寸步难行。
诚信塑人，法治兴邦。
切勿丢掉诚信，当你回过头再去捡它的时候，它已失去了原有的色彩！
谁如果失去了金钱，他只是失去了他能再次得到的东西，要是谁失去了诚信，他就会失去了他再也不会得到的东西。
1、 诚信是人最美丽的外套，是心灵最圣洁的鲜花。
2、 诚信是你价格不菲的鞋子，踏遍千山万水，质量也应永恒不变。
3、 诚信像一面镜子，一旦打破，你的人格就会出现裂痕。
4、 诚信是道路，随着开拓者的脚步延伸；诚信是智慧，随着博学者的求索积累；诚信是成功，随着奋进者的拼搏临近；诚信是财富的种子，只要你诚心种下，就能找到打开金库的钥匙。
5、 诚信是做人之根本，立业之基。
6、 创起诚信校园，树起诚信学风，成为诚信学子。
7、 诚信为本，学做真人。
8、 诚信为荣，失信可耻。
9、 最大限度的诚实是最好的处事之道。
10、 诚实守信是面明镜，不诚实的人在他面前，都会露出真相。
11、 没有诚实，何来尊严？
12、 诚实是上策。
13、 一切有成效的工作都是以某种诚信为先决条件。
14、 不诚则有累，诚则无累。
15、 诚信是沟通心灵的桥梁，善于欺骗的人，永远到不了桥的另一端。
16、 诚信，是一股清泉，它将洗去欺诈的肮脏，让世界的每一个角落都流淌着洁净。
17、 诚信，让心灵无瑕，让友谊长存，让世界美好！
18、 知识是财富，诚信也是一种财富，拥有知识能使你变得充实，拥有诚信能使世界变得更美好！
19、 诚，乃信之本；无诚，何以言信？诚而有信，方为人生．
20、 诚信，如一把钥匙，打开你我心中那扇门上的锁，让我们敞开心扉，沐浴那友谊的阳光。
21、 诚信，是人类文明的阶梯；诚信，是填补人类间隔的碎石。
22、 诚信是一种自我约束的品质，不是通过一篇文章或一句话就能检验得出的。
23、 诚信是人的本钱，没有诚信的人是一个失败者。
24、 诚信比一切智谋更好。
25、 诚信就像人身上不可缺的钙，没钙的还能算作人吗？
26、 诚信就像人生航船的楫桨，控制着人生的去向。
27、 诚信犹如一颗青涩的果，你咬一口，虽然很苦，却回味无穷，倘若你将它丢弃，便会终身遗憾！
28、 生活是需要诚信的，有了诚信才会有幸福可言。
29、 生命不可能从谎言中开出灿烂的鲜花。
30、 诚实是人生的命脉，是一切价值的根基。
31、 诚实是一种力量的象征，它显示着一个人的高度自重和内心的安全感与尊严感。
32、 如果要别人诚信，首先要自己诚信。
33、 失去了诚信，就等同于敌人毁灭了自己。
34、 诚实的人必须对自己守信，他的最后靠山就是真诚。
35、 诚信是人生之本。
36、 诚信者，受人爱戴尊敬也。
37、 诚信是友谊的必备条件。
38、 诚信，是一个人立足社会的先导。
39、 诚信是人生路途中的第一准则。
40、 诚信是一种美德，会让你更加完美。
41、 诚实守信是做人的根本，是世界上最美丽的花朵。
42、 诚实守信，快乐人生。
43、 诚信就是取之不尽、用之不竭的知识、金钱。
44、 诚信，世界需要你。
45、 诚信创造财富。
46、 不讲诚信的人，是可悲的、可怜的、可恨的，也是可怕的。
47、 只有种下诚信的苗，才能结出诚信的果。
48、 有其言，无其行，君子之耻也。
49、 给心灵一片净土，给诚信一片天地，人生的道路让我们与诚信同行。
50、 人如以诚信为本，就能塑造完美人生。
诚信格言摘录
1、内不欺己，外不欺人。 ———孔子
2、人而无信，不知其可也。 ———孔子
3、言必信，行必果。 ——子路
4、你必须以诚待人，别人才会以诚回报。 ———李嘉诚
5、诚实是人生永远最美好的品格。 ———高尔基
6、老老实实最能打动人心。 ———莎士比亚
7、没有一处遗产像诚实那样丰富的了。 ———莎士比亚
8、对自己的忠实，才不会对别人欺诈。 ———莎士比亚
9、诚实和勤勉应该成为你永久的伴侣。 ———本·富兰克林
10、 难听的实话胜过动听的谎言。 ———苏尤里·郁达列夫
11、 坦白使人心地轻松的妙药。 ———西塞罗
12、 即使开始时，怀有故意的人，只要自己抱有真实和诚实去接触，就一定能换来好意。
———日本 池田大作
13、 诚实是艺术的最大要素。只要我们总对自己诚实，艺术总在那里，它决不会让我们失望的。 ———柯尼利亚·奥提斯金约
14、 有所许诺，纤毫必偿。有所期约，时刻不易。 ———袁采
15、 诚实比一切智谋更好，而且它是智谋的基本条件。 ———康德
16、 要宣扬你的一切，不必用你的言语，要用你的本来面目。 ———卢梭
17、 忠诚的高尚和可敬，无与伦比。 ———裴多菲
18、 我们应该老老实实地办事。 ———毛泽东
19、 做老实人，说老实话，干老实事，就是实事求是。 ——— 邓小
嚴長壽 / 每個打擊，都有它的意義
嚴長壽 / 每個打擊，都有它的意義
不祈求一帆風順，萬事如意，我只祈求當每個問題發生時，有繼續面對問題的勇氣與毅力，支撐下去。
人生路上，挫折常常會沒有預警地從四面八方襲來。
可能是無法抗拒的天災地變；可能是難以預料的生老病死；可能是努力工作，卻懷才不遇；可能是全心付出，卻換來情人變心的回報；可能是用功苦讀，卻進不了理想的學校；可能是辛苦創業，卻落得血本無歸的下場。
面對各種不同的挫折，每個人的「容忍能力」都不同。
有的人受不了被拒絕
一個高學歷的朋友，從拒絕接受他感情的女生住處跳樓自殺，留下無限的遺憾與惋惜。
「他條件那麼好，還怕找不到更漂亮的女朋友嗎？」
「沒想到他長的那麼帥，還會殉情！」
「何苦如此專情？天涯何處無芳草！」
大部份的親友們都以為他是個死心眼的癡情奇男子，其實了解內情的人都曉得，從小到大，他不知道拋棄了多少個女朋友，讓多少人為他傷心難過，卻受不了被人拋棄一次。
有的人受不了被誤解
到國外留學多年的朋友，提起出國一段不甚愉快的職場往事，仍然氣憤難耐。
當年因上班的地點，位於寸土寸金的商業精華區，幾乎每天都為了找停車位而遲到。
直屬上司希望他能準時上班，便建議他把車子停在公司的停車位。
由於職位低、年資淺，朋友心想「公司的停車位哪輪得到我來停呢？」
為求慎重起見，他再三詢問上司「不會有問題嗎？真的可以停嗎？」
上司拍著胸脯保證，「絕對沒有問題，可以停啦！」
不料第一天把車子停在公司的停車位，就出事了。
上班後不久，上司突然叫他「你的電話。」
拿起話筒，劈頭就被一個陌生女子罵了一頓「我是公司的副理，立刻把你的車子開走。誰叫你把車停在我的位子上，害我上班遲到！」
被對方罵得莫名其妙，上司卻一點表示也沒有，朋友立即提出辭呈，不管公司怎麼留都沒有用。
有的人受不了被挑出錯誤
我認識一個辦事能力很強的朋友，他什麼都好，就是受不了被挑出錯誤。
只要，有人當眾指出他「哪裡做錯了」便辭職不幹。
很多時候，面試他的主管起初都想不通，以他的學歷，早就該升官了，為什麼一直在原地打轉？
等他提出辭呈才恍然大悟，原來他受不了被挑出錯誤。
有的人受不了一點不完美
好友的女兒生日，特地邀請幾個漂亮的阿姨去為小朋友慶生。
切蛋糕時，有個小客人拿到蛋糕缺一角，他馬上把蛋糕推開，「我不要吃破一個洞的蛋糕！」
「只缺一小角啊，蛋糕還是很好吃喔！」
任憑阿姨們說破嘴，他就是不接受這塊缺了一角的蛋糕，最後只好換一塊「完美無缺」的蛋糕給他。
看他為了一點缺角而拒吃蛋糕的表情，我很替他的未來擔心，是否每次都能如願換到一塊完美無缺的蛋糕呢？
１、想想自己，受得了挫折嗎？
２、受得了被拒絕嗎？
３、受得了被誤解嗎？
４、受得了被挑出錯誤嗎？
５、受得了失敗的打擊嗎？
６、受得了期待落空嗎？
７、受得了不完美的存在嗎？
「挫折容忍度」，說簡單些，即是「一個人承受打擊的能力」。
承受打擊的能力越強，自然學到的經驗越多，累積的成功及本錢也越多。
承受打擊的能力越弱，自然會想辦法躲避挫折，同時喪失自我磨練的機會。
挫折，是年輕人最好的禮物
記得曾看過一篇文章，作者提到：他剛從軍中退伍時，只有高中學歷，無一技之長，只好到一家印刷廠，擔任「送貨員」。
一天，這年輕人將一整車四、五十捆的書，送到某大學的七樓辦公室；當他先把兩三捆的書扛到電梯口等候時，一位五十多歲的警衛走過來，說：「這電梯是給教授、老師搭乘的，其他人一律都不准搭，你必須走樓梯！」
年輕人向警衛解釋：「我不是學生，我是要送一整車的書到七樓辦公室，這是你們學校訂的書啊！」
可是警衛一臉無情的說：「不行就是不行，你不是教授，不是老師，不准搭電梯！」
兩人在電梯口吵半天，但警衛依然不予放行，年輕人心想，這一車的書，要搬完，至少要來回走七層樓梯二十多趟，會累死人的！
後來，年輕人無法忍受這「無理的刁難」，就心一橫，把四、五十捆書搬放在大廳角落，不顧一切的走人。
年輕人向印刷廠老闆解釋事情原委，獲得諒解，但也向老闆辭職，並且立刻到書局買整套高中教材和參考書，含淚發誓，我一定要奮發圖強，考上大學，我絕不再讓別人「瞧不起」。
這年輕人在聯考前半年，天天閉門苦讀十四個小時，因為他知道，他的時間不多了，他已無退路可走，每當他偷懶、懈怠時，腦中就想起「警衛不准他搭電梯」被羞辱、歧視的一幕，也就打起精神、加倍努力用功。
後來，這年輕人終於考上某大學醫學院。
如今，二十多年過去了，他也變成一家開業診所的中年醫生，然而，他靜心一想，當時，要不是「警衛無理刁難和歧視」，他怎能從屈辱中擦乾眼淚、勇敢站起來？
而那位被他痛恨的警衛，不也是他一生中的恩人嗎？
經國先生曾說：「失意時需要忍，得意時需要淡。」
的確，人，都有失意，不順遂的時候，然而，我更相信！「挫折，是年輕人最好的禮物！」
人只有在遭遇挫折，被他人百般刁難、岐視、嘲諷時，才能「打醒自己」，讓自己被「當頭棒喝」而驚醒過來！這豈不是一生中最珍貴的禮物？
因此，如果現在的挫折，能帶給你未來幸福，請忍受它。
如果現在的快樂，會帶給你未來不幸，請拋棄它。
「生命中的每個挫折、每個傷痛、每個打擊，都有它的意義。」
祝福大家都能夠突破自己所不能突破的難關。
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不祈求一帆風順，萬事如意，我只祈求當每個問題發生時，有繼續面對問題的勇氣與毅力，支撐下去。
人生路上，挫折常常會沒有預警地從四面八方襲來。
可能是無法抗拒的天災地變；可能是難以預料的生老病死；可能是努力工作，卻懷才不遇；可能是全心付出，卻換來情人變心的回報；可能是用功苦讀，卻進不了理想的學校；可能是辛苦創業，卻落得血本無歸的下場。
面對各種不同的挫折，每個人的「容忍能力」都不同。
有的人受不了被拒絕
一個高學歷的朋友，從拒絕接受他感情的女生住處跳樓自殺，留下無限的遺憾與惋惜。
「他條件那麼好，還怕找不到更漂亮的女朋友嗎？」
「沒想到他長的那麼帥，還會殉情！」
「何苦如此專情？天涯何處無芳草！」
大部份的親友們都以為他是個死心眼的癡情奇男子，其實了解內情的人都曉得，從小到大，他不知道拋棄了多少個女朋友，讓多少人為他傷心難過，卻受不了被人拋棄一次。
有的人受不了被誤解
到國外留學多年的朋友，提起出國一段不甚愉快的職場往事，仍然氣憤難耐。
當年因上班的地點，位於寸土寸金的商業精華區，幾乎每天都為了找停車位而遲到。
直屬上司希望他能準時上班，便建議他把車子停在公司的停車位。
由於職位低、年資淺，朋友心想「公司的停車位哪輪得到我來停呢？」
為求慎重起見，他再三詢問上司「不會有問題嗎？真的可以停嗎？」
上司拍著胸脯保證，「絕對沒有問題，可以停啦！」
不料第一天把車子停在公司的停車位，就出事了。
上班後不久，上司突然叫他「你的電話。」
拿起話筒，劈頭就被一個陌生女子罵了一頓「我是公司的副理，立刻把你的車子開走。誰叫你把車停在我的位子上，害我上班遲到！」
被對方罵得莫名其妙，上司卻一點表示也沒有，朋友立即提出辭呈，不管公司怎麼留都沒有用。
有的人受不了被挑出錯誤
我認識一個辦事能力很強的朋友，他什麼都好，就是受不了被挑出錯誤。
只要，有人當眾指出他「哪裡做錯了」便辭職不幹。
很多時候，面試他的主管起初都想不通，以他的學歷，早就該升官了，為什麼一直在原地打轉？
等他提出辭呈才恍然大悟，原來他受不了被挑出錯誤。
有的人受不了一點不完美
好友的女兒生日，特地邀請幾個漂亮的阿姨去為小朋友慶生。
切蛋糕時，有個小客人拿到蛋糕缺一角，他馬上把蛋糕推開，「我不要吃破一個洞的蛋糕！」
「只缺一小角啊，蛋糕還是很好吃喔！」
任憑阿姨們說破嘴，他就是不接受這塊缺了一角的蛋糕，最後只好換一塊「完美無缺」的蛋糕給他。
看他為了一點缺角而拒吃蛋糕的表情，我很替他的未來擔心，是否每次都能如願換到一塊完美無缺的蛋糕呢？
１、想想自己，受得了挫折嗎？
２、受得了被拒絕嗎？
３、受得了被誤解嗎？
４、受得了被挑出錯誤嗎？
５、受得了失敗的打擊嗎？
６、受得了期待落空嗎？
７、受得了不完美的存在嗎？
「挫折容忍度」，說簡單些，即是「一個人承受打擊的能力」。
承受打擊的能力越強，自然學到的經驗越多，累積的成功及本錢也越多。
承受打擊的能力越弱，自然會想辦法躲避挫折，同時喪失自我磨練的機會。
挫折，是年輕人最好的禮物
記得曾看過一篇文章，作者提到：他剛從軍中退伍時，只有高中學歷，無一技之長，只好到一家印刷廠，擔任「送貨員」。
一天，這年輕人將一整車四、五十捆的書，送到某大學的七樓辦公室；當他先把兩三捆的書扛到電梯口等候時，一位五十多歲的警衛走過來，說：「這電梯是給教授、老師搭乘的，其他人一律都不准搭，你必須走樓梯！」
年輕人向警衛解釋：「我不是學生，我是要送一整車的書到七樓辦公室，這是你們學校訂的書啊！」
可是警衛一臉無情的說：「不行就是不行，你不是教授，不是老師，不准搭電梯！」
兩人在電梯口吵半天，但警衛依然不予放行，年輕人心想，這一車的書，要搬完，至少要來回走七層樓梯二十多趟，會累死人的！
後來，年輕人無法忍受這「無理的刁難」，就心一橫，把四、五十捆書搬放在大廳角落，不顧一切的走人。
年輕人向印刷廠老闆解釋事情原委，獲得諒解，但也向老闆辭職，並且立刻到書局買整套高中教材和參考書，含淚發誓，我一定要奮發圖強，考上大學，我絕不再讓別人「瞧不起」。
這年輕人在聯考前半年，天天閉門苦讀十四個小時，因為他知道，他的時間不多了，他已無退路可走，每當他偷懶、懈怠時，腦中就想起「警衛不准他搭電梯」被羞辱、歧視的一幕，也就打起精神、加倍努力用功。
後來，這年輕人終於考上某大學醫學院。
如今，二十多年過去了，他也變成一家開業診所的中年醫生，然而，他靜心一想，當時，要不是「警衛無理刁難和歧視」，他怎能從屈辱中擦乾眼淚、勇敢站起來？
而那位被他痛恨的警衛，不也是他一生中的恩人嗎？
經國先生曾說：「失意時需要忍，得意時需要淡。」
的確，人，都有失意，不順遂的時候，然而，我更相信！「挫折，是年輕人最好的禮物！」
人只有在遭遇挫折，被他人百般刁難、岐視、嘲諷時，才能「打醒自己」，讓自己被「當頭棒喝」而驚醒過來！這豈不是一生中最珍貴的禮物？
因此，如果現在的挫折，能帶給你未來幸福，請忍受它。
如果現在的快樂，會帶給你未來不幸，請拋棄它。
「生命中的每個挫折、每個傷痛、每個打擊，都有它的意義。」
祝福大家都能夠突破自己所不能突破的難關。
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做一个老师挺苦挺累的，做一个好教师就更苦更累了，但这是我们选择的职业，所以我们要做的只有默默工作。
每一个孩子都是可爱的，虽然他们有的可能学习成绩有些差强人意，但他是运动会上的冠军，是劳动中的能手，是他主动送生病的同学回家，谁能说他不是个好孩子，又有谁是完美的呢？
曾经读到一个故事，故事说古代有位老禅师，一日晚看见见墙角边有一张椅子，是哪位出家人违犯寺规越墙出去遛达了。老禅师也不声张，走到墙边，移开椅子，就地而蹲。少顷，果真有一小和尚翻墙，黑暗中踩着老禅师的背脊跳进了院子。当他发觉刚才踏的不是椅子，而是自己的师傅时，惊慌失措，张口结舌。但师傅并没有厉声责备他，只是以平静的语调说：“夜深天凉，快去多穿一件衣服。”
我又常常想，老师也应该对学生宽容再宽容一些，芸芸众生，各有所长，各有所短，可能他们经常无法克制自己的言行，无法很好地完成学习任务，不一定有辉煌的未来，可是谁说一个平凡的人就比谁低人一等呢？像故事中的那个老和尚，就清楚地知道，宽容是一种无声的教育。
昨天听了王老师的一节美术课。同学们认真的捏着泥人，同时也有交流的说话声，以至于部分同学没有听到王老师组织下一步教学的内容。这时，王老师提出了两个问题我很欣赏：1、同学们捏泥人是不是玩得很高兴啊？2、是不是高兴过了头刹不住车了呢?我相信，每一位学生都明白了老师的意思，也应该知道接下来应该怎么做。课上每位同学都积极地动了手，课下我对泥人的特点、捏泥人的技法等对学生进行了提问，他们掌握的很好，这节课？成功！
学生对我们教师的要求并不高，只要我们真心一点，平等一点，赏识一点，他们就会心满意足，“言听计从”。在以后的日子里我会努力地蹲下身子与学生对话，也努力着去用自身的行动，去影响他们。
每天把笑脸送给每个人，我们的领导，我们的同事，我们的好学生，还要有我们的家人。
《宽容是一种无声的教育》来自斐斐课件园！http://www.FFKJ.Net
每一个孩子都是可爱的，虽然他们有的可能学习成绩有些差强人意，但他是运动会上的冠军，是劳动中的能手，是他主动送生病的同学回家，谁能说他不是个好孩子，又有谁是完美的呢？
曾经读到一个故事，故事说古代有位老禅师，一日晚看见见墙角边有一张椅子，是哪位出家人违犯寺规越墙出去遛达了。老禅师也不声张，走到墙边，移开椅子，就地而蹲。少顷，果真有一小和尚翻墙，黑暗中踩着老禅师的背脊跳进了院子。当他发觉刚才踏的不是椅子，而是自己的师傅时，惊慌失措，张口结舌。但师傅并没有厉声责备他，只是以平静的语调说：“夜深天凉，快去多穿一件衣服。”
我又常常想，老师也应该对学生宽容再宽容一些，芸芸众生，各有所长，各有所短，可能他们经常无法克制自己的言行，无法很好地完成学习任务，不一定有辉煌的未来，可是谁说一个平凡的人就比谁低人一等呢？像故事中的那个老和尚，就清楚地知道，宽容是一种无声的教育。
昨天听了王老师的一节美术课。同学们认真的捏着泥人，同时也有交流的说话声，以至于部分同学没有听到王老师组织下一步教学的内容。这时，王老师提出了两个问题我很欣赏：1、同学们捏泥人是不是玩得很高兴啊？2、是不是高兴过了头刹不住车了呢?我相信，每一位学生都明白了老师的意思，也应该知道接下来应该怎么做。课上每位同学都积极地动了手，课下我对泥人的特点、捏泥人的技法等对学生进行了提问，他们掌握的很好，这节课？成功！
学生对我们教师的要求并不高，只要我们真心一点，平等一点，赏识一点，他们就会心满意足，“言听计从”。在以后的日子里我会努力地蹲下身子与学生对话，也努力着去用自身的行动，去影响他们。
每天把笑脸送给每个人，我们的领导，我们的同事，我们的好学生，还要有我们的家人。
《宽容是一种无声的教育》来自斐斐课件园！http://www.FFKJ.Net
屈指可算，距离考试在校时间也就是十天左右了，昨天，我在班里开了一个小讲座，内容如下：
●学会正确评价自己,正确对待家长和教师的期望和评价,避免盲目自信或自卑。坚信“我行!舍我其谁?”的心理暗示作用能让自己的水平正常发挥出来。
●重视考前10天的休息和睡眠。考前10天要适当放松:听音乐、看电视、听心理辅导或应考技巧讲座。晚上睡前不喝刺激性饮料;注意不要太早休息,但也不要太晚,
合理安排学习时间和内容
●适当浏览书本,最好在10天的时间内,闭目思索一下各科的知识网络,把重点内容像看电影一样想象一下,把时间重点放在已经做过的模拟题和错题本上。
注意调节身体状况,防病治病
●合理安排运动,避免参加大运动量的项目和进行长时间的运动。
●合理安排饮食品种,多补充一些易消化的富含蛋白质的食品,适当地吃一些蔬菜和水果,生食水果要注意卫生。注意预防感冒、中暑、腹泻、外伤等突发疾病。有病的哪怕是小病亦不要讳疾忌医,要尽快治好,以免影响考试的精神状态。
《考前十天的心理辅导：合理作息，调整心态》这一教学反思，来自斐斐课件园！http://www.FFKJ.Net
●学会正确评价自己,正确对待家长和教师的期望和评价,避免盲目自信或自卑。坚信“我行!舍我其谁?”的心理暗示作用能让自己的水平正常发挥出来。
●重视考前10天的休息和睡眠。考前10天要适当放松:听音乐、看电视、听心理辅导或应考技巧讲座。晚上睡前不喝刺激性饮料;注意不要太早休息,但也不要太晚,
合理安排学习时间和内容
●适当浏览书本,最好在10天的时间内,闭目思索一下各科的知识网络,把重点内容像看电影一样想象一下,把时间重点放在已经做过的模拟题和错题本上。
注意调节身体状况,防病治病
●合理安排运动,避免参加大运动量的项目和进行长时间的运动。
●合理安排饮食品种,多补充一些易消化的富含蛋白质的食品,适当地吃一些蔬菜和水果,生食水果要注意卫生。注意预防感冒、中暑、腹泻、外伤等突发疾病。有病的哪怕是小病亦不要讳疾忌医,要尽快治好,以免影响考试的精神状态。
《考前十天的心理辅导：合理作息，调整心态》这一教学反思，来自斐斐课件园！http://www.FFKJ.Net
Lessons Learnt from 李嘉诚
When u are in a hard conditons, asking yourselves whether u have enough conditions:-
Able to save
Able to humble
Willing to learn everyday
Able to build a reputation 信誉第一 prestige first
Confidence to yourselves: i'm able to success in future as my previous belief is correct
Willing to work hard, sacrifice myself & not others.
Sensitive to people & be responsible for the tasks. Receive & give back.
Know to contribute back to the communities
To be success never too late as long as i focus on my goals & hold my believes.
Learning while achieving my dreams of earning money.
Top 10 Goals:
1. Working in Kuwait / Abu Dhabi / Arab Saudi / Korea as a English teacher, having many allowances while monthly salary about RM 10000.
(Get a master holder from a renowned University-British, IELTS/ CELTA /DELTA certs in KL)Part time learning if x getting scholarship. Full time- scholarship.
2. Amway Business while i graduated from study at UNISEL. By the way, i can still follow up with new distributors & sells to new customers. Who r interested in business will be OPP by me. If not, just be customers. 20 distributors who are willing seriously want to be at the top of status- 20 diamonds & 10 SP to achieve 70FAA.
3. As a private tutor on my free time, in home or tuition center. To earn > RM2000.
4. Learnt from at least a lesson after a day, like what i have done previously.
5. Observe different kinds of people, help in direct selling.
6. Need to know although maintain a good networking is good, however, be pure to others is important as well. Keep self-love and self-respect.
7. Know recent news- read news.
8. Obtain knowledge by reading books.
9. Maybank insurance agent.
10. Spread Gospels!!!
Able to save
Able to humble
Willing to learn everyday
Able to build a reputation 信誉第一 prestige first
Confidence to yourselves: i'm able to success in future as my previous belief is correct
Willing to work hard, sacrifice myself & not others.
Sensitive to people & be responsible for the tasks. Receive & give back.
Know to contribute back to the communities
To be success never too late as long as i focus on my goals & hold my believes.
Learning while achieving my dreams of earning money.
Top 10 Goals:
1. Working in Kuwait / Abu Dhabi / Arab Saudi / Korea as a English teacher, having many allowances while monthly salary about RM 10000.
(Get a master holder from a renowned University-British, IELTS/ CELTA /DELTA certs in KL)Part time learning if x getting scholarship. Full time- scholarship.
2. Amway Business while i graduated from study at UNISEL. By the way, i can still follow up with new distributors & sells to new customers. Who r interested in business will be OPP by me. If not, just be customers. 20 distributors who are willing seriously want to be at the top of status- 20 diamonds & 10 SP to achieve 70FAA.
3. As a private tutor on my free time, in home or tuition center. To earn > RM2000.
4. Learnt from at least a lesson after a day, like what i have done previously.
5. Observe different kinds of people, help in direct selling.
6. Need to know although maintain a good networking is good, however, be pure to others is important as well. Keep self-love and self-respect.
7. Know recent news- read news.
8. Obtain knowledge by reading books.
9. Maybank insurance agent.
10. Spread Gospels!!!
Monday, June 6, 2011
箴言作者勉勵我們「在（你）一切所行的事上，都要認定祂。」神對我們說，來倚靠我，仰賴我吧，來向我傾心吐意，向我詢問，向我求；告訴我你們今天的計劃，告訴我你們面對的困難，與我分享你們的盼望和夢想，你們的懼怕和失敗 —— 換言之，將一切放在禱告之中。
如果没有人相信你，那就自己相信自己；如果没人欣赏你，那就自己欣赏自己；如果没人祝福你，那就自己祝福自己。用心去触摸属于自己的阳光，用爱去创造属于自己的时空。当自己读懂了自己，世界才能读懂你。
唯一能讓事情有所改變的就是你自己！
「我是尊貴的，我是被愛的。上帝對我的生命有一個很棒的計劃，我走到哪兒都有恩惠、慈愛隨著我。上帝的福分澆灌我，甚至要滿溢出來了，凡我手做的盡都成功興盛。我對未來充滿期待！」
there are many distractions in this world.
Some are pleasant; some are not. But whether they are pleasant or not, when you get swayed by distractions, you will lose your focus. What is important to you? Focus on that and then when you need a break, you can choose to allow to be distracted.
it is also important to know what you do not want.
Sometimes when you go through a period of great difficulty and struggle, it is so that you can finally realize what you do NOT want in your life. Then finally, at long last, you can embrace what you DO want.
you can be like a tree which is both rooted and reaching.
In what ways can you root yourself in a reality or an environment which serves your need for stability? And in which ways can you reach toward the heavens for inspiration and connection to Divine?
your seriousness feeds your ego, and keeps you away from God.
Seriousness makes you dull and dry. It feeds your sense of self-importance, that becomes a mountain between you and God. Drop your seriousness, and open the path to God.
this very message is a little hug.
Hugs tell us many things; that we are loved, that we are important, that we are valued. This message is a little hug from God telling you all those things. Enjoy it, be blessed by it and try to figure out a way to hug God back.
devotion to God begins with devotion to your family and community.
It is much easier to proclaim abstract and remote love, then to step into the midst of living and keep an open heart through the thick of it. Be there where you are needed the most.
when events happen which seem catastrophic, it is not only possible, but very important for you to allow yourself to come to a place of calmness.
Panicking serves no
if you're feeling stressed, take care of your body.
Breathe, stretch, move, get a massage. Your body will thank you and your spirit will feel renewed. God wants us to take care of body, mind, and spirit.
suffering, and not the the people who areone - not yourself, not planet. Allow yourself to trust that there is a larger purpose and that it may not be necessary for you to know that purpose at this time. Allow yourself to have faith that ultimately, all will be well.
如果没有人相信你，那就自己相信自己；如果没人欣赏你，那就自己欣赏自己；如果没人祝福你，那就自己祝福自己。用心去触摸属于自己的阳光，用爱去创造属于自己的时空。当自己读懂了自己，世界才能读懂你。
唯一能讓事情有所改變的就是你自己！
「我是尊貴的，我是被愛的。上帝對我的生命有一個很棒的計劃，我走到哪兒都有恩惠、慈愛隨著我。上帝的福分澆灌我，甚至要滿溢出來了，凡我手做的盡都成功興盛。我對未來充滿期待！」
there are many distractions in this world.
Some are pleasant; some are not. But whether they are pleasant or not, when you get swayed by distractions, you will lose your focus. What is important to you? Focus on that and then when you need a break, you can choose to allow to be distracted.
it is also important to know what you do not want.
Sometimes when you go through a period of great difficulty and struggle, it is so that you can finally realize what you do NOT want in your life. Then finally, at long last, you can embrace what you DO want.
you can be like a tree which is both rooted and reaching.
In what ways can you root yourself in a reality or an environment which serves your need for stability? And in which ways can you reach toward the heavens for inspiration and connection to Divine?
your seriousness feeds your ego, and keeps you away from God.
Seriousness makes you dull and dry. It feeds your sense of self-importance, that becomes a mountain between you and God. Drop your seriousness, and open the path to God.
this very message is a little hug.
Hugs tell us many things; that we are loved, that we are important, that we are valued. This message is a little hug from God telling you all those things. Enjoy it, be blessed by it and try to figure out a way to hug God back.
devotion to God begins with devotion to your family and community.
It is much easier to proclaim abstract and remote love, then to step into the midst of living and keep an open heart through the thick of it. Be there where you are needed the most.
when events happen which seem catastrophic, it is not only possible, but very important for you to allow yourself to come to a place of calmness.
Panicking serves no
if you're feeling stressed, take care of your body.
Breathe, stretch, move, get a massage. Your body will thank you and your spirit will feel renewed. God wants us to take care of body, mind, and spirit.
suffering, and not the the people who areone - not yourself, not planet. Allow yourself to trust that there is a larger purpose and that it may not be necessary for you to know that purpose at this time. Allow yourself to have faith that ultimately, all will be well.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
SEM 6
Moral Studies
Educational Sociology
Media resources in ELT
SEM 5
1 CES2213 INTRODUCTION TO PSYCHOLINGUISTICS jaga 5a 3
2 CES2313 TEACHING OF READING SKILLS SEM 5A 3
3 CES3123 MATERIAL SELECTION AND ADAPTATION - 3
4 CES3133 TEACHING OF WRITING SKILLS Mr Mus 3
5 CLS2213 THEATRE IN TESL Miss Tina 3
6 CPS2213 EDUCATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY Tn Haji
SEM 4
Course Description
1 CES2113 INTRODUCTION TO SOCIOLINGUISTICS
2 CES2143 TEACHING OF ENGLISH GRAMMAR
3 CES2153 READING FOR ACADEMIC PURPOSES
4 CES2223 ACADEMIC AND BUSINESS WRITING SKILLS
5 CES2243 TEACHING OF AURAL-ORAL SKILLS
6 CPS2113 TEACHING TECHNIQUES AND CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT
Sem 3
A Survey of Prose Forms & Poetry
English Phonetics & Phonology
Sem 2
Subject: Japanese 1 >>
Subject: Speech & Communication
Subject: English Syntax & Methodology >>find info again
Subject: Principles of Second Learning & Teaching >>
Subject: TESL Methodology >>
GAMES
EDUCATION EMPHASIS
LESSON PLANNING
TPR
PPP- describe each
Subject: Computer & Technology in Education
Subject: Co-curriculum
Sem 1
Subject: Pengajian Malaysia
Introduction to General Linguistics
English Grammar
Malaysian Literature
Language Awareness
Philosophy & Development of Education Industry
Language Learning Strategies & Study Skills
1 CES2213 INTRODUCTION TO PSYCHOLINGUISTICS jaga 5a 3
2 CES2313 TEACHING OF READING SKILLS SEM 5A 3
3 CES3123 MATERIAL SELECTION AND ADAPTATION - 3
4 CES3133 TEACHING OF WRITING SKILLS Mr Mus 3
5 CLS2213 THEATRE IN TESL Miss Tina 3
6 CPS2213 EDUCATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY Tn Haji
SEM 4
Course Description
1 CES2113 INTRODUCTION TO SOCIOLINGUISTICS
2 CES2143 TEACHING OF ENGLISH GRAMMAR
3 CES2153 READING FOR ACADEMIC PURPOSES
4 CES2223 ACADEMIC AND BUSINESS WRITING SKILLS
5 CES2243 TEACHING OF AURAL-ORAL SKILLS
6 CPS2113 TEACHING TECHNIQUES AND CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT
Sem 3
A Survey of Prose Forms & Poetry
English Phonetics & Phonology
Sem 2
Subject: Japanese 1 >>
Subject: Speech & Communication
Subject: English Syntax & Methodology >>find info again
Subject: Principles of Second Learning & Teaching >>
Subject: TESL Methodology >>
GAMES
EDUCATION EMPHASIS
LESSON PLANNING
TPR
PPP- describe each
Subject: Computer & Technology in Education
Subject: Co-curriculum
Sem 1
Subject: Pengajian Malaysia
Introduction to General Linguistics
English Grammar
Malaysian Literature
Language Awareness
Philosophy & Development of Education Industry
Language Learning Strategies & Study Skills
no matter what happens to you, you always have freedom of mind.
That means you always have freedom to choose the path of virtue over the path of suffering, to choose being one with God over being alone.
even when you do something wrong, even when you fail, even when you make poor choices, you are loved.
God is not a punitive. No doubt you will punish yourself enough for your mistakes. The question is: Will you try to do the right thing next time? Will you learn from your mistakes? Will you keep on loving and caring to the best of your ability?
it's time to remove everything unessential in your life.
Pairing down to essentials frees up energy and brings simplicity that are necessary for happiness.
you have allies in the world.
There are people who can help you navigate your way through the world. They can assist you in your healing and your growth. Seek out people who are supportive and wise and loving and honest. They will help you on your journey.
the more you are, the more you can be for others.
You cannot give to others what you do not have yourself. First, make yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually wealthy, and then freely give to others.
That means you always have freedom to choose the path of virtue over the path of suffering, to choose being one with God over being alone.
even when you do something wrong, even when you fail, even when you make poor choices, you are loved.
God is not a punitive. No doubt you will punish yourself enough for your mistakes. The question is: Will you try to do the right thing next time? Will you learn from your mistakes? Will you keep on loving and caring to the best of your ability?
it's time to remove everything unessential in your life.
Pairing down to essentials frees up energy and brings simplicity that are necessary for happiness.
you have allies in the world.
There are people who can help you navigate your way through the world. They can assist you in your healing and your growth. Seek out people who are supportive and wise and loving and honest. They will help you on your journey.
the more you are, the more you can be for others.
You cannot give to others what you do not have yourself. First, make yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually wealthy, and then freely give to others.
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